I find this annoying?

[Anonymous]

So a new girl has started in my job and she is in her 30s. she's very nice but everytime I am having a conversation with her she always comments on how "beautiful"or "stunning" one of the other girls are and she always goes on about how bright and intelligent the girls we work with are also as they are slightly more qualified than us. I find it annoying that she always does this. It feels like she is putting them on a pedastill when in reality they are just normal girls and I dont feel much different than them. I also think its shallow to constantly go on about how gorgeous someone is. What do you think of this behaviour? Its like she's constantly comparing.

[Anonymous]

In an indirect way, ask her: What is that captivating feeling you have that you can't ignore and have to always compare?

Or: What are you trying to show me or convey through your observations?

Based on her input, you can see whether she is silly or not. Most likely: empty or jealous.

[Anonymous]

In the world we live in today there is nothing wrong about speaking highly about others I think some people are use to hearing negative things or being speaked upon poorly by others I don't think u should mind her if she's annoying u don't speak to her sometimes u half to put urself in her shoes sometimes staying positive is what gets u threw a bad day and makes someone else day or makes u feel good about life

[Anonymous]

I think its just someone being positive. She may be saying to other girls the same sorts of stuff about you, its just its weirder to comment on it to someone directly. That said, I get why its annoyingg, work shouldn't be a competition of beauty or that even overly matterr.

[laly520]

just dont mind her

[Kykiono1]

She's insecure