What is female competition like?

[Lynx122]

I've read/ heard that women will often not directly confront other women if they see them as a threat or don't like them for some reason but talk behind their back, try and exclude them from friend groups, lie to them, give bad advice things like that.

My friend who's an autistic woman she lost all her female friends and she doesn't even understand why and how it happened. I just imagine it as very exhausting when you never know if a friend is actually wanting to be your friend or if she's scheming something. If she's telling you your outfit looks good is she genuine or is it actually bad and she wants you to wear it because she's sabotaging you? I'd get so tired of this game.

Is it like that for you or do you get used to it and can you get out of it if you try?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Insecurity and a major inferiority complex.

Women who are secure with themselves feel no need to compete with women. We nuture other women and usually form goodfriendships. We help them when we hear they are down.

Competitiveness is something better left to sporting events than to human relationships.

It's best , if she ignore these type of girls (coz they are really toxic) and find simple , supportive and good girl friends , it's not that difficult.

Hope it helps😊✨

[Anonymous]

In general women are the worst friends to each other. I'd they see a friend who maybe is doing a little better or has a better boyfriend/husband they will try to sabotage that friend with rumours or bad advice.

An aunt of mine for instance was trying to get an extension put on to their family home so her disabled mother could live with her. She went through a lot of stress over it and was in tears, apparently one neighbour objected and she couldn't get planning permission because of that. She confided all this to her friend who was a neighbour two doors down. Turned out it was her friend that was objecting, when asked why? It was because then my aunt's house would be better than hers.

[molonski2]

Nasty nasty Cattie bitches frankly , much more sneaky and underhanded than men , horrendous actions.

[devilish-cutie]

The competition is more sneaky and manipulative but i dont find it any harder than male competition

[Lynx122]

ok :)

[StudyingAuthor]

I don't understand it either, but I was ostracized from 7th grade (nobody liked me.) because I said the wrong words about homosexual and trans people. A misunderstanding that ruined my life.

[jennifer_bloom]

Some people can be trusted and some people are unknown and some people can't. I believe people show you their personalities if you invest enough time into getting to know them.

[LaurenM1997]

I lost my ex best friend cause she went behind my back in 2019 and shared some personal stuff with people that I was gonna tell so we fell out and now we don’t ever talk

[NathanDavis]

sometimes... they do look exactly like they're very good friends

[Anonymous]

Women are treacherous, there is no denying that. Nature gave women amazing bodies and vacant souls.