Am I a bad person for not wanting my soulmate because she has body count so I'm claiming she a thot?

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[Alli39]

I mean kinda. Just a bit.

If you legit like her/care about her enough to label her as your soulmate, why do you care what her body count is? Her past experiences have created the present person that you're finding value in. Accept it and move forward with her if you actually mean it.

[LazerBean]

Well the term sould mate is silly, but ignoring that is just depends on what your body count is. The way this is worded kind of sounds juvenile tbh though.

[SnowedIn]

Bad? No.

Misguided? Yes.

If she's your soulmate then you accept her as she is. You'll reject the person you're supposed to be with for the rest of your life because of that? Very, very, very, very shortsighted.

[Daniela1982]

But he doesn't want a Ho for a soulmate. I wouldn't either, would you? Besides, how does anyone really know if they have a soulmate? I think the whole concept is rubbish.

[SnowedIn]

You are, as usual, thoroughly right.

I also agree with you about soulmates.

But, assuming for a second that this woman IS, in fact, his soulmate, my point was that he would throw that out because of her past. It's either soulmate or not. It's not soulmate with conditions and maybes and ifs.

[Daniela1982]

I think if there really was a soul mate that you would have tons in common, including life style. So one with a high body count would not be paired with another with a low body count. These things usually come out with the claws when having a tiff with the other. So better off being equal in that regards.

[SnowedIn]

Agree with you 100%!

Maybe this individual isn't his soulmate lol

[DextroShade]

No you are not, girls who have high body counts lose their ability to pair-bond and thus cannot be anyone's soulmate.

[inhua]

no, you're not bad but she ain't your soulmate

[hardboiledink]

No one wants to be with a slut. They will most likely continue being what they are with all the included traits of no ability for delay of gratification and having relationship skills besides just sex. It is what it is. A sex partner

[EndGame55]

I don't think that makes you a bad person. It's called having respect for yourself. Integrity in and of standards.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[Daniela1982]

Stop it! I'm trying for Troll of the Day. I just haven't thought of one yet.

[EmmaMary]

@Daniela1982

I shall look out for you posting one, so as I can award you one! lol 💕

[Sour-rose]

I wouldn't say a bad person, just shallow, but that can be changed. :D

[Spongebobssocks]

no you can have any standards you'd like:)

[BoopBoopBeep]

Obviously not too soulmatey then, huh?

[Sasha0426]

Are you a thot too?