Games such as ignoring you to try and get attention, trying to make you jealous etc.
I hear lots of people say that they dont like to play those games. Yet most girls who I've been told are interested in me do so, and I just decide its not worth it.
Games such as ignoring you to try and get attention, trying to make you jealous etc.
I hear lots of people say that they dont like to play those games. Yet most girls who I've been told are interested in me do so, and I just decide its not worth it.
well first of all, be aware of which games she’s running. then, use that information to run your own game. once you set that in motion, you’ll be able to manipulate her… putting you in control. you can expose her for playing games if that’s what you want. honestly though, if she likes you just roll with it… the ball is in your court
100% and nothing wrong in that..
I let her play n let her feel she is winning while i laughed in silence..😂
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So you are making your decisions and observations based off word of mouth? At least accuse them of playing mind games if they directly expressed interest, you’re just hearing this from people.
Dislike it all you want, it’s ridiculous you say these girls are playing games when they’ve never even said directly that they like you. At least have the balls to ask them before doing what you do.
i mean he’s saying he knows for a fact they play. the only thing he’s hearing by word of mouth would be their interest in him. what’s ridiculous is the way you think in order for him to say these girls are playing games they have to directly say that they like him. it’s not even about having balls, to put it simply… he isn’t trying to give these girls the time of day because he doesn’t fuck with chicks that play mind games. I think it’s also ridiculous that he doesn't fuck with chicks who play mind games because honestly they are way more fun to interact with. not to mention, you can develop your own strategies by observing first hand how they play theirs.
I have to disagree. Children play games, adults don’t have time for that because they aren’t going to risk losing someone they actually want something with. My point of mentioning that he hasn’t gotten direct confirmation from those women having a crush is because what if they aren’t playing games at all? I can’t say I’m very savvy with the whole game playing because I have no time for nonsense, but to me it’s being flakey, making excuses not to see the person, stringing them along etc. Thing is that from my POV those are also the actions of a woman trying to relay disinterest. If he’s trying to flirt, hang out, essentially move things forward and she’s preventing it from happening basically then in my logical mind I’m going to wonder if maybe the person who said so and so liked him gave him false information. At the very least, info that wasn’t meant to leave the conversation with that friend. Unfortunately this does happen because in my life I’ve had friends “help” by going to a guy directly when really that is horrible help since I’m not interested in the guy, even to the stent that I don’t wanna pursue something. For instance, I can think he’s hot and comment on it but that doesn’t automatically translate to interest in beginning something.
Also, there is nothing fun about playing games. It teaches you nothing but noncommittal traits and how to mess with someone’s head along with over complicating simple milestones like good communication and trust. For instance, if a guy is taking long to text me back I’m not going to also wait a century when he finally gets back to me. The only lesson there is that rather than being indirect about my distaste I should either comment on it or note that it’s something I don’t like. Same as if he’s flakey, I’m not going to turn around and do the same, I will tell him I’m not ok with these cancellations OR acknowledge within myself that I don’t deserve repeated disappointment. Playing games creates obstacles, rifts and usually lead to situationships since neither party know how to manage/relay how they’re feeling.
I haven't noticed many.
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