Why can’t modern women keep a man?

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Johnny4473 · Accepted Answer

Well that depends on what you mean by modern women... as in all women who are on an equal footing (or even above footing than men, depending on the laws and social structure).

Ultimately it's about radical ideologies lying to young men and women. For example, I've seen so many people use words like mysogyny, racism, chauvinism and all without even knowing the meaning of it.

What you have to see is how the society, specially the western society so so polarized on either fronts.

There are a couple of reasons for the disconnect.

1. Men and women have different struggles, needs and social lives.
2. Ideologies like rad feminism tech women to hate men. And ideologies like rad Andrew Tateism teaches men to hate women.

At the end of the day, we are all people capable of fucking up. I'd be much much more accepting of a woman who casually hooks up with guys a lot over a woman who cheats.

For me personally it's about one's character. And mind you that's why I said much much more accepting. I'd rather not date a person who has been railed by a lot of people and being a pansexual that is same for every gender. Having a lot of sexual partners make you insensitive to intimacy and most probably indicates that you are incapable of keeping a relationship.

What I am trying to say is... stop expecting the opposite gender to be perfect and realise your own capacity for shitting on good things, and this goes for both men and women.

We need each other more than either of us can imagine. And we need to come together and fight against the radical and political assholes that are trying to keep us fighting each other

DextroShade · Accepted Answer

Many reasons:

Feminism: it tells women they are better than men, men are unnecessary, and that doing anything to serve a man is despicable. Naturally these attitudes drive men away.

Obesity: most women are fat and the average woman now weighs more than the average man which is unheard of in every other primate species. Men will have sex with fat women when they can't do better but most don't want to be seen with one.

Promiscuity: most modern women are hoes getting ran-through by players with ever more becoming sex workers on OF. High body counts and sex work make it very difficult if not impossible for women to pair-bond with a man. Many women are also baby mommas which is a deal-breaker for most men.

Social media: women's egos are inflated when they post filtered pics and get validation from thirsty simps that over-inflates their egos.

Broken homes: more young women are from broken homes and have no example of how to act in a relationship.

I completely understand why men who are able to are going overseas for more feminine traditional women.

CoolCatMar1 · Accepted Answer

Why are men so entitled these days and tell women what to do how to dress or how to look or even how to act? We can't do anything without men judging us... Modern women... Wtf is that supposed to mean? So should we stick to the old times when men didn't allow us to got o school, educate ourselves, work and have money? Or should we be "gold diggers" who live with money of men? Huh? I don't get it? Many women these days can keep a man I don't know where you live and what you see to even say that😅

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

Cuz they think relationships are only about them.

Singing_Hollow · Answer

Because women of today start doing grownup things before their brains have grown up. So they have this battle with themselves and tend to disrespect themselves and be stupid thinking it will make them happy. Truth is a good man doesn't want a wife who opens her legs at the site of 'rooster'. If she respects herself then she will respect him. Todays women want to be men and copy mens behavior and think it will get them to the same place as men but it doesn't because they arnt made for that.

noemiii · Answer

Because modern men are too bitchy. Even my dad, who grew up with those strict hyper masculine beliefs says men these days have gender role switched with the women. And that’s coming from him who has been married to my mom for 25 years.

Now, realistically, most girls I know are in relationships. The people I see around single are usually men and it’s usually of their own accord to be single. Fact of the matter is, with the modern day non-incel man (one who is attractive enough to get a decent woman) they are usually single by choice. I know I’m specifically single because I don’t want to deal with a man’s BS of a man with a wandering eye. Most women I know in relationships have to deal with some crap coming from their boyfriend and I refuse.

Pyrofox · Answer

They have become too masculated the ironic opposite enmasculation of men. Society today has some how managed to reverse societal roles and then glorify it to add insult to injury. As a result women don't know what they want and men end up being blamed for the short comings that society has created for itself.

Vegasrunner · Answer

It's not that they can't keep a man it's that they can't keep a man of value. Modern woman have raised there standards and w/ the help of things like Social Media and dating apps a women who previously could never get into a room w/ a HV man can get banged by one. Women tend to think that a guy having sex w/ her = a guy having a relationship, so you'll have a 6 get banged by a man who's a 10 and now she thinks she can get a 10 to commit to just her. She tries to use the same tactics that she uses on a 6 not understanding that HV have heard all these things from women b4.

WiccanLady2023 · Answer

Oh real - decent, respectable & modest - modern women who act & behave properly not like cheap tramps and free prostitutes can keep a man.

Just as how real - decent, respectable & not a lying good for nothing loser - men who act & behave properly with morals and ethics can keep a woman.

Not that you'd know much of anything about decent women or being a respectable man. You put on another post that you'd a good for nothing cheater & it sounded like your woman really wasn't worth much of anything if she sleeps with losers like you.

NobodyXox · Answer

I don't think the problem is keeping the man.
I think we just feel more comfortable leaving a man if they only make us feel bad. If you don't make me feel better or at least not worse I do not need you in my life. Life is hard enough as it is, I do not need your as making me feel worse 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are also dating modern men who don't need to be kept. Men are capable of deciding what is right and wrong for them in terms of a relationship, and if they don't want to be in one, they don't have to be. There are so many reasons why relationships end, but like anything else, if you break up or are broken up with, find someone new that actually suits you, makes you happy, and keep it moving.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think one thing is mismatched priorities. They think they will get a guy by wearing a mini skirt or a pair of high heels, when the guy wants them to dress like a nun and treat him with respect and kindness. Or they try to impress a guy with lies and mocking other girls when the guy is impressed by honesty and loyalty.

zebronics · Answer

Modern women can't keep a man because they keep confusing the TV remote with their dating apps! Swiping left and right on the remote won't find them a partner, but it might lead to an unexpected Netflix marathon. 😄 Remember, relationships are a bit more complicated than changing channels!

Beautyblossom2 · Answer

The way I've seen, it's usually men who don't wanna be 'kept' :3

Dargil · Answer

I don't want to get long and wordy on this. It has to do with why girls wanted men in the past; as providers and participants in a family structure. Modern Western women seem to need and want neither. They may want prestige, a penis and a paycheck, but there's no stability to that. It's why an increasing number of men recruit more traditional women from Latin America and East Asia. I did. This is not a guarantor that a marriage won't go south, but the odds are better.

Kaamraj · Answer

Men are going to blame women and women will blame men. But I think that largely it's more women's fault because they are in charge and in control of dating. Social media and dating apps hugely favor them. Most men live lives of scarcity so they cannot say that I had chose and I chose wrong but that is not the case for women who lave a lot more choice, now granted that is not good choice but choice none the less.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably the biggest reason is women choose very poor quality men to begin with. Because many simply do know what constitutes a quality man in the first place.

inhua · Answer

modern women read too many fairytales and romance novels like Cinderella and Twilight, fantasying over their perfect Prince Charming or Edward Cullen specimen only find out most men are really just Scooby Doo's Shaggy

katiesmuff · Answer

Many have no issue and keep their men for life, but then you have some where their man gets confused as to who's vagina his dick belongs in, which might cause a conflict where she is just forced to dump him.

RavVid · Answer

Well women aren't offering what we want. So after a number of disappointments we are going to give up, move on and look elsewhere.

They get vicious about it but who cares. A friend has done quite well with a Belarusian women.

Anonymous · Answer

Because modern women have zero sense of commitment. Half of marriages end in divorce and women file 80% of them. If you compare the divorce rates of heterosexual, gay and lesbian marriages, the highest rate of divorce, by far, is among lesbian couples, and the lowest rate is among gay couples. Women are the common denominator. The more women involved, the more likely the relationship will end prematurely. Modern women can't keep a partner, regardless of their gender.

Apple1996 · Answer

I've been with man for 10 years. Married for almost 8 years so no Idea what other women are doing to not keep their man

Anonymous · Answer

Because modern women are just too trashy, especially in the western countries they don’t respect old fashion dating values, and they play around too much. That’s why I stick with Middle Eastern women haha

Sweetsurprize · Answer

Not true. I've seen married women and they got married recently too (around the 2010's - 2016 or later). They even have children together.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Because modern women chase Chad's, are over fucked, entitled, selfish, and have no idea how to be a partner or wife.

serious_miss419 · Answer

(Modern or not)
Why should a woman want to keep a guy? She’s busy doing her own thing.
A guy has zero novelty. Women and men are only a pair when reproduction is needed, other then That there’s not any need for the two to be together.

HighValue · Answer

The majority of women, young, middle aged, and older are low quality, immoral people that no good high quality man would want to be with.

Stressyalaire · Answer

Why is being modern bad? I'm from this modern time. What's bad about being with the times?

Nikki1989 · Answer

8 years and happier than ever.  I assume you don't know many women.

tzdc21 · Answer

Because they don't know how to keep one. They've never been taught how to and a lot of them never try to learn. That's why.

CubsterShura · Answer

Why would any woman want to keep a man nowadays should be the real question.

jahaims · Answer

Just going off of a stereotype because this is a very inaccurate way to ask a question. Basically they want the pros without the cons and can't comprehend that that isn't a thing.

nastyb · Answer

its more like "why can't modern men get any women"? this is the climate today...

SolitarySolace · Answer

Because modern women are too entitled and believe it is empowering to out men down

Anonymous · Answer

Because modern men are bitches and older guys are too strict.  And yes, I'm kidding. Calm your titties.

grega239 · Answer

Because theyre entitled, arrogant, bitchy, and overestimate their value

EmmaMary · Answer

Ten years and still counting. 🤞

boobliker · Answer

they are not working to keep them, you have to work at it from both men and women.

Alli39 · Answer

They can and regularly do, so chill out.

JazzGirl27 · Answer

Because we are tired of being played.

gothbxtch · Answer

why aren’t modern men worth keeping?

Reem12345reem · Answer

bc men are dick heads

KatherineJ · Answer

Here we go….🙄🙄🙄🙄

Subflics · Answer

Women view submission as a bad thing.. its not

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t have any problems.

BigDog1989 · Answer

Because modern men, hit women

Xia_girl · Answer

That's bullshit, we can 😆

Anonymous · Answer

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