Keeping in mind that I could be seeing her from any angle, the first thing I usually notice is her overall silhouette - how tall is she, and what is her overall body shape/size? Even in clothing that isn't very revealing, you can usually get a decent idea of her silhouette.
Next is probably going to be typical sexual body parts that are particularly nice - a great ass, shapely boobs, a flat stomach, narrow waist, etc., assuming they are reasonably visible given her clothing and my angle to her. I suppose her hair length is probably also going to be something I pick up either in the first or second stage.
As a "breast man", if I haven't already, I'm probably going to look at her boobs. The simple truth is that I love boobs, so I'm probably going to have a pretty good idea of what hers look like if I'm checking her out. Ass men are going to do the same thing, as are leg or feet men, with those parts.
In the real world, you often aren't going to have a great angle to see a girl's face initially, so you often need to get her attention - to talk to her a bit - to get her looking your way so that you can see her face - and you usually have to be reasonably close, while the other things you can often see well enough from further away. That's why I wouldn't put face in the top 3, even though that's actually pretty important to most guys. It would be different if every girl you met was standing at attention looking in your direction, but that's not reality. Plus, a person's face can change a lot as they go through a series of expressions, so it can take a bit of time to absorb the whole face picture.
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I go for the face then her dressing style
I think this is what EVERYBODY first notices. A nice face is the gateway to everything. Then you spend time talking to them, laughing with them and you become interested in the rest of the package.
Human nature.
I said lips because smile wasn't an option, but that's what I always notice in women
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Face normally then I check out the way a girl dress.
Whatever catches my eye first. Something usually stands out and it often has to do with what she is wearing and what's on display. It could be her hair, legs, boobs, hips/ass.
It is often her general figure - the combination of her boobs, waist, hips and legs. If she has nice curves, I'll assess her ass more thoroughly.
If a woman's assets are enough for me to take notice, I look at her face to see if it matches the rest of her.
All of this occurs almost instantaneously and rather surreptitiously. I wouldn't want to make a woman feel uncomfortable by noticing me gawking.I'm a pretty detailed person so I'm going to take it all in all at one time but then the focus would be on her eyes because I want to know who she is on the inside because that's the real her. And all at the same time listening to her words watching her body language her eye movement just every little detail
I've meant girls before and I do all the above and it might take me a week maybe two weeks where I will just stop and I'll actually look at her and say damn she's beautiful I try to keep the outer part of her body out of it all until I know who she is on the inside- u
it's going to be about what I see of her first... lol
could be her hair, could be her eyes... either I see her from the back or the front, truth is... I do notice a lot instantly or right away, if not all of her That's a really hard question to answer! There are so many factors at play, including her specific look and body, the situation and what she is wearing / how she has prepared herself.
For example:- If I'm at the beach and walking behind a girl in a thong bikini I'm naturally going to notice her booty first.
- If she was walking towards me topless, I'd be trying not to notice her boobs.
- If it were winter outdoors I would probably only be able to see her face to would notice that first.
- At a party I would probably notice her 'overall appearance' most likely centering on her face.
Anyway, there there nothing better than a smile to peak my interest.
Only answering this because the question won't leave my feed alone. I'm absolutely face-blind when it comes to women. If you asked me to describe someone famous, I might be able to tell you what she's been in, her hair color perhaps, but what do I notice about them when I see them? Whether they look happy or angry when they want to talk to me. None of their features are registering with me.
I find you can tell women apart by their hair. It says a lot about them even if they wear wigs. The face can change dramatically with makeup or lack thereof and the breasts can be accentuated with inserts or a bra or clothing to fake the reality of what they actually are. Hair can differentiate status and even personal living standards.
The face is the best indicator of whether a person, in this case a girl, is approachable at all. The face usually shows emotional state, so that's where I look first. The other options are, of course, scanned too, but not by me before the face.
It's obvious that's the one part that you will be seeing the most throughout your relationship if one was to take root, and her body can look fine from chest on down but if the face is out of place then so is rest of her, when you wake in morning you want to get her and the day with eyes wide open, and a smile, not yikes,
The first thing I see in a girl is her eyes and teeth… if they are nasty , I do not want to talk to her…. If she does not have a nice face and body I would not be interested in her sexually. Finally once I am looking to actually date her (being romantically), if she is not active which is an important part of my life. I would not pursuit her.
You must have heard of it, "depends if she's coming towards me or going away from me" 😜
I personally look at the facial apperance. Everything else is an added bonus then lolIt depends on what angle I have. If I'm behind her, definitely fashion style, ass (if it's showing) and hair style. I can usually tell how attractive a girl is overall based on these alone.
If I have a front view, it's fashion style, face, hair and eyes.It depends on what I'm first presented with ad what she's wearing. If I see her from behind, it could be her hair, her ass, her legs, her clothes. If I see her from the front, it could be her face, eyes, hair, clothes, tits, pussy (if she's naked).
Its hard to say, because different bodies present themselves differently. So it all depends on her. Plus it depends on which side you see first. I have noticed myself noticing different things on individual girls before other things.
I'd rather be with a woman with a hot face but plain body, than a woman with a plain face but hot body. Especially since bodies can change via diet, exercise, stress, injuries, environment, and hormones. The face (or rather the skin) can only drastically change from stress and diet short term, but long term you'll need to do surgery.
Usually it's a combo of face, body, how well they're put together. How they carry themselves.
Her walk. Does she carry herself well and move with poise or does it look like a kitten with boots strapped on his feet and a no-scratch cone of shame, just bumping about and knocking shite down.
Its never the same. Sometimes its the hair because or the colour or a particular hairdo that stands out. Sometimes lips. At times it can even be yes. If she's tall and her legs are bare then i'll tend to notice the legs first.
I look at her face first in combination with her hairstyle, mainly the length of her hairs. Whybthe hair? The length of her hair is mainly because short haired girls totally turn me off
( no offense to woman having short hair styles )The first two things I notice about her are her feet and her butt.
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