Are you comfortable in a bikini top in a hotel lobby?

[Anonymous]

I’m comfortable in the tiniest of bikinis on the beach I always wear cheeky and now I’ve been wearing thongs because I’ve always thought thongs look best on me I’ve got a tiny frame and a bigger bottom! I’m also huge up top I’m 4’11 95 pounds and a DD I was with my husband and our son at a little hotel going to the beach in my bikini and a swim skirt coverup. I got on the elevator and I felt like everyone was staring at my chest. I came back in just now and I’m with my husband and my son and 2 guys prob around my age (late 30s maybe 40) we’re like following me with their eyes 👀 staring at my chest! I don’t necessarily blame them it just made me extremely uncomfortable getting gawked out in front of my hubby and son. I don’t think I’ll wear a bikini top in a hotel lobby again. How about you?

[nolabels]

If you put your boobs out there on display, they're gonna get gawked at. I'm a man. My head has been turned by many a nice set of boobs. I try to be as polite as I can in so doing. Some guys may not yet have learned the art of subtle appreciation of the female form. I wouldn't let that stop you from being you.

When I make choices as how to be dressed in public, I own it. I don't worry nor care what others think or how they behave in regard to my dress. I'd feel like a prisoner if I did, not able to do what I want to do.

I wish you the best. 👍😊

[Mansearching]

I know you didn't know it was going to happen. Happen in past? To try and prevent next time, where a t-shirt. No one would stare. But I understand why you did it that way. Men shouldn't stare. Am I guilty of it, sure. Not going to lie. I try not to. Sometimes boobs look great. I'm sure women have stared at men's cut and built bodies. Nothing wrong with it.

But still its rude staring at a woman's breast. They're just breasts. Big deal.

All in all, wear a t-shirt until you get to beach.

[BasedBaeBecca]

It's understandable that you were made uncomfortable by the way others were looking at you. Having said that, if you feel comfortable wearing a tiny bikini that shows off your figure, then keep wearing it! Don't let other people's opinions and reactions dictate what you wear. You sound beautiful and confident, so flaunt what you have!

[soe11]

BasedBaeBecca
Positive and productive as well as encouraging.

[SadyConfused1998]

I like bikinis to have full coverage and no way in hell a thong

I am okay with a one piece, but rather wear the bikini when I have a choice.

I keep both for just in case a bikini is not appropriate for the area I would be at.

Like if the beach is full of little kids. One piece it is

[ItsChloe]

I’m 5’8 118lbs D cup. And I’ll quite happily wear a thong bikini in a hotel lobby (but only if it’s a beach front hotel or a hotel on a resort). Yes I get stared at but the majority of them are stares of lust, I get a couple of disgusted looks from the elderly and from parents with young children but other than that it’s lust.

[caring__1]

Anything out of the ordinary will be noticed. Some people enjoy being on display, while others prefer standing out only in private. What you do is your choice. Just realize there are consequences to those choices.

Just look at entertainers. They want to be noticed only when on stage, yet paparazzi take over their private life, also. There's a cost to seeking out attention, so be willing to pay the cost if you choose to do so.

[nolookingbackx]

Words of wisdom!

[caring__1]

@nolookingbackx Thank you.

[ShesRad80]

no and at least your husband was there in case of an issue

[Asker]

And my sim he’s 18 fit and very protective of his mama between my hubby and my son you’d better not mess with me lol

[ShesRad80]

glad to hear that, people are creepers anymore, keep yourself safe

[Asker]

Will do!

[ShesRad80]

👍👍💕

[Asker]

Is that you in your pic? dolcissimo

[ShesRad80]

yes👍

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yea but I’m like an A cup barely a B more like an A lol they need a magnifying glass to stare at my tits

[soe11]

PizzaPieMamaBear
Wonderful answer 😉

[MementoMori777]

i know you'll end up wearing one again but either ways at least your husband was there lol

[Asker]

Not in the lobby I think I’m done with that

[MementoMori777]

fair enough Anna 😆

[Asker]

My name is Natalia annacarsi is a Sicilian expression 😉

[MementoMori777]

italian? nice, either ways, noted Natalia 😆🤓📝

[Asker]

Yea Sicilian ❤️💛

[MementoMori777]

yea oh and i recommend different underwear styles if gawking keeps happening lol

[foxrider77]

Did you get looks on the beach with the thong bottom? They look really nice. I love seeing women wear them. Where did you buy your thong bikini from?

[elizamichale1]

Yea thts pretty normal for me i wouldn't mind being in the tiniest bikini in lobby n i dont really bother about them staring

[soe11]

elizamichale1
Exactly my girlfriend think that way and I like way my girlfriend being liberal and flexible freedom.

[elizamichale1]

@soe11 thats how it should be

[Anonymous]

Well, if you’re that big up top and such a small woman, it’s quite noticeable and rare to see that so when you wear that type of bathing suit and not near the pool or beach, it’s going to be quite distracting. I wish I had a woman that was your body tight because that’s quite unique.

[nolookingbackx]

The only right place to wear a bikini is the beach. Period.

[AviatorTom]

My SO always covers up with a shift on her way to the pool or beach, removing it only after she gets there. It avoids the kinds of things you experienced.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I feel comfortable wearing a bikini anywhere that it's socially acceptable to wear a bikini

[EmmaMary]

It's certainly not something I would feel comfortable doing.

[sheikalana]

I don't think that's appropriate for a hotel lobby.

[Anonymous]

At age 19 I am I don't think I would be at age 39.

[Dessiiguy30]

Why do you think so?

[Paige90]

Yes I am!

[Asker]

You’re big up top right? Do you get lots of staring?

[Paige90]

34C or 32D depending on the bra and yes I get a lot of staring which is ok unless it;s creepy.

[Asker]

Yea I would say that’s very big for a smaller framed lady like yourself!! If you were with your family husband and son and guys west staring at your boobs that doesn’t bother you? I’m not judging I’m just asking? I don’t mind peaks but staring is gross to me like stop your drooling 🤤

[soe11]

My girlfriend did go out from resort hotel with bikini from without fear, with reluctantly

[LimitedBenefits101]

At your age you shouldn't be.

I don't know why y'all old ladies like to compete with the young gals

[KatherineJ]

Nope, I wouldn’t be.

[Asker]

I think it’s an age thing the younger generation seems to be ok with it

[KatherineJ]

@annacarsimama2 you may be right. Even if I was still in my 20’s, no way!

[Asker]

Are you bigger or smaller up top I feel like it’s safe for smaller chested ladies but not larger like it’s one those things

[KatherineJ]

I’m “average”. But it’s never been something that I would have done.

[Asker]

I hear ya! Also when someone says average they’re always big up top lol just an observation I’ve made. I’ve got so many friends who say I’m average up top and they’re always on the bustier side lol.. Anyway yea I’ve done it before but the staring o recurved made me very uncomfortable. My husband was holding my hand and could see it in my face that I was bothered. He has no clue , guys are clueless lol, I said they’re staring at my boobs. He says who is? I said we are with our son don’t make a scene I’ll talk to you upstairs in the room!

[KatherineJ]

I assure you, I am average.

[Wise4myage]

Unfortunately some guys will stare like that.

[Anondude2023]

If it's a hotel right by a beach, it's normal to wear swimwear in the lobby. Maybe wear a coverup around the waist, but tops don't matter