Women of color : if a man is particularly attracted to you because of it, how would you feel about it

[enterr10]

If a man is attracted to you especially because of your dark skin and really appreciates it , finds it quite charming and sexy... describes you as dark chocolate etc and compliments your dark skin quite often.

How would you feel about it?

It's unusual, generally men want/prefer light fair skinned women

I would like it and would be attracted to him as well

I have noticed that generally white /fair men are drawn to dark skinned women

Others

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[Anonymous]

Going anon to avoid trolls and potential rude comments-

Honestly? I wouldn't like it and would probably think he is with me as a fetish more than anything. Even if he genuinely likes me and is attracted to me because I happen to be black, I'd think he's just with me because of the color of my skin and nothing more. If anything, it's usually a red flag when a guy throws all those "black compliments" at me because it makes it seem like he's dating me for just my race, and not for my other attributes.

I'm not saying it's wrong to like black women and their features. Just don't make that the emphasis of why you're attracted to or dating them! The fact you're interested in us is more than enough :) I don't need a guy telling me he's attracted to me strictly because of my skin.

[enterr10]

Okay 👍. I got it.
Well , would it be okay to at least at some point tell you/her that he likes your dark skin and that he feels it's really charming and sexy thing about you?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I think it is a fetish more than anything else. They don't care about your personality, they just get turned on seeing a dark skin color.

Not say all are like that! But I have noticed that.

[enterr10]

You have experienced men who are attracted to you because of your dark skin? But nothing more?
What makes you feel it's just a fetish?

[Hawkes_Lady]

I am not who this question is intended for because I am as white as white can get. That being said. I wouldn't appreciate someone who says they're in love with me constantly commenting on my skin color. I am way more than my skin color, hair color, eye color, height, weight, clothing size, or anything else that you can judge a person for from looking at the outside of me. I want the man I am with to love me for what I am on the inside, for the things that I stand for, for the things that matter. Looks are fleeting, they fade, and they get old, fat, and wrinkly. Morals and personality don't change over the years and those are, at least for me, what is important.

[menina]

Men are usually attracted to light skinned/white women, even those who aren't light skinned or white themselves.

I would be surprised, like I always do when a white man shows that he's attracted to me or finds me attractive.

However, I don't want to hear comments about my skin color or tone. I'm not a chocolate, I'm a human being. Also, I don't want to be with a man who has a fetish for black women. That's extremely offensive.

[enterr10]

Why do you feel he has a " fetish " for black skinned women 🤔😞🥺
He likes it. It's not a fetish :/

[enterr10]

And yes generally people prefer, like and are attracted to whiter / pale / light skinned people. Even women ( and men) who aren't themselves white/light want and like a lighter skinned person. But why is it so? Why everyone wants a lighter skinned person? What's wrong or unattractive with a healthy vibrant dark skin?

[menina]

Because that's what it is. He only wants to be with black women because of their skin color. And guys who have this fetish see black women as sex objects. Not as women and human beings.

[menina]

Not everyone wants to be with a light skinned/white person. If it was like that, then everybody would be light skinned/white.

Well, have you heard about something called RACISM? Have you heard about something called EUROCENTRIC views?
If you do, then you got your answer.

[enterr10]

Obviously yes I have heard about all that

[menina]

Then you know. So there's no need to ask.

[Anonymous]

I’m white but I’ve attracted black and Asian men that were only attracted to white women. It never bothered me if that was part of the reason since you can’t control who you’re attracted to unless they were obviously fetishizing it. Usually got that more from black men, but I used to live in an area that was mostly white and then black without a lot of diversity outside of that.

[enterr10]

Are you comfortable with black men?

[Screenwriter]

There's nothing wrong with a man being attracted to a dark-skinned woman, but there is the caveat of it being the MAIN reason that is troublesome.

If it's only an "exotic" choice, this too will likely pass. No one wants to be chosen because of ONE aspect. If the choice includes the REST of the package: personality, intelligence, warmth, sense of humor, then it's fine.

Otherwise, not so great.

[kibbenkat]

I like people of any race tbh. It's not a factor at all for me.

[mentallychill]

i don’t see how people can have skin color fetishes. That’s odd and should be avoided. personality >>>

[whistlingwh0res]

It comes down to tits size not the race

[enterr10]

O yeah 🤣?

[Jazzy54]

Hard pass. That’s not loving me as a person.

[enterr10]

So you wouldn't like it?

[Jazzy54]

No I wouldn’t. Again, a man only loving me for my skin color is not loving me as a person.

[Anonymous]

I’ll pass, Thank you

[enterr10]

But why 🧐

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t wanna be fetishized and be constantly being reminded of skin color as if I am an object.