Talking only about the appearance, what do you first notice in a girl?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Keeping in mind that I could be seeing her from any angle, the first thing I usually notice is her overall silhouette - how tall is she, and what is her overall body shape/size? Even in clothing that isn't very revealing, you can usually get a decent idea of her silhouette.

Next is probably going to be typical sexual body parts that are particularly nice - a great ass, shapely boobs, a flat stomach, narrow waist, etc., assuming they are reasonably visible given her clothing and my angle to her. I suppose her hair length is probably also going to be something I pick up either in the first or second stage.

As a "breast man", if I haven't already, I'm probably going to look at her boobs. The simple truth is that I love boobs, so I'm probably going to have a pretty good idea of what hers look like if I'm checking her out. Ass men are going to do the same thing, as are leg or feet men, with those parts.

In the real world, you often aren't going to have a great angle to see a girl's face initially, so you often need to get her attention - to talk to her a bit - to get her looking your way so that you can see her face - and you usually have to be reasonably close, while the other things you can often see well enough from further away. That's why I wouldn't put face in the top 3, even though that's actually pretty important to most guys. It would be different if every girl you met was standing at attention looking in your direction, but that's not reality. Plus, a person's face can change a lot as they go through a series of expressions, so it can take a bit of time to absorb the whole face picture.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I go for the face then her dressing style

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I think this is what EVERYBODY first notices. A nice face is the gateway to everything. Then you spend time talking to them, laughing with them and you become interested in the rest of the package.

Human nature.

wiltingrosepetal · Accepted Answer

I said lips because smile wasn't an option, but that's what I always notice in women

coolbreeze · Answer

Face normally then I check out the way a girl dress.

Lliam · Answer

Whatever catches my eye first. Something usually stands out and it often has to do with what she is wearing and what's on display. It could be her hair, legs, boobs, hips/ass.
It is often her general figure - the combination of her boobs, waist, hips and legs. If she has nice curves, I'll assess her ass more thoroughly.
If a woman's assets are enough for me to take notice, I look at her face to see if it matches the rest of her.

All of this occurs almost instantaneously and rather surreptitiously. I wouldn't want to make a woman feel uncomfortable by noticing me gawking.

ohsheeT · Answer

I'm a pretty detailed person so I'm going to take it all in all at one time but then the focus would be on her eyes because I want to know who she is on the inside because that's the real her. And all at the same time listening to her words watching her body language her eye movement just every little detail

I've meant girls before and I do all the above and it might take me a week maybe two weeks where I will just stop and I'll actually look at her and say damn she's beautiful I try to keep the outer part of her body out of it all until I know who she is on the inside

NathanDavis · Answer

it's going to be about what I see of her first... lol

could be her hair, could be her eyes... either I see her from the back or the front, truth is... I do notice a lot instantly or right away, if not all of her

stratford · Answer

That's a really hard question to answer! There are so many factors at play, including her specific look and body, the situation and what she is wearing / how she has prepared herself.
For example:

If I'm at the beach and walking behind a girl in a thong bikini I'm naturally going to notice her booty first.
If she was walking towards me topless, I'd be trying not to notice her boobs.
If it were winter outdoors I would probably only be able to see her face to would notice that first.
At a party I would probably notice her 'overall appearance' most likely centering on her face.

Anyway, there there nothing better than a smile to peak my interest.

antelope51 · Answer

Only answering this because the question won't leave my feed alone. I'm absolutely face-blind when it comes to women. If you asked me to describe someone famous, I might be able to tell you what she's been in, her hair color perhaps, but what do I notice about them when I see them? Whether they look happy or angry when they want to talk to me. None of their features are registering with me.

TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff · Answer

I find you can tell women apart by their hair. It says a lot about them even if they wear wigs. The face can change dramatically with makeup or lack thereof and the breasts can be accentuated with inserts or a bra or clothing to fake the reality of what they actually are. Hair can differentiate status and even personal living standards.

Craftsman · Answer

The face is the best indicator of whether a person, in this case a girl, is approachable at all. The face usually shows emotional state, so that's where I look first. The other options are, of course, scanned too, but not by me before the face.

HawkPerception · Answer

It depends on what angle I have. If I'm behind her, definitely fashion style, ass (if it's showing) and hair style. I can usually tell how attractive a girl is overall based on these alone.

If I have a front view, it's fashion style, face, hair and eyes.

smne35 · Answer

It's obvious that's the one part that you will be seeing the most throughout your relationship if one was to take root, and her body can look fine from chest on down but if the face is out of place then so is rest of her, when you wake in morning you want to get her and the day with eyes wide open, and a smile, not yikes,

Mr_Wolf · Answer

The first thing I see in a girl is her eyes and teeth… if they are nasty , I do not want to talk to her…. If she does not have a nice face and body I would not be interested in her sexually. Finally once I am looking to actually date her (being romantically), if she is not active which is an important part of my life. I would not pursuit her.

Saiesh30 · Answer

You must have heard of it, "depends if she's coming towards me or going away from me" 😜 I personally look at the facial apperance. Everything else is an added bonus then lol

bingbongbangbung · Answer

I'd rather be with a woman with a hot face but plain body, than a woman with a plain face but hot body. Especially since bodies can change via diet, exercise, stress, injuries, environment, and hormones. The face (or rather the skin) can only drastically change from stress and diet short term, but long term you'll need to do surgery.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

It depends on what I'm first presented with ad what she's wearing. If I see her from behind, it could be her hair, her ass, her legs, her clothes. If I see her from the front, it could be her face, eyes, hair, clothes, tits, pussy (if she's naked).

Grond21 · Answer

Its hard to say, because different bodies present themselves differently. So it all depends on her. Plus it depends on which side you see first. I have noticed myself noticing different things on individual girls before other things.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Usually it's a combo of face, body, how well they're put together. How they carry themselves.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Her walk. Does she carry herself well and move with poise or does it look like a kitten with boots strapped on his feet and a no-scratch cone of shame, just bumping about and knocking shite down.

renodnol32 · Answer

Its never the same. Sometimes its the hair because or the colour or a particular hairdo that stands out. Sometimes lips. At times it can even be yes. If she's tall and her legs are bare then i'll tend to notice the legs first.

Billlewis · Answer

The first two things I notice about her are her feet and her butt.

Bandodogs · Answer

The poll is kinda useless here. What do I notice? The eycatching thing. Often it's fashion chioces, huge boobs or big hair. Sometimes it's a dazzling smile or laugh. It could be dimples, or curves, or eyes. If it's tattoos or piercings that I notice first, experience tells me that she has these instead of a personality, so I walk away.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I notice her personality and a way she talks and carries herself. I like a girl with a great personality, loves to smile, laugh, take long walks holding hands, public displays of affection, I love picnic dates.

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

The outfit, obviously. Is it modest... or hardly existent. And probably the face, as well. Especially whether I can actually see it or is it hidden behind thick layers of make-up.

glennos89 · Answer

I look at her face first in combination with her hairstyle, mainly the length of her hairs. Whybthe hair? The length of her hair is mainly because short haired girls totally turn me off
( no offense to woman having short hair styles )

Dave6769 · Answer

a cute face gets me every time I don't know why but I'm usually really nervous if they have a really cute face like it's kinda intimidating or whatever. lol. it was close enough with a women's hair being my choice they both compliment one another I'd say.

Forceinhand · Answer

Depends entirely on which part stands out most/is most noticeable.

SixFootSexy · Answer

Face, boobs, hair, smile & jewelry  (or lack thereof) , teeth, personality. In that order typically. Unless she's leaving, then it's her bum. XD

Fireguy17 · Answer

and smile, so kind of her face but not her whole face.

pervertedjester · Answer

To quote the movie: So I Married an Axe Murderer "Well, I know everyone always says sense of humor, but I'd really have to go with breast size."

AlphaMale1 · Answer

The second tooth on the top to the right. It seems out of place as it is shorter than the rest.

DJB72 · Answer

If I'm in my wheelchair, boobs. But only because my eyes are at boob level when I'm in the chair. If I'm on my prosthetic leg 🦿 - about 60% of the last 3 years - eyes.

JacobJordan · Answer

Hair I love women with long thick lustrous hair. Of all physical features that is the very first thing I notice. Then I notice eyes, mouth, nose, neck, and work my way down.

rosemilk · Answer

eyes because they usually have such great eyeliner and lashes lol

Sharkstealth · Answer

Her waist then maybe her face and the way her waist flows down to her thighs.

RingOfFire · Answer

Voted "Other" because it's all of the above plus other subtle details of her anatomy. If the whole package doesn't work together, no single individual part will appeal to me.

Biancam13 · Answer

I'm a fellow girl and straight, but face. I admire beautiful faces in others.

Anonymous · Answer

First date with my ex, I tried not to stare at her boobs. She was really skinny wearing very ugly clothes but had this big set of boobs too big for her short tiny frame

Siri137 · Answer

As is the case with folks of the other gender, the face of course.

RandomUser1000 · Answer

Usually face. Butt like if I see her from behind I can't see her face. So depends.

hohohoo · Answer

Breast milk is the first thing you taste when you're a baby. So it is natural for everyone to like boobs unless you...

muscles_glasses · Answer

depends on what is most prominant... if she has long hair I will notice that etc.

laly520 · Answer

I would notice the face the the whole body and apperance

Anonymous · Answer

I'll give you a hint.

Howdidthishappen · Answer

I chose a women’s face as most important, but I was so surprised most people chose the same answer. Most guys when they are talking among themselves never say wow that woman has a great face. It’s usually boobs or butt.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Hips width and the (hopefully minimal) amount of fat mass.

clampfan101 · Answer

Face,(which includes eyes and lips), hair, and voice. Those are the three most important aspects of physical beauty to me.

riverrat3 · Answer

Depends on which side of her i see first, i notice butts and boobs

RedInnocent68 · Answer

It depends. From behind, ass. From a distance, hair. Head on, a combination of face and boobs…

msc545 · Answer

Her face followed closely by her hair, eyes and body.  closely by her hair, eyes and body.

Minahh · Answer

Voted for face. This one girl in my highschool was so pretty. Like I haven't seen anyone prettier than her to me. Consider that I'm heteroromantic.

uisasds · Answer

I chose other because I don't care about that other stuff because I believe it is personality that counts and my girlfriend has everything I like in a women

cryanBWC_10collins · Answer

THE EYES AND LIPS ARE ALWAYS MAKING ME HARD AND THROBBING HARD 💋

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

All of these, but i like to focus on the face most!

GuyKyle79AD · Answer

The smile and attention next then everything else.

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

combination bwtween face and hair unless their boobs are really big

boobliker · Answer

the walk is the first thing I see as you walk towards me, then boobs, and how you talk.

Carly2005 · Answer

Her face also how they treat those in the survive industry.

JoshMa · Answer

This is very dependent on what angle you see her first. Face shouldn't be a surprise though

AngryCarl · Answer

Legs. If the legs are good it's likely everything else will be.

NeverGiveUp69 · Answer

For me it is Tits then eyes, mouth, hair then body

firstladdiebrady · Answer

Her boobs, hair, legs and bottom in that order.

Talking only about the appearance, what do you first notice in a girl?

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I notice her personality and a way she talks and carries herself. I like a girl with a great personality, loves to smile, laugh, take long walks holding hands, public displays of affection, I love picnic dates.

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I notice her personality and a way she talks and carries herself. I like a girl with a great personality, loves to smile, laugh, take long walks holding hands, public displays of affection, I love picnic dates.

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