Girls, why girls on gag shame guys for being virgin?

[Light_beam]

[Summeroflove]

Ignore those trolls. They’re pathetic and probably feel bad about themselves for the choices they have made. They feel dirty on the inside and need someone to project that onto. So they sit around obsessing over the sexual lives of others and shame men who have some dignity, so they can feel better about themselves.

[emi_kaei]

I think virginity is nothing to be ashamed of. You never really know their circumstances (whether they’re slow to accepting physical affection due to past abuse, or perhaps a religious reason), so I hate judging people just based off of the fact that they haven’t slept with anyone.

I don’t really know what gag is though, so..

if it’s a hookup site, they’re probably looking for someone with more experience. If it’s a dating site, then you’re probably reeling the wrong ones in.

[emi_kaei]

I just found out what gag was! I feel a little silly for not knowing what it meant previously pfft

but my point still stands, I guess?

[Summeroflove]

I think being a man whore is worse. To be honest. The women who shame men for not having sex. Are the type of women who are dirty and sleep around a lot.

So they want to feel better about themselves.

[Light_beam]

@emi_kaei you put more understanding and life experience there than a 40 years old person.. thanks for answering dear 😊

[TruthBeTold77]

I don't there's nothing wrong with being a virgin.

[Light_beam]

you do.. especially you 😔

[TruthBeTold77]

When

[Light_beam]

we talked in pm..

[TruthBeTold77]

No I ignored you in pm. Ignoring someone who is sending you stuff you don't wish to receive is different from shaming virgins 🤦

[Light_beam]

wow.. you ignored me ! thanks.. i was actually messing with you when i said you shame me.. you don't.. just joking.. and i don't think i sent you anything bad in private messaging.. any way.. sorry.. i won't message you anymore..

[TruthBeTold77]

Maybe joking but then tried to make it seem like I was shaming in pm. But that's cool ✌️

[Light_beam]

i always mess with you.. not the first time.. and i won't gain anything from accusing you of shaming mee..

[TruthBeTold77]

It's cool. I took the first reply as it was a joke.. but then you said pm. I wouldn't mind put this is public and others can't see pm so could easily believe it. Thought it was a low blow. Anyhow nothing wrong with being a virgin infact I didn't lose mine til early 20s and I wish I kept it longer. There's nothing wrong go at your own pace and never feel pressured into losing it before you're actually ready.

[Light_beam]

Thanks..

[TruthBeTold77]

If you feeling a certain way about being a virgin, I can happily share an experienced with you that may make you realise it's nothing to be bothered about. That's if you wish of course.

[Light_beam]

What is this experience?

[TruthBeTold77]

This guy I ended up seeing for over a year was actually a virgin at 27, I was his first and he is actually my second best! No I haven't been with a bunch of guys I can count on one hand point is he out done experienced men. So don't stress. You don't need to bang many you just need to learn the one who you are with and if they know you're a virgin they will give you the time to learn. Again don't stress it 😊

[TruthBeTold77]

All I say to virgins is don't lose it for the sake of losing it out of pressure like myself.
Don't think you need to bang many to be good! The people who think that way tend to be trash. Everyone is different as Bruce Lee said "I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.

[Light_beam]

Ohh you always stressed on how men are bad in bed.. i thought you wouldn't even consider being with a virgin guy.. coz obviously you want the best.. this is surprising.. Thanks really for sharing this 😊

[Light_beam]

I don't feel stressed.. it is my choice..

[TruthBeTold77]

Don't practice a 1000 women one time you'll never be good instead practice 1 woman a 1000 times and you'll be all she needs

[Light_beam]

I get your point.. i think for me , it will be just one woman for life.. so yea.. exactly as you said 😀

[TruthBeTold77]

That's good! Whatever you do don't fall to persure do it when it's right for you not others. And as I said just be upfront and honest the right one won't care and will give you time to learn and feel comfortable. Then if you want to be good just focus on the one you want and what they want and they do same you. And it's not just men who need to listen but women too sorry if I put it as all men. Both need to realise much sex means nothing as everyone is different. Inorder to be great we need to practice the SAME kick 10000 times not many kicks 10000 🤦 your time will come king 👑

[Light_beam]

Aww you are being nice.. thanks for the great advices..

[TruthBeTold77]

No problem! Sorry if I'm a prick sometimes I only really be a prick when hungry so check my food intake levels before you take me seriously 😂😂👍

[TruthBeTold77]

See me being a prick then just comment have you eaten yet? 😂😂😂👍

[Light_beam]

Lol, this is funny.. i would give you food all the time.. it is ok dear.. i really like joking/ messing with you 😊

[TruthBeTold77]

Many will are mislead and return the mislead you. You need many too be good lol nope everyone different you need to give all your focus to one to become a master of one or you can do many and become a disappointment of many. Seems people will rather disappoint many than please one. Shameful and this is why relationship don't work. You want a successful relationship focus on pleasing one

[Light_beam]

Ahhh i have girls here literally bullying me for being a virgin.. can you imagine? 😀
It is really funny

[Light_beam]

Why did you ignore me on pm? I don'r think i was a jerk

[TruthBeTold77]

Ah those girls who bully you are probably as great in bed as the men who say fuck everything that moves... They usually full of STDs too. In the end they please no one and end up as gutter trash. Stick to your own means don't let no one tell you different. I ignore everyone who talks sex or ask me stuff about my body. It's private I share only the one I see it's not for everyone but normal talk and friendship I got you 👊😊

[TruthBeTold77]

I'm not really interested in talking bs my body belongs to me and the I man I choose to physically share it with. No one else ask me I anything of the sort I ignore ask me a general question or talk I answer I'm not for everyone sexually but I will try help everyone personally

[TruthBeTold77]

Sexually I'm not for everyone so I'll ignore personal questions of help I'll always try help. I'm not your internet whore I'm your internet honest friend or I'm nothing you decide

[TruthBeTold77]

I'm not insecure I'm not desperate I am who I am. What's mine is just that I share who I chose but I'll help anyone help ain't enough move along

[TruthBeTold77]

I ain't for every man and I refuse to be that. But even tho I ain't every man don't mean I can't help others so ask away but be mindful if not I'll just ignore I'm here to help people not please them!!!

[Light_beam]

Wow, yes of course.. all the respect to that.. i am interested in you as a friend.. that is all 😊😊

[Summeroflove]

Better then a man whore lmao

[inhua]

you'll hear a lot of plausible deniability from many of them and then you'll hear labels such as creep, incel, virgin loser etc. being thrown your way

apparently some people are so dumb and idiotic, that the validity of one's facts and opinions are based on their relationship status or celibacy SMH

[Light_beam]

sadly this is right..

[Summeroflove]

I think men who are perverts are worse then dudes who aren’t even looking for sex. They’re just mad someone rejected them sexually

[inhua]

@Summeroflove it doesn't matter whether the guy is looking for sex or not. a lot of people have a habit of gauging another person's opinion via their relationship status or celibacy which is dumb

[Dargil]

It is in their nature. They want to humiliate men to justify themselves. They also do it at physical attributes like baldness or penis size.

[Light_beam]

damn right!

[Summeroflove]

Well. Not all women do this. But disgusting low life women. 💯 spot on

[Jennz6]

It’s okay, your time will come. Someday you will meet someone who will let you have sex with them.

[Light_beam]

let me? thanks 😀

[Light_beam]

here comes it.. you automatically presumed i didn't find a girl who would "LET" me

[Jennz6]

Oh sorry. You aren’t looking 👀? Mea Culpa

[Light_beam]

what is Mea Culpa?

[Jennz6]

@Light_beam it’s origin is Latin and means “my bad”

[Light_beam]

okay.. it is not that i am looking for a girl or not.. it is about that you presumed that the reason i am virgin is because i can't find a girl who would let me.. it means i am a creep or a loser or a hateful person.. that is pretty much shaming or even worse..

[Jennz6]

@Light_beam usually most of us have had sex by the age of 30

[Light_beam]

i know that.. but there other reasons not to.. rather than being a disgusting unwanted man 😀

[TruthBeTold77]

Lovely conversation 😊

[TruthBeTold77]

Girl was wondering why you add then all this you that lame? I don't fall bs in life never mind interment you 5 five

[Light_beam]

What? I don't understand?

[Summeroflove]

Truthfully I think people with standards are more attractive. As far as sex goes at least. People who sleep with anyone including men are gross

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with it you guys just kinda shame yourself with how you act or talk!

Like hanging out with a homeschool kid in highschool! They are kinda weird and a bit off!

[Light_beam]

lol.. no way.. we don't

[Summeroflove]

Yeah lol. I think people shame people for not having sex. Because they feel dirty and gross. Whether it’s men or women doing it.

[Opinion Owner]

@Summeroflove those are the worst losers they feel bad about their sex so they force others into it!

[alice55]

Doesn't they shame them everywhere? Even in real life though?

[Light_beam]

Yea may be , do you?

[alice55]

I don't understand what you 're trying to say but I'm personally a virgin and I don't shame anyone for it, the reverse actually cause I'm waiting until wedding and anybody else doing the same or waiting for someone serious is I think a great things

[Light_beam]

Wow..

[Apple1996]

I would never. I love virgin men ❤️

[Light_beam]

Why do you love them?

[Dbtr99]

I don’t , because I’m in the same boat as them.

[Light_beam]

Well, many girls do..

[Dbtr99]

If so , that’s kinda sad

[Anonymous]

Has it escaped your attention that there are a lot of low quality women on this site? Of course they're going to insult guys who are still virgins. Shrug it off man.

[Billlewis]

I think they do it because it's so much fun;)

[Billlewis]

Whatever their motivating factor is, I hope they keep doing it, because number one, any guy who admits publicly that he's a virgin, does so with the understanding that he has a strong likelihood of being made fun of, and two, if he puts himself in that position, he shouldn't complain about the result of doing so. If I go to the zoo and climb over the wall and into the lions' enclosure, I should expect to be severely injured or worse.

[butterly248]

Nothing wrong with it

[Light_beam]

i know.. why they do that?

[butterly248]

No clue

[Summeroflove]

Being a virgin is better then a man whore. Lol.

[butterly248]

True 😂

[Summeroflove]

😂 yup

[catarecute]

cuz they are stupid

[Light_beam]

Why stupid?

[catarecute]

cuz who care about virgin or not. i remember when i was at school fourteen years old kids were all going on about being virgins. think the legal age was sixteen so i had to wait to be sixteen to have sex with my boyfriend then i was bragging about this and so was he. but we were teenagers. we were actually stupid. this site has mainly over 20s still going on like that its embarrassing.

[Light_beam]

Yea.. this site is full of those, i don't know why..

[catarecute]

i though it was because its American and Americans have a reputation of being shallow and stupid in Europe. but i met some smart Americans so maybe its just people on this site.

[Light_beam]

You are Europian? Which country?

[catarecute]

france

[Light_beam]

Oh nice

[Light_beam]

Can we talk in pm?

[boggboss]

Do they?

[Light_beam]

all the time !

[boggboss]

Not seen it to be fair is it done unprovoked or what?

[Light_beam]

you just missed it

[boggboss]

I must have got anything u can link me to show me

[Summeroflove]

Yeah the trolls

[sheikalana]

Never did such thing.