Is the best way to get a hot girl by destroying their self esteem?

[ChefPapiChulo]

Is this the best way?

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+1 y

What tool am I supposed to have?

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+1 y

stop giving me morality lessons, its a hypothetical question.

[Bloodfeast]

I got you bro. Here is the secret:

Some might call it "flavor." Basically you use sexual innuendo to indicate that you are a freak in the sheets.

This does not mean that you want to fuck a lot in the bed. Oh no.

To be a freak in the sheets means basically that you are "daddy" in the bedroom.

"Daddy" is the term which can encapsulate female attraction towards men. It is the ultimate umbrella term that holds all other sexual concepts inside of it for women.

If you can give her hints that you are "daddy" as women desire it, that is your 100% guarantee.

If she doesn't fuck you, than she just doesn't do that. Or she has a daddy. Or she doesn't need it anymore. Or whatever.

But women are desperate for "daddy."

But you may still not know what it means to be daddy for these hoes.

And I do not know necessarily how to convey it either. It's a power thing. You the big strong man with sexual urges and the power to act on them. Her the sweet innocent girl who is frail and weak and powerless to oppose daddy when his urges take over.

It's a whole thing and most guys are afraid to be that guy. Or they don't know that that's what women like.

Basically, you want to spit some "flavor" to her, aka subtle and playful innuendo, which reveals to her that you're into certain things.

For example, whips and chains, restraits, latex, or other kinky things.

But see you have to be very natural about it. Guys will take this and start using it and look like idiots.

If it is not 100% completely natural for you, she will know. She will know you ain't about that life.

You have to be truly a freak in the bed dedicated to getting it fucking freaky and taking her to the depths she wants to go.

It is merely the idea that you could, that turns her on. You don't even have to really do anything freaky. Just the fact that you let off that energy of knowing, is enough.

And a little bit of demonstration to a degree. But you don't habe to demonstrate till you're taking a pisss on her. And a lot of women are into shit like that.

So yea you want a sexy girl to fuck you? Be cool and fun and friendly and confident and be knowing what makes women sink into the abyss in their mind and promise her you can take her there.

[ChefPapiChulo]

bro whatever pick up artist you're listening to is giving you the wrong tech.

[Bloodfeast]

No pickup artist here. I learned this myself directly from women.

The difference between what you hear and what I am saying is all about "natural."

Men and women use explicit talk casually all the time. And women really enjoy to.

It is actually normal that men and women have insert a bit of innuendo in their language.

It is the privilege of being an adult and not a child anymore.

I guess you helped me get this out as well. This is what I mean by being "natural" about it.

When you say things it has to be from that perspective of you being a sociable person who knows how to insert innuendo properly.

But when a man who is desperate for sex does it, and only does it because he thinks it will get him some sex, he is completely unnatural with it.

He is also ignorant of the fact that people can and do use innuendo regularly.

It's part of talking with women. They LOVE innuendo. They will pick up on it and play right along.

Even if you're totally non sexual. And that's where you have to start. You have to learn to use it in truly casual conversation and progress from there.

This all comes from me and me only. I don't know what pickup artists do.

[Bloodfeast]

Where's my praise bitch? I just solved the problem for you. I want compensation.

[Malwi93]

@Bloodfeast what if i have a guy freezing when i was naked

[Bloodfeast]

@Malwi93 it is hard to "be that guy." Especially if he talked up a bigger game than he was capable of.

Personally I've noticed that women can fuck and entertain any fantasy.

They can just jump right in and enjoy it.

For me personally every time I come across a new sexual scenario, I have to get settled in to it. Warm up to it.

I don't know if other guys have the same problem.

But yea I think it's just easy to talk more than you're capable of. It's possible he thought he could but his dick was not responding.

I don't think it means anything for you. It's all about him. It's not that he's not attracted but that he reached a point maybe he never reached before and didn't know what to do.

Women have the benefit of not having to do anything. Not having to learn anything.

A man has to prove he's capable and so most men are pretending to be capable.

Some really are capable but have yet to exercise their full ability.

Something like that lol. Ty for the question.

[slatyb]

Hardly. If she's emotionally healthy she will shut you down very quickly and you'll be unable to get anywhere with anyone she knows. The best way to get a hot girl is to make her comfortable around you. This works better if she doesn't know that she's hot.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Every hot girl knows they’re hot.

[slatyb]

You don't know enough women.

[ShellyB]

This isn't good for anybody and you should not do it, however just to answer the question in a literal way, there can be situations where a girl stays w a guy who everybody around her knows she should not be with because she is insecure, so I guess in theory if the guy made her insecure that could result in her staying w him for longer, so in a v. limited way the answer could be yes in some situations.

I have been that girl so, that is how I know it can happen, however it will end badly so it really is not worth it in my opinion, I don't know if my evil ex who did it thinks it is worth it, I guess he got his jollies at my expense so maybe he did think so but for me, it really screwed things up for about two years w some dark thoughts and times of my life. But that was years ago now I am over it, but thinking back on it makes me sad. JMO!

[Worrying]

What if the attractive-looking girl has inferiority complex? Then she would be so sad if she is interested in you or be so turned off if she isn't interested in you. Don't do that, it is mean and cruel and will ruin everything.

The best way to get an attractive women is with your confidence, sincerity and knowing how to make plans with her. Sincerity is the only accessory that a guy will ever need. Good luck.

[Worrying]

Confidence* is the only accessory that a guy will ever need.

[ChefPapiChulo]

but does it work is the question. its a hypothetical question.

[Worrying]

@update : Sorry if my answer makes you feel that way 😂 No more inputs from me 🤣

[ChefPapiChulo]

just answer the question.

[Worrying]

The truth is : Nothing in this world is absolute. It works for some girls and doesn't work for others. It is silly to think that everyone is the same. Oh, sorry, morality lesson here again. I better shut and disappear. Bye. Lol.

[ChefPapiChulo]

So your answer is, it works on some people.

[Lisia]

Ehm good question.. it is kinda toxic but I think it works

[Lisia]

Wdym tool?

[ChefPapiChulo]

I don't know someone said “ This only shows you have the wrong tool for the job my guy.”

Trying to figure if that means I have a pussy or what.

[katiesmuff]

I think you might be setting your sights much too high! What makes you even think you could ever get a hot girl

[ChefPapiChulo]

Cause I’m good looking.

[katiesmuff]

Compared to what

[ChefPapiChulo]

That’s hardly coherent.

[katiesmuff]

How well has that worked so far! LOL

[ChefPapiChulo]

has what worked so far?

[Anonymous]

What tool are YOU supposed to have? You don’t have a tool against a hot girl. If that’s you in the profile picture, what makes you think you’re getting a hot girl in the first place?

[ChefPapiChulo]

cause i'm good looking.

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[ChefPapiChulo]

damn right.

[Kingofkings1992]

@chefpapichulo wow. 🤣 you just make it too easy sometimes

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Kingofkings1992 people who spam and use emojis are low IQ.

[ChefPapiChulo]

www.haptic.ro/.../

[Kingofkings1992]

@chefpapichulo there’s no correlation between using emojis and intelligence, the two are not related in any way. Anything else you wanna try and fail?

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Kingofkings1992 you’d like that to be the truth.

[Kingofkings1992]

@chefpapichulo like YOU have the slightest clue what intelligence means or looks like. Please don’t make me laugh

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Kingofkings1992 coming from an emoji spammer.

[Kingofkings1992]

@chefpapichulo I believe you are the spammer sir. You call yourself “chefpapichulo.” I’ve seen your cooking before you are far from a chef.

[Beckybooboo]

I don’t think that’s how you get them, that’s usually how you keep them.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Are you being serious?

[MzAsh]

This only shows you have the wrong tool for the job my guy.

[ChefPapiChulo]

What’s that supposed to mean?

[acrossvb]

Um, no. Who in their right mind wants to be with someone who would put them down like that?

[Drewtate]

Best way is to be 6ft, athletic/muscular, attractive, well educated, successful, dress fashionably and drivd a good car.

[Jezzzter]

Nope. The whole “break them down and build them up again” thing is manipulation.

[ChefPapiChulo]

but does it work?

[Jezzzter]

Unfortunately, sometimes it does. If a girl is confident enough, or has experience with these kinds of people, she’ll probably be able to tell what you’re doing.

Not sure why you’re asking, though. If you wanna be a shithead and ruin someone’s life, go ahead and do it ig.

If you’re not asking because you want to do it to someone, sorry for the aggressiveness.

[ChefPapiChulo]

I'm asking because I wanna know peoples opinions on this.

[Jezzzter]

Fair enough.

[ChefPapiChulo]

but i have done it.

[leahzrc]

Maybe because there is a real hot guy who pay little attention to me but I want him

[ChefPapiChulo]

but that doesn't count as destroying your self esteem tho right?

[leahzrc]

my spirit board says he gay but thinks about doing things to me

[leahzrc]

he a gay predator rapist apperently

[leahzrc]

They said I get a new boyfriend soon so self esteem in check plus gay guy attracted to me

[ChefPapiChulo]

"my spirit board says he gay but thinks about doing things to me"
lmao nice.

[ChefPapiChulo]

wait how is he" a gay predator rapist apperently?"

[leahzrc]

it said all that

[leahzrc]

everything I mentioned it did

[ChefPapiChulo]

what does it say about me?

[leahzrc]

I didn't ask I only play it on rare occasion

[ChefPapiChulo]

can you do it right now? i'm curious lol.

[leahzrc]

My mom is the hands, I am the journalist

[leahzrc]

I don't even know if they want me to ask anything

[ChefPapiChulo]

i like how clever you are :D

[leahzrc]

Oh am I

[ChefPapiChulo]

all good i'm just bored.

[ChefPapiChulo]

yes, very.

[Anonymous]

Can you give an example of what you would do to “destroy their self esteem?”

[ChefPapiChulo]

Not sure if I should lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Ooo ok, sounds pretty bad I’m assuming? If you genuinely like a girl, would you really want to “destroy her self esteem”? And why are you specifically looking for a “hot” girl. Look for a cute, quiet, nurturing, and loving girl that will bring you peace and comfort.

[ChefPapiChulo]

I’m just curious at people’s responses.

[Fuentes]

If u have to ask this, it shows you ain't getting none boy

[ChefPapiChulo]

oh? and how does it show that?

[Fuentes]

By asking "how to get a hot girl"

[ChefPapiChulo]

Did you read the whole question or nah

[Fuentes]

If u gotta ask anything like this about women bro, then u deff don't get any at all, u need to get some

[ChefPapiChulo]

So you’re not capable of explaining what you’re talking about?

[Fuentes]

I clearly did & you just can't read and that's sad

[ChefPapiChulo]

Yeah totally sad.

[Fuentes]

Adult school is still a thing pal.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Is that they call it? Adult school lol.

[Fuentes]

It's a thing bro, look it up

[ChefPapiChulo]

yeah i'm sure its a thing. its just funny how you say these things.

[Fuentes]

Look man despite our disagreements I want the best for everyone, and I think you will benefit. I wanna see u do good in life.

[ChefPapiChulo]

thanks buddy.

[riverrat3]

The guy himself would have very little self confidence

[Kingofkings1992]

No girls would even touch you with a 10 ft long pole

[Blacksnake285]

You shouldn’t have a problem getting one especially a girl from your own race?

[laraWM]

Worst idea ever

[ChicoFromThe305]

I can guarantee you being nice doesn't work 😂

[Nifrayu]

WTF? No! What are you talking about?

[Worst]

The best way to get any girl is via manipulation

[ChefPapiChulo]

True.

[DextroShade]

Only if she is too full of herself.

[Anonymous]

It might get them to obsess in my opinion

[ChefPapiChulo]

how so?

[collie22]

Nope