Guys why don’t u come up to a girl (on a party or just outside when u see her) if u think she’s cute?

[overthinkergirl]

[Anonymous]

Because for one when it comes to most men it’s not that easy. You may think it is because you’ve probably never had to do it yourself. A man has one chance to not mess it up, which more than likely he will if he doesn’t have experience w talking to girls. But if he messes up women label him as weird or coming off as creepy. When in reality they don’t realize this dude is probably at one of the most vulnerable spots he will ever be in his life trying to not screw up. Even if you have went up to men yourself I doubt it’s as much as men have had to do throughout history. Two a lot of men these days don’t want to get labeled or accused of something. There’s been so many false accusations by women against men that their lives were ruined. Even after consenting, having hooked up w him it’s easy for her to turn around and say he raped her because she regretted it after. I know it’s not happening hundreds at a time, but it happens. Besides why would I want to take that chance of me being that one who gets accused of something. If you were give a bowl of a 100 skittles, w one being laced w poison, would you take a chance by eating one? Probably not. There was this girl, hooked up w a dude, maybe two dudes I can’t remember. But she accused them of rape because she didn’t want the dude she liked to reject her by thinking she was a slut. Last, a lot of girls these days aren’t worth the trouble. No morals, no values, sleeping around, disrespectful to men.

[overthinkergirl]

thanks for your answer! i can agree with u on most aspects. and yeah i thought it’s easy to come up to a girl. i also think that if u are rejected many times u are more “strong” if u know what i mean. i haven’t approached anyone in person but i did slide into dms. however i don’t do it anymore and even then it didn’t go well. maybe some girls are also rude and they don’t try do reject a guy nicely and then the guy may be embarrased. but yeah thanks again for widening my horizons!:)

[Opinion Owner]

You might think you’d be stronger but some men may dread it because you’re constantly behind rejected what really makes him think it’ll be different the next time. I’m sure you’ve had some experiences in life where you just kept getting something wrong or rejected so when you try again sometimes you don’t look forward to it.

[overthinkergirl]

yeap a can also agree to that. i was rejected many times so now i don’t make any “first” steps in approaching men and i also have some trust issues.

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of things men have to do women seem to think it’s easy when it really isn’t. Like I said imagine if you had to be the one to ask out women. You had to plan all the dates, plan trips, etc.

[NathanDavis]

I have...

that's how I ended up with my girlfriend years ago...

first thing I noticed her was her voice, and her accent... and then a little bit of her dancing, and finally her smile... so that's when I decided that I had to meet her and find out... lol

[overthinkergirl]

cute!

[NathanDavis]

she was cute too

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You're not suppose to approach a woman just because you think she's cute as that increases a lot the chances you will cause her to feel awkward, nervous and embarrassment.

It's a woman's job to at least give a subtle sign she's interested in what she sees through her body language then the man do his part and go talk to her.

[overthinkergirl]

that’s a good point! cuz also if she showed some interest there’s less chance to get rejected. i agreee with u. so if a girl for example give eye contact or wink at u and u find her attractive would u go up to her?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes..

[SotiCoto]

Because she is probably the sort of idiot who can't spell "you" without forgetting 2/3rds of it. "Cute" just doesn't cut it.

[overthinkergirl]

bruh sorry i triggered u. i meant you. do you want me to write again the hall question? here you have it: Guys why don’t you come up to a girl (on a party or just outside when you see her) if you think she’s cute?
also you don’t know me so it’s rude to call me an idiot.

[Night_Descends]

Maybe because of shyness and/or fear of rejection 😅

[Anonymous]

MeToo statutes so we don't want to face life in prison or a firing squad

[overthinkergirl]

wow alright

[Slapmynuts]

Who says we don't?😉

[Roudyrebel8]

I would

[Danny_dan92]

Graduate high school

[overthinkergirl]

have u? i bet u didn’t cuz i asked sth different and u didn’t undestand the question

[Danny_dan92]

I definitely have and you haven’t because your grammar is crap.

[overthinkergirl]

thanks for your compliment!🤗