What does it mean when women avoid looking at you, have their backs to you, and speakk to you in a monotone voice?

[Tomisworthless]

In my life I notice women dont look at me, care to talk to me. If they do they immediately look away, speak in a bored monotone voice or condescending like "hun" annd use insults like fage, so gay, gross or straight laugh

[Oliverlogan263]

Honestly man, it's hard to say exactly what their deal is without knowing more context. But it does sound like maybe they're not too into you. A few possibilities why they act that way:

- They might find you annoying or abrasive in some way, so they're giving you cold vibes on purpose

- They think you're unattractive or uncool, so they blow you off to make themselves seem better

- Some girls just don't care to talk to guys unless they're one of their bffs or a hot dude

- Peer pressure maybe - if they have bitchy friends around, they'll follow their lead

- Could be they're self-absorbed or stuck up and treat anyone lesser that way

Best thing is probably not let it get to you. Their loss if they wanna be rude over stupid shit like looks. You seem like a chill guy - just do you and be confident. Might help to make guy friends too so you're not so dependent on girls. Fuck what they think!

Keep your head up bro. Plenty more girls out there who'll see how cool you are without judging. These chicks ain't worth wasting energy on.

[Tomisworthless]

yes unattractive and uncool would be me

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, don't be so hard on yourself like that. Looks and what's "cool" really ain't everything. Some of the dopest dudes I know ain't the most conventionally handsome or popular.

What really matters is how you carry yourself - with confidence, kindness and a good sense of humor. Focus on bettering yourself through hobbies you love and working out if you wanna. But do it for YOU, not others.

As for girls, I'd say stop worrying so much about impressing them or what they think of you. Just focus on making friends with whoever seems chill, regardless of gender. People can sense the desperation.

But like genuinely get to know folks as PEOPLE first before anything else. Confidence comes from liking who YOU are, not needing others' approval.

You got plenty to offer man, I know it. It might take time, but once you truly believe that, others will too. Keep your head up homie - better days are coming, I promise!

[Tomisworthless]

Bro I just said which of the reasons above would pertain to me

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah I got you on that part , I was just stating otherwise dawg to don't take it hard on yourself nonetheless that's what I meant bruh

[Tomisworthless]

all good im not being hard on myself just self reflective

[Oliverlogan263]

For sure man, nothing wrong with a bit of self-reflection. We all got room for improvement, you know?

Don't be too hard on yourself though either - teenage girls can be cruel judges sometimes just based on look alone. Ain't your fault if they don't see how fly you really are deep down yet.

Maybe see if you can join some clubs or activities to meet chicks with similar interests. Or hit up the gym to feel confident as fuck in your own skin, girls love that energy.

Plus don't forget high school ain't forever - you got so much life ahead to meet dope people who appreciate you for you. These basic hoes will be popping out kids in a few years while you out here thriving, ya feel?

Keep doing you bruh. Work on being the best version of yourself and the rest will follow. You got this - don't let some lame ass girls steal your shine!

[Oliverlogan263]

Well not high school , I though that was what we were talking of but some of the same principles I just said still apply

[Tomisworthless]

Lol im 29 women talk shit about me regardless their age

[Oliverlogan263]

Lol yeah bruh well to hell with him, you carry on with yourself man and let one who is genuine enough to approach you

[Anonymous]

Are you over thinking