How to talk to my girlfriend about her actions and behavior (18, F) (19, M)?

[Owwwblahblah]

My girlfriend was at a friend’s house and was supposed to be home at 9 but ended up staying until later and her friend brought her home carrying her and she was not sober.. Her friend mentioned how her older sister was over and there was drinking going on and my girlfriend is only 18 and I am 19. I am a bit pissed off that she was drunk but also glad her friend brought her home before she was taken advantaged off. I ended up putting my girlfriend’s hair up, removing her skirt and her top, and carrying her to our bed so she can relax and wake up feeling good. She seemed to be really really drunk and saying a lot of stuffs to me. She has finally fallen asleep but I want to talk to her about this.

[misfitwomen12]

Definitely do it when she’s good and feels better if she got really drunk like you said it’s best to do it when she’s on her 5 senses and I think you should start by asking her how she’s feeling and tell her you got worry about her come from a place from caring for her well being so she doesn’t take it like you want to boss her around and reassure you are not mad but you are concerned and want to know if she’s plans on drinking more so you can be alert since she’s a young lady and anything can happen to her and after all you love her and worry for her so be honest and open about you feelings so she can understand that more than anything you taking care of her !! Good luck

[slatyb]

You aren't her parent. if you try to parent her, you will drive her away.

[slatyb]

You can express loving concern, but you can't criticize.

[Anonymous]

Why did u strip her