Can a girl hold a grudge against a guy?

[Anonymous]

Girl I hooked up with once years ago

But I never asked her out we were really attracted to each other

I added her on Instagram and she wouldn't add me. awkward

But she's friends with all of my guy friends on it

Does she hate me , ?

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Why won't she add me?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you both want different things? Girls can. Anyone can. Have you done something to annoy or upset her?

[Asker]

No can't understand why she wouldn't add me but my friends I haven't even seen her in ages

[Opinion Owner]

That’s the thing, I don’t understand these guessing games that men and women play. So much indirectness. How on earth would she know if you like her if you don’t act like it or tell her? She’s not psychic.

[Opinion Owner]

You should go and ask her, or ask her through mutual friends.

[Asker]

It seems maybe she just doesn't want me as a friend because I hooked up with her before.
can't understand

[Opinion Owner]

Hooked up? As in had sex?

[Asker]

Yep years ago

[Opinion Owner]

That can make women emotional. She could be in love with you and think that you don’t respect her. Or she could be done with trying to talk to you, if you keep doing things that annoy her. I reach a point where I won’t even argue anymore. But I don’t know.. tell me more? Hopefully I can try to help

[Asker]

There is not much more I added her online cause I always liked her but never see her she lives away now. but that's it really there used to be spark between us. just annoyed she friend s with all my friends but won't add me
. that's all that's to it

[Opinion Owner]

Oh well it looks like she’s made her decision. Sorry about that. Or sucks.

[Opinion Owner]

It sucks

[inhua]

yes and she'll be encouraged by society to hold this grudge

[spartan55]

God, do you sound like a little bitch. Listen to yourself.

[Sparkie460]

Some people hold a grudge for ever, some get over it in an hour

[Anonymous]

They usually blame any and all break ups on a guy.

[Asker]

Why won't she add me but all my friends?