This guy just started working with us. I've developed feelings for him really fast abs kinda feels overwhelming. Like I think of him outside of work and find myself having excuses to talk with him. I’m married, he’s single. He knows I’m married since I’ve mentioned my husband in our team meetings. At first I was just kinda flirting without realizing it (he’s really attractive) but now I see i stumbled into something. He’s flirting back and now messaging me more as well. I’m confused why I feel this way and why I don’t want to stop. I can’t change work and I wouldn’t expect him to either. I need to figure out what’s going on with me. What do I do? I just took the rest of this week off for vacation just because it feels like each day we talk more and more.
I have a crush on my coworker but I’m married. Would it be a good idea to take a week off work to get my head straight?
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10 mo
Also to add, the attraction isn’t just bc he’s good looking but he’s really my type and we have obvious chemistry
