I don’t want love… how to be a real maneater?

[Chelsdope0]

I hate love. I hate how vulnerable and crazy it makes you feel. It was something I was never good at it.

I aspire to be a real maneater.

practicing detachment has been wonderful.

[lightbulb27]

yea, being vulnerable can hurt. you learn to filter out the people you are around and develop some inner compass. there's the value of turning to Christ again... you get your love from Christ, so you are secure, yo uthen have love to give while having a safe place when the other person hurts you. All humans are going to hurt you in some manner.

You can go the other direction which is reject love. How's that gonna work. If you have a kid... not gonna work, you'll damage their psyche.

Consider the free gift... there's a reason it was offerred.

[Chelsdope0]

Who said I want kids?

[lightbulb27]

you said in essence you don't... if you hate love, the you'd hate a child. I looked past that.
Male/Female make kids, whether you intend it or not.
That "decision" "I don't want love" comes from somewhere deep inside... a wound. It is not whom you were made to be, but traumatized by the world.
You can choose to live out of that trauma as your truth, or cleanse the trauma and discover your other self before the world damaged you heart.
I didn't want kids either... why... because I was hurt and abused. I lived in shame and fear. Once cleared up, I would want kids. Things change when your internals change, time can change.
As a female, you have a clock for such things, so time is relevant. Goals in life are relevant.
If you've chosen not to, it's ok by me, it's your life. You ask a question, I give an answer. Nobody gonna force you. But someone forced crap onto you, that, I guarantee. Why should I value the person that abused you?

[Whitey_Johnson]

You're 26. You may feel differently when you're 40. Women were made to be loved, and there are men who want to love you. The question is, are you willing to be loved? People who have been hurt sometimes have to learn how to receive better things in life and stop self-destructive behavior, or else they continue having a crappy life. Have you considered cognitive therapy?

[Chelsdope0]

Lmaoo I thought this man wanted to love me. He was patient with me… whenever I said something irrational he just met me with logic… I thought he wanted to love me. He’s 37 so I definitely thought we would work out..

He dogged me in the end. I’ll never let another man do that. Idc how “genuine “ he is. Never again

[Whitey_Johnson]

I'm sorry to hear that. 😢 But if this is the case, I'll try to address your original question. First, be hot af, bc you'll be using men for your selfish carnal indulgence, and the hotter you look, the more choices you'll have. Being firm and toned is the idea here. If you're one of those women who needs a big dick to cum, get on Adult Friend Finder or a similar app that allows you to cull lesser-endowed men from the field before meeting for a date. (Seven Or Better also works for this, but the interface is lame af.) Keep a stash of your own condoms (including Magnum XL's) and silicone-based lube with you at all times so you don't miss any opportunities. Abandon any feelings of guilt about using men for their financial resources. Most men don't mind spending money anyway if they can get sex out of it. Getting sexual access is the real reason why we work for money anyway. Start saving and investing your own money because that wall is about 20 years away, and a maneater cannot count on being able to get into a LTR and after the age of 45. Dollar Value Averaging is probably the easiest path to financial security, but you could always put in the work to become a champion stock picker. Ummm what else? Take a hard stance against becoming a pet owner. Pets are just excess baggage for a maneater. You want to be able to drop everything and let that new boytoy take you to the Sandals resort. Structure your life so that you don't need favors from men, like for moving furniture or car repair. And did I mention being hot? Oh, one more thing... be hot.

[Chelsdope0]

I’m not hot… my mom is and she’s a great example of a somewhat man eater potential… men do things for her naturally… I’m like her ugly daughter lol…

But I want to get work done. I don’t want to look too bimboish tho…

I’m actually afraid to sleep with men because I don’t want to get attached and I don’t want to be a ho in that way.

I need to really master the art of detachment, numbness, get rid of wanting “love” , not being jealous, and know when to spit them out.

Even if they do “like” me but I’ve never had them actually want more… so it should be easy to spit them out.

[Whitey_Johnson]

If you'd like advice about having cosmetic work done, feel free to drop a dm. I've seen it all.

[MemeSupreme]

ooooaaaooh here she comes

watch out boy she'll chew you uppp

ooooooooh here she comes

she's a maaaaan eaterr

[Chelsdope0]

Haha I’m this dramatic frfr

[MemeSupreme]

it's a song lol

[Chelsdope0]

Ohhhh lol

[Whitey_Johnson]

an 80's song by Hall & Oats

[Hanrej]

Read up on femdom. Get into the mindset of using and controlling men and you won't have to feel vulnerable.

[Chelsdope0]

The guy who hurt my feelings is 37 lol

Like shouldn’t he be married with kids… 😭

[Hanrej]

Why? Because he's 37? There are a growing number of men that don't want a family or at least don't want it by someone else's rules.

[Whitey_Johnson]

Generally, a man will not marry unless he loves a woman. Men don't have that biological imperative to procreate to the same degree as women. So just bc he's 37 does not mean he will be married with children.

[OlderAndWiser]

Give it 10-15 years and you will be horribly alone and miserable. If you have bad experiences in relationships, turning that into hate is a horrible reflection on your character.

[Chelsdope0]

Oh okay 🚮

[Billlewis]

Do you want to just be a bitch goddess, without the hassle of a long term, obligatory relationship? If that's the case, maybe you'd be okay with having a sweet little piggy spoil you a little;)

[Chelsdope0]

Perfect

[Billlewis]

Really? That's wonderful! If you'll please follow me, I'd very much like to discuss this with you, Goddess ❤️

[Juxtapose]

"People hurt me so I wanna hurt them."

That's how you come off to me. That's nothing special to aspire to, you can do better.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure a séance with Jeffery Dahmer could offer tips on maneating

[Chelsdope0]

Ewwww

[Slapmynuts]

Maybe that will work for a time but the human spirit drives to be loved!:)

[JacobJordan]

Stay single then.

[Chelsdope0]

That’s the point lol … I eat you and spit you out. Like you’re nothing. I want to hurt you

[JacobJordan]

Well I am married. Even if I wasn't I don't date trash

[Chelsdope0]

*round of applause

[JacobJordan]

Yeah must be disappointing getting called out and rejected at the same time. Enjoy the cats

[Chelsdope0]

You are such an asshole … like why? Lmaooo

What I do to you?

[JacobJordan]

You don't like being treated how you want to treat people? Perhaps you should find a better approach. Didn't your parents teach you to treat others how you want to be treated?

[Chelsdope0]

Why should I take any advice or criticism from a simp.

[JacobJordan]

A what now?

[Chelsdope0]

Simp ass men

[JacobJordan]

Still don't know what that is lol. Enjoy the cats. Too bad you didn't have a father to raise you properly.

[Chelsdope0]

My dad was a great dad lol

Evidently your father was shit.

[JacobJordan]

Fascinating and likely untrue. Look how you turned out. You got so riled up the second someone treated you the way you want to treat others.

[Chelsdope0]

I don't know what you’re talking about. Things don’t work out. Oh well

[JacobJordan]

That doesn't surprise me given the intelligence you have displayed so far

[Chelsdope0]

How have I displayed myself to be unintelligent?

[JacobJordan]

Your entire post, your reply, the fact you got super pissed after being rejected and called out, attempting to insult someone when they treated you the same way you want to treat people. You are the epitome of unintelligent. If you want to treat people like shit you can't be getting your pathetic self in a twist when they treat you the same. Don't be a hypocrite. Plus you are 26 with 60 ish years left and have already set yourself up for a miserable lonely life. Doesn't get much dumber than that does it. So either you are lying about your dad being present or your mom raised a total brat either way your parents failed

[Chelsdope0]

I’m not pissed about being rejected I’m pissed that he dogged me and treated me like I didn’t have feelings.

If he can act a certain way so tf can I. If that makes me unintelligent so be it. Idgaf tbh

I’m not going to keep allowing men to do me any type of way. I’m not a brat at all…. My parents did live their own lives but I’m responsible for me.

[JacobJordan]

Again your entire post "I hate love. I hate how vulnerable and crazy it makes you feel. It was something I was never good at it.

I aspire to be a real maneater.

practicing detachment has been wonderful."
Work on that detachment instead of whining how people treat you. Cause if you treat people poorly they going to do the same. Equality at its finest 🤣

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t actually mean treat them poorly but just kind of not gaf. I think there’s some misunderstanding

[JacobJordan]

"That’s the point lol … I eat you and spit you out. Like you’re nothing. I want to hurt you" yup totally a misunderstanding. You can't even keep what you said straight...

[Chelsdope0]

Oh I said that?

[Chelsdope0]

I meant every word

[JacobJordan]

Then quit whining when you are treated the same way you want to treat people.

[Chelsdope0]

Who is whining?

[JacobJordan]

"You are such an asshole … like why? Lmaooo
What I do to you?"
"Why should I take any advice or criticism from a simp" need I go on child?

[Chelsdope0]

I said that too?

[JacobJordan]

And you claim you aren't stupid...

[Chelsdope0]

I lied

[Chelsdope0]

I’m an idiot sandwich 🥪

[JacobJordan]

Yes causing lying is soo much better than being a few brain cells short of a vegetable

[JacobJordan]

So now that we have established things tell me... how does it feel to be treated like you are nothing, with intent to upset you?

[Chelsdope0]

I love the attention you’re giving me.. like purrrr

[Chelsdope0]

I’m your wife now.

[JacobJordan]

Nope. I already told you I don't date trash

[Chelsdope0]

Trash knows trash

[JacobJordan]

Everyone knows trash lol it acts a certain entitled stupid way.

[Chelsdope0]

Again , I think you’re obsessed. You must love trash..

You stay on my post

[Booklover_90]

Oh my gosh, who hurt you?

[Chelsdope0]

lol nobody, I’m a G.

[Booklover_90]

Then why do you hate love? You can be a “G” and not hate love.

[Chelsdope0]

I dont hate it. I can’t hate something I never experienced

[Chelsdope0]

I shouldn’t have said that I hate. I’m being dramatic

[Booklover_90]

Oh okay. Gotcha. Well, good luck with everything. Take care. 😊

[Bklynbadboy12]

Lmao You're cute ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Chelsdope0]

Cute is for puppies

[AndrewJordon99]

Ok then.