I think it’s creepy. I don’t think girls have the slightest clue how much it bothers dudes to be called creepy. The worst aspect is most of the time they say it, it’s directed at a guy who doesn’t even deserve it.
+1 yHow to (verbally) hit a man where it hurts.
“You’re such a p—y.” “Quit being such a p—y.” “Jesus, you’re such a girl.” “Sissy.” “Are you gonna cry like a little b—h?” “If you watch more of those movies, you’re gonna grow a v—-a.” “Grow a pair.” “Suck my d—k.” “Blow me.” “Stupid f-g.” “What are you, some kind of f—-t?”
These words are emasculating. They “reduce” a man to a woman. They reduce a man to a woman’s body part which is still somewhat taboo, that is still avoided because of the fear of “dirty”, of taste and smell. They reduce a man to a girl-child, considered to be an exceptionally helpless being. They reduce him to “not a man at all”. They imply that certain behaviors, particularly those considered to be feminine, will “feminize” the man in the eyes of his peers. If masculinity is the currency of status, then femininity empties the wallet. In using these words as insults, the speaker is subtly insulting women as well, suggesting that a man being like “them” is undesirable.
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Being masculine is currency for a man.. They do the same thing of masculine for a woman.. Most men don't want a masculine woman.. It's just not as easy of an insult, because a man has to earn being a man..
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@Hawkes_Lady men usually grow a thicker skin over time to slangs/insults like “p*ssy” and “fa**ot”. We usually know the person using them has major character defects themselves. It often makes the other person look worse. 9 out 10 times I’ve had someone insult me like I let it roll off my shoulders because I already knew the other person was just an insecure pos.
However when women calmly and without obscenity insult a man’s masculinity that can hit a much deeper nerve. It’s because we know the other person is talking clear headed and sincerely.
It’s one of the reasons the “friend zone” is an extremely deep and lasting insult for most men. The woman is literally telling the guy she views him as another woman she can “bond” with vs. a real man she can either accept or flat out reject (knowing she can never “bond” with). That cuts very deep and yes it is indeed because masculinity is a “currency” for men. It’s what created sexual attraction in most women and respect from other men.
Also masculinity requires confidence, bravery, risk taking, self-control, toughness, ruggedness, etc. Most men aren’t born with those qualities. Sure we got testosterone but we have long list of insecurities that rival female insecurities. But we develop those qualities by seeing what is successful in life vs what isn’t.
Most women aren’t romantically attracted to feminine men. You know that. So QUIT trying to encourage men otherwise. It really is the “easy way out” for men to act that way. - +1 y
@blueonblack22 Well said.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yPedo is the worst. Coward and creepy are tied for close second.
The problem with “creepy” is usually thrown out on a whim via to some girls “feelings” vs. what the guy actually did which is complete unfair bullshit.
Many women will label unattractive men who did absolutely nothing wrong to them as “creepy”. Especially if he is socially awkward.
It’s only getting worse too. Women are being told to “express their feelings” and just blurt out the first thought that runs across their mind without second thought. Men are being told they need to constrain themselves especially when interacting with women.
Meanwhile I hear the labels “slut”, “cunt” and “whore” almost never being used to slander women nowadays. Maybe it’s because I’m getting older. But I do recall those slurs being used quite a bit back in my HS days. But almost never now.
Overall that is good in its own rite. But the male bashing gender double standards are just getting worse and worse and worse on this. It needs to f*cking stop.
People need to judge particular actions e. g. a guy staring at a woman for 2 minutes as “creepy” vs throwing out a general label on somebody.
I know virtually every person alive has said or done something they are not proud of at some point in their lives. Myself included. But that doesn’t make me forever “a creep” or some girl forever “a slut”.
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+1 yIf the issue is Congressional money laundering, the girl has nothing, but wants to fight me anyway, and throws out language like "creeper," "incel," or "pedo" when that has nothing to do with the topic at hand, I instantly lose all respect for her.
When a man who previously had my back decides to backstab me and make similar accusations, equally baselessly, because of one lie that I won't let him preach in peace, I equally lose all respect for him.
Those who operate at that level are genuine slimeballs, and usually projecting. I used to spend more time defending myself against such riffraff. I'm quicker now to hit the block button. They know they're wrong. They don't care. So in the stump grinder they can go!
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yFrom my experience, anything comparing a man to acting like a woman pisses them off. If I really want to piss off a guy I’ll start talking to him in female pronouns and tell him he’s acting like a woman. Works every time. Lol
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1.7K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Personally I like calling men insults that they would typically call a woman like bitch, slut, cunt. It's even more offensive to them because I'm looking at them in a feminine way enough to call them those things 😂
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You are a cruel evil genius. Just change cunt to pussy
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@virtue2332 haha I forgot to add pussy. That's a good insult too. Men are always shocked when I call them these things
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"Men are always shocked when I call them these things."
Are they really? Cause I always thought "pussy" was specific to men.. I don't see a lot of people call women "pussies".. - +1 y
No they might say she has some good p
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That’s weird miss apple
+1 yThe topic is creepy...
Why would you like to insult anyone consciously ffs?
But I learned yesterday, that word which is totally neutral for me could be hard to digest to another person.
So even if we don't plan to insult... we can do it in the stupidest possible way.
Just try to not do it, you know :D10 Reply
+1 yI've been called a number of the choice insults on the list. Women need to chill out. If a girl rejects a guy is should just be a simple no or no thanks. There is no need to throw in a couple of insults on the guy's looks or personality. It makes them look like the alpha woman and makes them feel good when in reality they are not so hot deep down. In other words, they're attractive on the outside, but in their hearts is darkness. This makes them scared and inferior, which is why they do the same to you with the insults. Like your typical bully, and I've had a lot of them when I was in school.
00 Reply351 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. You little " Nancy Boy " you are an utter " Soft Cock " , you are not a " Real Man "
" Grow a pair , you fcken wanker " , just an absolute Nancy Boy
I could go on :)
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He could go on but his girl won't let him.
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@virtue2332 hahahahahaha , yeah sure right !
816 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. According to my husband, if you're wanting to make a guy salty then tell him he's "too old". For him, personally, saying something negative about his integrity would be the most insulting, but he doesn't think it would bother most men as much.
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I can definitely understand the too old.
+1 yI think more insutling than words are situations. Like when a guy feels like he can't approach a certain girl and she makes it clear that he is not good enough for her. If a guy can't get a job and he is seen as a loser and looked at with disdain. When feeling weak or unable to act like a man and be strong.
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+1 yThe other day a male colleague was getting lippy with me so I said "why don't you take some lessons from your hairline and stepp it back a little"
20 ReplyWrap all of those choices together, and I can tell you the ONE word that would make them all pale in comparison. It's every man's worst nightmare.
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+1 yTheir ex's name. That depends if you're dating the person though but that is possibly the worst insult
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Do you mean call them your exes name. That is Savage Haley. well done
837 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. The three most humiliating things a woman can call me are --
-- 'sissy'
-- 'incel'
- 'bitch'
10 Reply582 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Anything that insults his masculinity or makes him feel like less of a man. They’re so sensitive about that stuff.
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+1 yAll "creepy" means is they find a guy unattractive. If they think a guy is hot they will only tolerate but appreciate behaviors from him that they label creepy if performed by an ugly guy.
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+1 yI think a woman calling a man a ‘pussy’, particularly if she’s calling him out for some cowardly or juvenile behavior is pretty cutting.
00 Reply598 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I think I would be most devastated if a woman called me a republican. Ouch.
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So… you’d rather be thought of as a pussy and a moron instead? Cool.
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Yeah, there’s a lot of terrible stuff in this world. For example, someone not using a person’s preferred pronouns.
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Of course. And surely that's such a nuisance somewhere in the world that we must quickly become fascists and pummell anyone who disagrees with us with massive overwhelming political violence, so no one can expect us to feel slightly bad about it and strive to stop being stupid monkeys. To the ammo store we go 😂
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Well I don’t need ammo at the moment, but I could use a beer. You want one?
+1 yIn my opinion, the worst insult is when someone tells you that you are ugly or that you look older than your age.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNincompoop. Trust me, if he's from the 1930's he'll be ready to lay down the pound town. You'll be hurtin' for certain.
10 ReplyFor a woman it is
C**t
For a man
C**k
Lol note that feale genitalia sounds more disgusting. Maybe because it is hole and is being used/pumped.
10 ReplyI get called all but fat or coward almost daily, being called creepy or a creep just because of my deformed face used to bother me the most but I am used to it, doesn't mean it no longer hurts, I'm just used to it.
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+1 yNot a single thing directed at me would insult me. Now if you insult my wife or kids I'll put you in the grave or the hospital.
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+1 yI'm 5 feet 6 inches height. So slightly on shorter side. So this word "Short" used to piss me of a lot in past 😂. But now I enjoy it in a funny way.
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Oh got it. Totally feel you brother. Ya in those situations it's little frustrating.
- 745 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
+1 yThe worst insult to me would be something like
" you're a good citizen"00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yA man I don't believe in. That's the worst thing a woman can say to a man if she's with. If not with him then incel probably.
00 Reply- 1.9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
u +1 ya Nickelback fan
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+1 yUgly dude = Creepy
Hot dude = Cheeky
It's the injustice of it that rankles more than anything.
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+1 yUnless she's accusing me of a crime I don't really care. Stuff like what is listed just tells me, "Avoid Little Miss Toxic."
00 Reply I don't know if women know just how much they hurt us with their words.
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+1 yCreepy, because that always leads to more like false accusations
00 Reply6.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Old man and creep and loser is there one and only cut downs
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+1 yCall'm a "b" too..
It means he's not a real man (!)
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+1 yI think that women have a right to be afraid. Men don't because of tradition.
00 Reply386 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. A bitch when he's whining about stupid things
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@chris_987
Well, more like you're a frickin girly BOY
+1 yİt depends on the person
10 ReplySomeone about his penis
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+1 yShort. Terrible in bed.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI thought short was the worst lol
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Maybe. I wouldn’t know I’m 6’5
Opinion Owner+1 yoh that's creepy
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Lol okay we got a comedian
Opinion Owner+1 y😁 creeeeee...
I can't say it because I think I will get reported
10 Reply862 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Not sure I'm not offended by much
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+1 yWhat kind of psycho ass question is this?
00 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. coward. no question.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yCoward, creepy is a close second.
00 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
+1 yNeedledick.
00 Reply Normal.
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+1 yCoward.
10 Reply 335 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Rapist.
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+1 yWoke guy
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