I would say it depends on how possesive she is since there´s a difference between possessive and controlling. Many guys like to be in control of a situation but nonetheless I would say there´s kind of a turn on if girl shows signs of being possesive towards other girls meaning she "attacks" or shows other girls to not flirt with her guy. I´m not sure if all guys would like that but I can say I would.
Nonetheless I wouldn´t want a woman that tried to control my life and always wants to know where I´m at and where I go.
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Only if she is possessive in a good way , if she is overly possessive and doesn’t trust anything I do without her , then that’s a turn off , but if she just wants to see me any chance she gets , then that’s a turn on to me , because a girl that makes me her top priority will definitely be my top priority , I can’t stand girls’ that treat me like I am just a convenience to them , the sex might be good but the connection isn’t there , I don’t consider those kind of girls’ relationship material , just fuck buddies for the most part , but a girl that makes me her top priority and can’t wait to see me , Is a girl I would more than likely give my heart to
Probably depends on the guy, his emotional needs, his experiences and traumas, etc. For me, a girl who's a little jealous over me or does a little checking in on me just to make sure I'm okay, that's fine. But if it's clear that she's not trusting, going through my personal things, mean mugs all the girls I know, etc... Not attractive and not okay.
It is a spectrum. I want my girl to consider me her one and only man and via our commitment she is entitled to my heart and devotion, quality time, touching, knowing intimate things about me and our connection and access should be exclusive and above other women's access to me.
I'd expect her to be aware if another woman gets too close or too much time... etc. A little possessiveness is good but on the low end. If it is too much though then it is time to leave.
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https://www.youtube.com/embed/PB4Nby2Ai-g Honestly? No, I don't like a girl to be possessive, but on the other hand I like it when she shows wanting me. There is a grey area in that field: a little hint of jealousy is normal, but jealousy becomes quickly poison.
Hellllllllllllllllllll nooooooooooo
Clingy is ok, even like it w some girls but possessive and controlling nope.
If I really love the girl, and she is possessive of me, that I would make me happy. But if I don't have those feelings, then that's trouble!
Yes, very much so. If I know she wants to have the most influence and ostensibly, control over me, that's very appealing.
Yes! That frees my time up on having to wonder what she’s thinking about and what she’s doing. I will already know. So on with my day.
I want a girl that would kill a girl that she thought was trying to steal me away.. let's change "thought" into "Know" can't just be stabbing on suspicion now.
Yes, I prefer them, possessiveness is a sign she actually values me.
Sure, so long as she's not insecure and constantly afraid to be cheated on. The kind of drama that invites only negativity.
Nope not me. Super annoying. Too old to be dealing with that crap.
Hell no! We don't need any of that in our lives. Would you?
I do not. Jealousy is a terrible trait. If you are thst possessive then you lack trust.
To Me, Jealously is the lowest of base behaviors unacceptable in Men and Women.
No.Depends on a lot of factors.
Nope. No time for that game.
I love it but that's me.
Sometimes. It depends how it manifests
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