Why is taking a girls virginity a turn on for some guys?

[Confusedd_]

Why is "innocence" so attractive to some guys? Especially, it seems, to the super NOT innocent guys...
A beautiful sweet, sexy girl who has never been touched by a man. Why is that specifically alluring as opposed to a beautiful sweet sexy girl who has lots of experience and knows what she's doing.
A guy friend of mine sleeps around and has definitely been around the block, but was so into this girl who is very pretty but never even kissed a guy before. We are in our 20's. He seemed to be most attracted to her because "she's so innocent"
So what's the big allure of innocence?

[Anonymous]

Don't confuse men and 'muslim martyrs' who literally can't wait to end their lives... when you're promised premium virgin women of any kind and eternally on tap, you're life and your family/friend's suffering suddenly seem like just a tool to obtain the fruits of desire in the afterlife.
But seriously, I understand the idea of a partner who hasn't had sex being desirable, no sex no baggage, no life experiences come with however. Sex is educational as well as pleasurable. You don't need a pen and paper but you do need the confidence to get the partner to have sex with. Getting to know and understand relationships that began as sex. Having a healthy attitude towards and knowledge of it, these will help keep things interesting for you and your partner in a relationship, the potential to play an integral role in the longevity of a relationship
You would be surprised how many marriages with one or both people being virgins (usually religious reasons) end in divorce or an unhappy marriage because of undeveloped appreciation for sex. I reckon it's seen as necessary to procreate, and that's the only time some couples have it, and the reality of that is quite sad tbh

[TheEspada13]

Well I'm not speaking for myself or all the guys but some. It's called power play, there are men that like to take control over a woman who he veiws worth dominated over her innocence. It's a turn on for them because he wants to make the well reserved woman into his personal reserved woman. It's self satisfaction. Women are no different, shot women like to make men's head turn around when they do a little heater to catch a man look at her. She doesn't have to be skanky to pull men in but she just does little small jesters and she has men falling at her feet. Honestly both men and women are the same no matter how one looks at it.

[Confusedd_]

That actually makes a lot of sense. Thanks

[hellionthesagereborn]

Because for a man a woman who has few to no sexual partners is preffered. The reason being is that if she gets pregnant he doesn't have to question the paternity, its his and their is very little probability it would be some one elses. You have to think in terms of biology, this is why women don't mind a man who has had a few partners generally speaking because a woman never has to wonder if a child is hers or not, the man on the other hand does.

[TrueAnty]

From my perspective I think it has a lot to do with how men are portrayed in society and it's an almost 'powerful' feeling to end up being the first one they share that intimate moment with. So it becomes attractive in a guys eyes when society tells him that's what he should strive for, that kind of power

[jansoka]

It is the Same thing why people want to be the First one in a mountain.
It is rationally useless but gives you a better Feeling (In the virginity case IT could also ne "teaching" something and also being Sure that you are "the only one" and you can be Safe that it is your child in case of pregnancy)
I dont think that someone really thinks about that But deep in the mind you can find These thoughts
(Sry For my Bad english)

[Anonymous]

It just feels meaningful to me. Having never been intimate with a guy until me makes me feel special, accepted, attractive, valued, important, etcetc. And well, sleeping around is super unattractive anyway, it's gross to picture a girl with other guys and virgins completely navigate around that. Makes me feel like she's more of a keeper.

[yashwanthjas]

virginity is a type of feeling, who haven't sex ever , when ever a lady sees handsome or wanted some one in his bed for a whole night or day and she attracted to that feeling she never ever feeled

[yashwanthjas]

I'm too single wanted to date and enjoy the feeling

[MrMilti]

What would you prefer? A guy who has slept with dozens of women before you?
Its not a physical thing, like breaking a hymen would be the best thing in the world, its more of a mental thing

[Anonymous]

The original point of the white wedding dress, was that white, represented innocence, virginity. So, when you had sex on your wedding night, or honeymoon at least.. the wedding dress actually meant something..

[maestrodematimaticas]

I prefer a virgin to an experienced woman for a long term relationship. Nice sucking on a pussy that hasn't had a dick in it before.

[drmostafa]

Because they feel they are special in something which we all want to feel whatever our gender

[ThaBoss87]

It's nice to know that you will be the first but then she's gonna be scared and inexperienced. I think a girl that knows what to do a lot more attractive

[Anonymous]

Essentially you're everything to her. A girl who has had sex in the past will still remember other men, and she was submissive and a slut for another guy.

[Woody301]

Because usually the girl hangs around long after the guy has lost interest.. still having sex with him

[bitsandlife]

Well it's not a turn on for me, but i think to be the first one should be really special, maybe that's what guys turns on.

[bila38]

It's always a fascinating thing for guys.. in their nature

[Anonymous]

If you're referring to the virgin factor, it's usually because the girl hasn't done it before so when he does something she's gonna think it's amazing and probably cum easily.

[reptocarl]

It's nothing but bragging rights

[zeussuez]

Don't know ! Never thought about this before

[AveronRoland]

So we can brag to our friends.

[TheFlak38]

Because it makes us Rambo in First Blood.

[Whiterecluse]

Should it be a turn off?

[jamieleerlk]

old ways and thinking