I don't mean a creep or some violent abusive devil.
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Do you think its true that women are attracted to men they fear or give off a aura of fear?
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I don't think healthy women are attracted to men they fear.
But some women are turned on by men who seem intimidating - a man who is larger and stronger than them, and who other men are deferential to. Such a man doesn't strut or try to act "alpha". He is so secure in his masculinity that he gives off an air of quiet confidence and self assurance, and the impression that he could be extremely dangerous if he had to be.
If a woman feels fear, it's more like awe, or the feeling she gets when she is about to get on an extreme thrill ride. It's kinda like the way women love being lifted, twirled and tossed around by a powerful man she can trust when dancing.
And then there is the fact that so many women love bodice ripper novels or have rape fantasies. They don't want to be raped. But there is a thrill about being helpless at the hands of a handsome dominant male who is driven wild with lust by her beauty.
A masculine man makes a women feel safe and secure, yet there is a feeling of danger at the thought of being ravished by him. Some women are submissive in bed and love being lifted, positioned and used hard by a dominant male. I think it gives those women a sense of empowerment to be able to take whatever he dishes out and to, in the end, make him docile after he cums. It means that they are as bad ass as he is.
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Some are, mostly because a lot of girls make stupid decisions. If a female fears a guy, she probably shouldn't date him because she's always looking over her shoulder, and she's paranoid, and often believes he's cheating. I had a friend once that was scared to death of this guy but dated him for 10 years and is still dating him the last I heard.
He's a narcissist and gets in her head and makes her believe that she can't do any better than him. That's usually how these situations are with the ones that date guys that give off a fear vibe.
If you have high testosterone. You naturally should have a dominant male bravado. This comes off as dominance and it looks as if though you can command and dominate all males around you.
So yes, with experience and natural testosterone YOU SHOULD give an aura of dominance and respect. If you have muscles, it should also add to it. Deep voice also adds to it. It’s a plethora of factors that can cause this energy.Look at movies like TMNT the character Raphael. Movies like Troy and look at Achilles. Movies like Fight Club and look at Tyler Durden.
These are examples of that male bravado that cause this intimidation and fear. It’s masculinity.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/j-Ze3KEhKnM
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I found my ex fiancé’s serious, mysterious aura very attractive, sometimes he was also kind of scary to be honest, I mean he had this intimidating aura, when he was angry, I couldn’t help but crawl on his lap and try to make him kiss me again. I found him very sexy when he was angry.
But he was really sweet generally and always treated me gently. And that’s why I loved him. It’s just sometimes he was serious, mysterious and intimidating and I found it sexy.
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Maybe in a roundabout way. I wouldn't put it in those words. Women are attracted to men they have a healthy respect for. Men of consequence do draw a woman's attention. But it isn't men that are able to instill fear. It's men that are able to command respect. Violent criminals instill feat, they don't command respect. Women that see those types of guys as "powerful" probably did not have very good male role models in thier formative years. This is a definite problem for low quality women. Because they really do not know or understand what makes a quality guy.
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Of course. Bit, whether this is conscious will depend on her relationship with fear. If it's skittish then this biological reaction will be repressed and only come out in strange ways like denying that an obviously dangerous (in some fashion) man is in fact dangerous.
However, on a basic level it's very difficult for man who inspires zero fear to also serve as any sort of protector/provider or even useful ally for that matter. -
Lol.
I read the question the other way around at first. I really did.
That women are attracted to men who fear them.
I could expound upon that thought. I won't.
Lol again.
Joke aside, I guess some women are attracted to the "bad boy" image. Excitement, living on the edge, which is where life truly begins.
Maybe you meant something else. Maybe not.
Good question.
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Hard to say. I do feel some chemistry with one gal that works at the Subway attached to my store. I think part of the lure for both of us, is the realization that we can't have each other. She has to move back to help her family, and I in no way intend to stop her. Yet, her and I connect so well, and have some mutual interests. There's an element of wanting what you can't have.
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Sort of. To me, it sounds like it's not the "fear for my life" kind of fear but more of a "remind me to never piss you off" kind.
Think of it like someone who went through self defense training. The two parts that go into the training are the actual actions you take and how to be stoic knowing that you now have the power to physically hurt someone really badly at will, such as picking your battles.
It would seem that women would go for someone who is capable of great violence but only uses it to protect and not harm.
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Eh , my ex being roided out didn’t stop my 21 year old self from smacking the shit out of him when he shoved me.
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Yep
women love the possibility of being hit
not all women
but the ones who do should be avoided because they’re stuck in prepubescence
they will push your buttons just to see what they can get away with and that’s little girl energy
not a Woman
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Whatever type of man you are there will always be a group of woman that finds your type attractive while the rest of us look on and think WTF.
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As someone who is in abusive relationship I guess so. Its more complicated than that tbh
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No. At least none of the girls I've known. It's one thing if he's intimidating, but if she's scared of him? I don't think that's usually seen as attractive. More seen as scary.
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I met a woman who prefers a man who can command her. She wants a man who can tell her to shut or sit down. And many women want men like this.
While I want a woman who can resist my command. So we didn't work out😂 -
I think everything is true for some on some level... but in general no, I don't agree woman or men... or people in general are attracted to fear.
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I think, if anything, that women are often attracted to a guy who is feared by other guys.
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No and the ones who are in a relationship with such a man either don't realize that he guves off that vibe or they are too scared to leave.
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not at all... i orefer gentler people with gentle approach
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Nah, at least that's not been my experience.
Most women have had to become good at identifying threats and avoiding them.
But some people have, uh, strange reactions to some stimuli. -
If I feel any kind of fear towards a guy I’m running away.
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Yes that's a possibility but also keep in mind that women are also attracted to men who have fearless courage and confidence 😎🙂
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No. If that’s the case then those women are very stupid. There’s no security with fear
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No. I'm attracted to confidence and holding up if that's what you mean, but definitely not fear. It's the opposite 😄 fear is not good
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