Why is it that women would respect me more if I were a womanizing misogynist than they respect me for being trans?

[ElizaPam]

I understand men disrespecting me for being trans but I don't understand why women disrespect me. Isn't imitation the highest form of flattery? How would you like to grow hair out of your chest and ass cheeks and go bald and never get to feel beautiful? How would you like to pretend to be into lame shit and repress your emotions? Looking in the mirror and seeing a beautiful woman feels so good. Cute clothes and makeup is so much fun. Guys are so cute and being loved on by a guy feels so good. You ladies know this. So why are you mean to me for wanting to be a lady? Why do you expect me to sit back and watch you live the life I dream of while I always feel bad about myself? I wouldve been treated nicer if I were a rompin stompin fightin fuckin womanizing misognyist country man. I wanted better. I wanted to be better. I dont understand why I have been treated so mean!!!

[Lliam]

Dropping the "trans" prefix and calling trans-women women is an insult to real women. All trans-women know about being a women is appearance.

"Trans-women" parody women.

Plus, many women have come to resent men competing against them in sports and fashion contests. It degrades what it means to be a woman. It sets back women's Title IX achievements and robs women of scholarships, awards, advancement, and income. It sends the message that being an authentic woman isn't good enough.

None of that was possible before advancements in mad-science and the profitable transitioning industry.

Trans activists are trying to erase words that refer to women, such as mother, in an effort to convince people that men can bear children and be mothers. "Birthing person", "menstruating person", etc. are efforts to erase womanhood.

So, trans-women are a threat to women. Trans-men aren't a threat to men because they can't compete against men.

The trans agenda is also hostile to heterosexuals and even LGB by inventing the "cis" prefix in an effort to marginalize non-trans and put trans on an equal footing. And they use the word "cis-gender" as a pejorative.

The trans agenda is also harming children. So both women and men who care about children oppose it.

If not for all that stuff, I doubt if many people would care how you look and act.

[ret04]

Wow, everything you know is taken from a Fox News talking point debunked countless times. Are you the first trans-species parrot? Have a semi-original thought, pops. You probably also shit your depends whenever they tell you "migrants" are coming over the boarder? You live in an existential fear over things which have never had an iota of impact on you, and yet you're an expert on the subject. Get fucked.

[Lliam]

@ret04. Reported.

[Anonymous]

Because women like guys who are openly misognyist and cruel to them because they see them as bad ass or awesome. Criminals and scumbags are highly respected in society because they have money and resources that is what attracts women. In Mexico they sell merchandise of cartel members and kids even say they want to grow up to be like El Chapo. But again that is because society respects people who have no ethics and take what they want. Just look at how many hackers and criminals get hired by the FBI to work for them.

You are being naive if you think hope and ethics are going to earn you respect and validation. You can pray to god for the world to change. Can never cheat on a test or sell drugs. But all you are going to see is other people with no ethics who are cheating finding loop holes, and breaking the law getting ahead of you in life while you are left behind and miserable. That's how this world works and you can't pray your way out of that reality.

And plus you are right wing and you are trans right-wingers don't like trans people. I can't say anything about the Transgender thing without getting my post remove or something like that, so I'll just say women's sports is one reason and leave it at that.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/OZ47_wsfCBo

[Anonymous]

Largely we are tired of having to put up with men pretending to be women, at our detriments. We loose in our own sports, because men join as women. We have to accept men going into our bathrooms, with us and our kids, which has gotten women and kids raped in the name of inclusiveness.

I'm not saying you or most trans women are like this. But enough are where it's a very real concern, that trans people seem to enjoy wholly dismissing.

[Anonymous]

Have you not been watching the news? Women are tired of trans women being in their spaces as well as taking over the female sports teams. Why is it you don't hear the same happing with trans men?

[ElizaPam]

I don't know thats what I am asking... I dont play sports and I pass as a woman so I've never caused any issues using the womens bathroom

[ret04]

Roughly 1% of the population of the US is trans. You're already tired of sharing 1% of the country's spaces with people you find icky, and even less with those who are athletic? Come on.

[ret04]

Fox News is conservative propaganda, it's not "news". Take yourself outside of the bubble you choose to live in and hear some different perspectives.

[Opinion Owner]

@ret04 I don't watch mam such as fox etc. I watch a lot of trans youtubers like Blair White, Buck Angel, the offensive tranny etc. and they are all center right politically.

[Opinion Owner]

*msm

[ChicoFromThe305]

Transsexuality has become very disliked because of all the agenda pushers that like to push not just transsexuality but homosexuality in general not just to the public but the children as well, people are very defensive of their children and you can't blame them for that, considering that the only thing publicised in the media about homosexuality and the whole lgbt stuff is these agenda pushers it gives everyone in the LGBT a bad rep and it grew hatred from people, there's also another issue people don't like and that is when transsexuals call themselves women cause logically and physically y'all aren't and I'm not saying that to anger anyone, it's just biology, y'all don't carry the biology to be considered a woman and just how it's insulting for someone to call anyone from LGBT a f*gg*t it's disrespectful to naturally born women to call yourself a woman when the biology isn't the same because women go through natural struggles and such as periods and pregnancy that someone that switches their gender just don't fully understand, I'm not saying that are right to insult and get hostile but I'm sure you can understand where they are coming from, most of the time it's not the idea of how you choose to live that bothers people, it's the entitlement to claiming and feeling insulted when others don't want to personally take things the way y'all do, for example no matter how much I feel like a helicopter, I wanna be a helicopter and I feel like being a helicopter, it doesn't make me a helicopter, it's just how it is cause I wasn't born a helicopter, same logic applies here.

[ElizaPam]

Im not like these other people and it makes me feel bad that people assume that Im like them... It makes me feel very bad about myself to be called a man but I dont scream about it. I just feel bad. There are things about being trans that cis women won't understand either.. Like how it feels to feel like an ugly monster.. and being unable to have children hurts me more than anything in the world the same way it hurts other infertile women

[ChicoFromThe305]

If you aren't like those people then it's unfortunate society no longer wants to tolerate these things and confuses you with the other bunch in the process, sorry people hurt your feelings and you are going through such negative emotions but look at it this Way, maybe it might put things in a better perspective for you, you won't ever fully understand what it's like being a woman and women will never understand what it's like being a trans woman, y'all can still both have feminine qualities and feminine traits and y'all can share that in common, unfortunately there will always be people that won't support the whole idea (myself included) but there is a way to accept yourself for the way you are, I believe you should've done it before the transition but only you know yourself best so you'll always have that and no one can really take that away from you, so cheer up and smell the flowers like people say.

[ret04]

Dude, gender is an cultural idea. You can in theory adapt yourself to either norm. That's nothing the same as proposing you could adapt to being an inanimate object of any sort, or a different species. It just isn't. That's the dumbest, oldest meme in the book. You can literally express yourself however you want, it's entirely possible. It's only when it comes to trans-bashers that the purity test gets dialed up over 9000, and it's always a goal post. If they could grow wombs inside of trans people, you'd say "well that's not a real womb", if they could change DNA, you'd say "well that's not your original DNA". There's no winning with your conservative purity tests. Why does anyone care to try.

[ret04]

You're asking conservative brain rot why they don't like you. They live in existential dread of everything, they're uninformed, not experienced, are prone to reactionary nonsense, etc. You're not going to find anyone with a liberal mindset have a real problem with you. Why do you want to win the approval of people who base their personalities around who and what they hate? They're not worth it.

[Anonymous]

Because pretending that all it takes to be a woman is wanting to be one, to dress like one or even modifying your body to look like one is demeaning to real women.

[ElizaPam]

I don't know why you think that, most of my friends have always been women and they don't think that. What am I supposed to do? Never feel beautiful and happy? Am I supposed to suppress my feelings and never get to feel good about myself and sit back and watch you live the life I dream of without even trying to be happy?

[Opinion Owner]

You know how cultural appropriation can be offensive when certain aspects of someone’s culture are used in a trivial way disregarding its cultural significance? Well, what you are doing is gender appropriation and it is just as offensive to those of the gender you are appropriating.

[ElizaPam]

Not every cis woman thinks that, I don't know why you think I shouldn't get to be beautiful and feminine. I don't know why you think thats appropriation, its just who I am. Dont you like to feel beautiful and feminine and be treated sweet and loved on by a man? I fucking love it its the best feeling in the world, I don't know why you expect me to choose to never feel the best feeling in the world.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t expect you to change who you are, but I don’t have to like it either.

[laly520]

personally what the other person do with their life is none of my business or concern

[tremendousfern]

you will never be a woman

[ElizaPam]

So what? Whats the point of telling me this?

[slatyb]

How do they distract you?

[slatyb]

Worst spell correction. How do they disrespect you? How do they interact with you at all?