Girls, Do you like a guy who compliments you?

[Grklad]

Hey ladies, I know women say they like bad boys and play hard to get guys. But are there any women who like honest upfront guys who compliment you. Like if he tells you you look beautiful on a first date and gives you compliments sometimes. If I find a girl attractive it makes me happy telling her so I hate playing hard to get.

[MissStrawberry912]

I LOVE when a guy compliments me especially if it’s genuine and thoughtful. I like feeling adore and such hehe. And oh no, please don’t believe that stereotype/myth that most women like bad boys… that’s just some, but most women just want a genuine, good guy. I feel like it’s rare for me to meet someone whos sincere and can value me wholeheartedly than playing games, hard to get, or how many women they can chase… I really lose interest once that starts happening and it doesn’t feel healthy. I’ve been walking away or friendzoning on so many guys lately because of these commonalities being presented in dating with these games, “bad boys” and such…

[_Maya_]

Absolutely yes. The whole women like bad boys is a myth. Sure some do like that type of guy because we all have our types and preferences but it isn't a majority. I absolutely love a nice compliment if it is genuine and not with the intention of getting in my pants. Playing hard to get is unattractive and not something I do. If I like you then you will know it. Kinda hard to know that after one date but I'm not one that is going to mess around and play games.

[Grklad]

Thanks Maya, no I get what you mean that’s why sometimes I avoid complements because I don’t want a girl to think I only want to get in her pants because honestly I do want a relationship. But I also do want her to be loved and happy so I love giving compliments.

[_Maya_]

Trust me. We are really good at sniffing out the genuine ones and the compliments that are being thrown at us to get us in bed. You're fine giving compliments and I always appreciate them.

[Grklad]

Thanks for answering both my questions maya I appreciate it ☺️if you don’t mind could you follow me too?

[_Maya_]

You're welcome!

[Grklad]

Thank you, I appreciate it’s nice to get women’s perspective on things too. I appreciate the follow too thanks Maya

[_Maya_]

Sure thing 💜

[_Maya_]

Thank you for most helpful opinion!

[Grklad]

No worries thank you, I can’t find you in my follies anymore though 😔

[mandyfire98]

Most women don't actually like actual bad boys. That's a generalization used by people online to have an excuse for why women don't like them or date them.

"She doesn't like me, but I'm a great guy, she's just broken. She likes guys that will treat her like garbage and then she'll get what's coming to her. It's definitely not me, its her."

That's how that mentality got started. It was to deal with rejection. Coping mechanism.

But yes women enjoy compliments. We are human afterall.

[Beckybooboo]

I absolutely like compliments, as long as they aren’t cheesy. I ended up eventually dating my current boyfriend after he complimented me. It’s actually a good way to break the ice.

[Anonymous]

I would love it, but the way he say it plays an important role on how i perceive the compliments. Not in a cringy way, not too frequent to the point i would just think it is just simply a word, say it naturally so that its not awkward for the receiver as well

[Nikki1989]

Not really. Most compliments are not genuine, especially coming from men.

[Lisia]

I love compliments ☺️ I'd automatically think a guy who compliments me is nicer so I'd be more drawn to him

[mentallybroken0420]

Hell yeah especially when I'm not looking my best and on some ugly shit

[Radiate143]

I know women say they like bad boys and play hard to get guys. ⬅️ No we don't.

Yes, please be genuine and authentic.

[WhitneySnow]

I like being complimented but only if the guy is sincere and believes what he’s saying

[sheikalana]

Of course! Most women if not all love receiving compliments.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I want a man that acts like a man not a woman. Woman are the ones that play hard to get. If a man acts hard to get than he's just acting like a woman.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, it won't win points.

[Anonymous]

Who doesn't?