Girls, What are automatic signals you know you won’t go on a second date with a guy?

[Anonymous]

[brightpapaya]

• The guy only talks about himself and barely asks questions to get to know me.
• The guy isn't funny/playful, like at all. I love cracking jokes, laughing and generally don't take myself too seriously so I need someone who matches that energy.
• The guy has bad table manners or is unhygienic. Examples of this include : burping loudly and not excusing himself, eating super sloppily, coughing without covering his mouth or anything of the sort.
• The guy doesn't look like his dating profile pics (only applies to online dating)
• The guy has fundamentally different values or goals in life. For example, if he's a fundamentalist Christian who wants marriage and kids ASAP it won't work out no matter how hot/intelligent/successful he is.

I'm sure there's other things but that's the main things that would make me not go on a second date for sure.

[Asker]

do you think girls tend to have more to check off with guys then vice versa?

[brightpapaya]

It is possible yeah. Maybe girls' standards are higher in the dating scene.