A Girl in my dorm always eavesdrops on my phone calls and talks with other people about my problems. Why is she concerned about me and my life? I’m quite introverted and don’t strike up conversations because I’m simply not interested in my neighbors but why does she find that so concerning?
Why would someone be worried about an introverted reclusive flatmate?
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Hmm, that is kinda weird that she's so interested in you and eavesdrops on your stuff. A few possibilities why she might be so nosy:
- She thinks you're cute and wants to get to know you better but doesn't know how to approach an introverted dude like you.
- Some girls just like drama and get off on gossiping about other people's biz. Could be she's one of those.
- Maybe she finds you mysterious since you keep to yourself. Introverts can come off aloof so that intrigues some chicks.
- Might be she's worried you don't have many friends and wants to make sure you're okay. But snooping ain't the way to show care, ya feel me?
I'd just try to ignore her dramatics as much as you can. If she talks directly to you, be polite but keep it brief. She'll get bored with you if you don't give her anything juicy to gab about. Or maybe try opening up a little bit so she sees you good. Up to you, just do your thing!
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Oh sorry, my bad! I just kinda assumed you was a dude too since some guys ask under a girl account sometimes asking questions. But yeah same thing, it ain't right that she's always listenin in on your stuff and talking about you to others. That would bug me too if someone did that. Maybe try telling her nice that you like your space and she needs to respect your boundaries more. She probably just worries too easy like you said. But you ain't doin anything wrong by keeping to yourself. As long as you pay rent and ain't loud who cares how social you are, right? I'd just be straight up and say you want her to step off some. And if that doesn't work maybe go to the RA or someone so she gets the hint. Don't need that extra stress, ya know? Hope it all works out!
sounds bad too nosy. warn her to stop. mind her own business only.