Lately I've been noticing okay so I'm an afrolatina, I'm half black and half mexican and I recently transferred to a new school and made a few friends and some of them were warning me about this one girl who is "racist" to black girls but I've been noticing everytime she sees me she smiles at me and looks down kind of shyly when she thinks I don't see her looking at me and then when I accidentally look at her she kind of rolls her eyes with an annoyed look so I stopped looking at her and only look at her for split seconds and evertime that happens she smiles again and looks away shyly so now I'm confused if she likes me or not.
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The girl is mexican
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I tried asking my mama about it and she said maybe she likes you because your not fully a black black girl because apparently she only fights black girls and so far she hasn't came up to me trying to fight me so that could be a possibility but still it's very confusing.
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In that case, I think this situation is a little trickier since girls can be harder to read sometimes. It's possible she does like you but is feeling conflicted or unsure of how to express it. A few things you could look out for:
- Pay attention to how she acts around other girl friends. Is she really chatty and confident, or shy and holds back? Shyness around you could be a sign.
- See if any physical contact is happening, even accidentally. Brushing hands, finding excuses to walk near you, stuff like that shows comfort levels.
- Listen to your gut - do you get butterflies when you catch her looking? If so, there's probably something there attracting you both.
- Try smiling and saying hey first sometime. Watch how she reacts - a big smile and not looking away fast is a good sign.
If you get positive vibes back, maybe try casually asking her to hang out, just you two, and see how the chemistry is. Girls just need some solo time sometimes to feel things out. Hope this gives you a better idea sis! Let me know if any other signs come up.
Doesn’t sound like she likes you at all. And weird of her to single out black girls as if she’s jealous of them, I mean what other reason would she have to fight them intentionally? Maybe she likes black guys. It’s not like her being Mexican she has the upper hand in the racial category or something.
In girl politics this is a girl you should stay away from. No, there is not a reason she would like you, and even if there was, why would you want to befriend a girl who doesn’t like black girls when you are yourself black? If she’s looking down, it means intimidation so she may feel jealous also.
I once had a girl who hated my literal guts over a guy. This girl was the nicest girl ever to me, and befriended me just to be closer to her enemies. But I know she would literally slit my throat if she had the chance. Avoid that girl and don’t waste your time trying to understand or befriend her.
AVOID HER AT ALL COSTS
You will encounter many types of individuals in life but there is no one more deadlier than one who is two-faced. They are good to you one minute and vicious the next and you don't know which version of them you are going to meet next. They will gaslight you to convince you and other that you are crazy by playing the victim.