Just talked to a "woman" since 2 days ago and now she blocked me because i wasn't ready to video-chat? Wtf is wrong with this generation? And then they complain that can't find men to want them, like them, etc, etc.. But if WE move that fast we are Perverts, Creeps, Stalkers, Ghosters, etc.. jesus!!!
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10 mo
Another young troll made its way in, after complimenting her of her smartness, she called me dipshit, no wonder i suck with women? Really?, i guess its time to Uninstall this damn app...
I was talking about that earlier with someone. People are stupid! Since I've sighed up for this sight, I've had 2 people block me. It's immature. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, they should just say it, rather than acting like a 5-year-old that didn't get the ice cream she wanted!
Yeah, I wouldn't worry about these types of people. They are NOT meant to be in relationships and if I was in one with them, I would leave the moment they started acting like this. I'm a shy introvert, but I would still rather someone be straight forward with me, just because I have trouble speaking up.
These types of people that block everyone need to take a long, hard look at themselves in the mirror. They are judgmental and should be ashamed of themselves for being that way. I don't let them bother me though because I KNOW, not think, but I KNOW I am better than them. They're the problem!
i can't tell if she was goofing on you or wanted to see what you looked like, its limited context but i dont see why she got a hair up her rear over that? if you are interested you chat what's the issue? its people of all ages, TBH, some are absolutely irrational like some of the 71 year olds on here. i work at a hospital in healthcare i see/hear twisted sh*t all day long
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10 mo
I was thinking the same... like if we were boyfriend/girlfriend i would have understand, but just after 2 days to go highwire? Hmmm 🤔, and plus she seen my pictures here and on facebook, so she could see i'm legit! But hey, if life gives you lemons, make lemon juice...😁👍
I can understand why a young person would want to video call: wants to see what you look like, see if you're real. If this person is 15 or 20 years younger than you, this might be the source of your problem: different generations and different cutoff rules.
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New10 mo
The funny thing is that she is 34... but shit happens right? I mean we cannot know what's going on in other's person mind at the other end of the line...🤷♂️
She's one of the scammers looking for you to send her a gift card or to subscribe to her onlyfans.
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10 mo
That is Exactly what came to mind when she told me she's Hispanic, but she gave me her facebook and looked all Asian... so i told her about it and that is where she just "decided" at 11pm to make a video call...🤦♂️🤔😆😆
Strange. I wouldn't be ready for a video call as well.
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10 mo
I know right?, all it made me feel like a "love scammer" that thinks i can easily be manipulated... sheesh... i'm 41, been through life hard enough to "see red flags" or "sniff a bad one out" 🤦♂️
What was your problem? She is looking for someone to meet and date, not someone to exchange text messages. When I was dating online I just arranged a meeting ASAP. If they weren't ready to meet then I just moved on.
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10 mo
What was my problem? Seriously? After not even 2 full days, wanting a videocall, and was 11pm my side and 10pm her side? Wtf is wrong with people like you and her? The FASTER you move on to something, the FASTER it Fades away! 🤦♂️, i guess people like you two are just either impatient, either don't want/like relationships, or knowing the other person... Plus i have my boundaries, and Personality also, not just Jumping head in first, i broke my "neck" couple times, not anymore... learned my lesson...🤔
She wanted it at that exact moment? People like me? I just learned after some experience meeting people online that communication before agreeing to meet was a waste of time. You can chat with someone for weeks and finally meet them and there's no chemistry.
Yes, I have had women on this site want me to go on snapchat and other sites. I am not looking to hookup with anyone and find some of this really disturbing.
You know... off the internet, we DO know what a person looks like in the first minute of a date/meeting/random encounter... because we see them. In person. With our eyes. It IS possible. That's actually how it's done in much of the world. Of the last 30 people I went out with, I knew what each of them looked like way faster than 2 days.
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