When she says she has to find herself/needs space?

[Anonymous]

I've known this girl since Feb of this year. I noticed she added me on IG. I DM'd her to ask who she is and we kind of just developed a deeper bond over the last few months. She went to the same school as me and lives in the same city as me. She's asked me to meet up, she laughed at my jokes, she has mentioned some personal things to me, she'll send me meme's on social and answer my calls. She's even suggested ideas of what to do outside which she wants me to do with her. But in the last week, she hasn't been responding much -- she personally messaged me yesterday and apologized for not being around much. She said she's going to be off social media, that she feels overwhelmed about things, she emphasized its not about me, she needs space and needs to sort out stuff in her life. In these cases, its not based on a lack of interest on her end, it's just a matter of giving her space and that's pretty much it?

[BobLouis]

Sounds like a lack of interest if it's been a few months. You probably didn't express sexual desire early enough.

[Asker]

Not everyone who lives in the west is chasing to be fucked

[BobLouis]

Yes, but you have a sex drive she does too. You're speaking to her mind only and expressing any desire for her.

Men and women both come from the animal kingdom and you are treating her like she is a princess. In the past men used to have more than one woman and now you see ploy relationships increasing.

Its normal to have a sex drive. When you treat her like she's something better than you then she's not going to take you seriously. You need to express some desire for her so she knows.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Move along. Plenty of others out there