Does this girl only text me whenever she has no one to talk to or does she text me everytime she is free?

[Anonymous]

I have been texting this girl online, and sometimes she takes hours to respond, but sometimes she responds instantly. How can I know if she is responding everytime she is free, or only responding when no one else is talking to her?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a tough one bro. With girls you never really know for sure what they're up to. Couple things could be going on:

- She might only hit you up when she's bored and no one else is around. If she leaves you on read for a long time sometimes that could be a sign.

- BUT she also may just be busy sometimes with work/friends/life and can't always be on her phone. Not everyone is glued to their phones 24/7.

- Does she ask you questions back or seem engaged when you are chatting? Or is it just one word replies like she ain't that into it? Pay attention to her effort level.

My advice would be don't overthink it too much man. As long as the convos are cool when you do talk, I wouldn't stress the timing too much. Maybe try shooting her a text when you know she's usually free, like evenings/weekends. See if she makes more of an effort to chat up then.

And definitely don't double text her if she doesn't reply quick. Play it chill, let her come to you sometimes too. The more you come off needy the less she'll want to chat, feel me? Just roll with it and see what's up bro!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Who knows but that pace seems to point to that reason tbh, but maybe she isn't a online person or much of a texter but if this is the case then it's most likely that he speaks to others in person but it's honestly hard to tell.

[Anonymous]

If you are foolish enough to think texting is somehow a legit form of communication, then you deserve to be screwed around by it at times.

[In_Trance]

Call her