Your friend's girl is annoyed because you are so close with him. What do you do?

[ventustalks]

She feels annoyed that you guys are so close and does not want you around that much. What would you do then?

[ohsheeT]

I don't know most of my friends and their girlfriends tonight we've all kind of grew up together so I've never really had that type of problem
And I mean we would always do everything together Friday nights or something go out to the clubs go dancing if somebody had been drinking a little bit too much just going to each other's house is but I mean

Is something like that was to happen then I would make it a point like if I spent the night at their house or they spent the night at my house I would make it a point to walk into the room if they're in walk straight to the bottom of the bed and crawl right up in bed in between them and go to sleep LOL
I had a girlfriend that had a roommate and all three of us were friends and her boyfriend didn't like it too much when I was around one and I used to work with the guy so I knew him pretty well one night they were in bed doing their thing and I busted through the door ran in and said don't worry don't worry I called the fire department I thought he was killing you the police and the fireman should be here knocking on the door pretty soon when are you guys are going to have to answer it cuz I'm not going to now turn around and walk out

But like I said I don't think I've ever had that problem I've never had that problem with any of my friends either that I would feel that way

[AydenHazor]

On the flip side, I've had friends' boyfriends be uncomfortable with how close I am with my friends. My reaction to such situations is based on my friend's reaction. If my friend is chill with continuing to hang it and stay as close as we are, I will continue to do so. If my friend wants to put a little space in our friendship to respect their boyfriend's wishes, I'll respect that.

That being said, my response to this is solely out of the care and respect that I have for my friends. Any guy who is insecure enough in themselves to limit the friendships their girlfriend already has with other guys, or build with other guys, kisses a little respect from me, same with girls who try to limit the friendships their boyfriends have with other girls. We miss out on so much when we only have friends within our own gender.

[HelpfulWoman]

I think she's highly insecure, and it's not my problem to handle her. Because I'm assuming in this scenario I've been friends with the dude longer than they've been dating.

[Dinklex3]

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Nothing. Lol.

My best friend’s girlfriend hated my other best friend and I.

But we’ve been best friends since high school so it was just something she had to get over.

[Almost29M]

• It's the friend's choice, but I would try to remind them when we make plans to hang out that they are spending a lot of time with me and it may cause a problem. I would also consider whether I really was spending too much time with them, or if she was being unreasonable. I've seen this situation play out many different ways, and I try to be overly cautious.

[Agape93]

Her feelings aren't my concern. I will talk to my friend, and see how they want to proceed. I will respect their choice

[AviatorTom]

I'd talk with my friend and see what he wants to do, if anything. Most likely, we'll continue our friendship.

[Grovermint]

Would depend on how he feels. I'm his friend, her opinion doesn't matter to me.

[Anonymous]

Depends on how close and what you guys are doing that would make her feel uncomfortable with it.

[jahaims]

Talk to her and your guy friend at the same time

[Spongebobssocks]

Respect her and keep my distance

[wishiwasfiction]

Finally a common sense answer

[Spongebobssocks]

@wishiwasfiction most people live without morals that's why:)