Ladies, if you had a son/little brother, what advice would you give to him to keep from marrying a girl who will cheat?

[KrakenAttackin]

Meaning, what personality traits in a girl do you associate with a cheater.

[dustybiker2]

My neighbor has one of five dif men arrive 16 min after her partner leaves for his night shift. They prob park at the end of the street and laugh as he drives by. Nobody cares because he is just as big an a🕳️. The perfect couple.


This woman aside (she knows all the neighbors have cameras, yet she screws them in her suv on her driveway for hours, and later into the house) Cheaters are masters at hiding their flings.


You have to hope to survive the damage they do to you, if you find out, if you are not a cheater, and try not to get defensive in your next relationship. Bringing baggage isn't helpful for a healthy shot at rhe next one.

[KrakenAttackin]

@dustybiker2 Wow, this is a nightmare of betrayal.

[dustybiker2]

Neighbors have bets on if she changes the sheets.

[dustybiker2]

Her kids ride in that backseat on the way to school the next morning... it's just so...

[KrakenAttackin]

That's awful.

[DextroShade]

If I saw that happening I would record it and show my neighbor that his wife is a whore.

[dustybiker2]

This guy attacked my hired tree trimmers 60 seconds after they started the chainsaw. Couple months ago.
"Who are you? Who hired you?"
They are hanging from my trees.. just randomly?
I had warned the workmen and the one guy was big. The guy was mouthing off before realizing this. My trimmer handled him. lol
Anyway... let's just day we are saving it for the day in court we need a restraining order. Really sink that dagger home.

[KrakenAttackin]

@dustybiker2. Wow, they sound like a piece of work.

[dustybiker2]

Yes. It's a daily experience.

[dustybiker2]

Thanks for mho

[4ngelic]

i think the biggest indications that a girl can cheat are: she has any history of cheating especially if it wasn't that far away from now, she was a massive hoe, she has certain sus kinks like cuckholding/group sex/etc, she doesn't think cheating is that bad, she expresses any interest in being in an open relationship or a poly thing, she gets drunk all the time espcially in certain settings like clubs, she does drugs and especially if often there's guys around when she takes them, if she has too many male friends (unless she's a tomboy), she's bisexual and doesn't think flirting with girls is cheating

[V_Injector]

I almost 100% agree, but I'm about to bang on myself if you hear me out on that 0.01% I sort of disagree with... or probably agree with after I explain it out.

So for me because I don't consider sexual interaction with other females as cheating... I've always let that go. Now to how that's a bad thing. Even though I'm fine with female to female interaction... I've learned over the years that if I don't put that in check... guess what it leads to?

It never fails... some dude tries to get in that mix.

So you get my like on this opinion... I just wished in a better world I could trust my girl to get with a girl and I didn't have to worry about some dude getting pulled into the mix because of the other girl.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin An objectively honest assessment from a female! Not something you see very often……

[Beckybooboo]

I had three older brothers and I wouldn’t hold back if I thought they deserved better. I would tell them that they should be a priority in their girlfriends life and not just a toy. A couple of my brothers had girls that would constantly break plans, prioritize other people in their lives, without even considering my brothers feelings, lie to them, all sorts of horrible things. I would tell them, if she doesn’t consider you important now, what makes you think she will a year or two years from now? Some of their girlfriends would constantly tease them, which is okay, but they were to the point where they seemed to actually want to humiliate him! I would let a son know the same things. Of course, I would let him know it’s a two way street, that he’ll have to make sacrifices for a relationship to grow and work. Ultimately, it’s their life and they have to learn as they go. I’m very fortunate, as are my brothers, that they have good women in their lives! Two are married, one for five years and one for seven, and one has been with his girlfriend for three years. I would like to think I had something to do with what they looked for in a good partner. 😊

[KrakenAttackin]

@Beckybooboo. This is the kind of answer I was seeking!

[IslaTheWitch]

None. I would rather raise him to be a man who can observe people and draw conclusions. I would build his self-esteem and self-acceptance to the point that he knows who he is and doesn't need acceptance from other people. I would teach him how to predict the consequences of his own decisions.

But I wouldn't meddle in his life...

It is exactly how I raised my son. And how he lives his own life. Of course he sometimes just need to talk, to listen to other perspective, but all decisions are his and I don't give advices. It's his life and his consequences I have no right to make an impact on his decisions.

[KrakenAttackin]

@IslaTheWitch. This is throwing him to the wolves.

[IslaTheWitch]

@KrakenAttackin
believe me, he handles it very well :D

[KrakenAttackin]

@IslaTheWitch. Sons get very little advice about dating and women, FROM their mothers when growing up. I am not sure why this is.

[IslaTheWitch]

because mothers are women, and they don't feel like men. So such advice wouldn't be very helpful. But sons have fathers, you know... why do you want the whole responsibility put on mothers?

[KrakenAttackin]

@IslaTheWitch. Because so many sons are raised by single mothers. It doesn't take much to give a kid general guidance. Girls have dating so much easier, so they gain experience much faster than boys. When boys start dating they are usually lost and often make bad decisions.

It does seem like a recurrent theme, however; to let boys find their way by struggling blind.

What I am fundamentally saying is, boys need help as well.

[IslaTheWitch]

oh, you use so many generalizations, it hurts :D

1. NOT ALL MEN are raised by single mothers
2. Even if they are, sooner or later, a single mother gets another partner who also is part of raising this man.
3. The rest of the men raised in full families should have the support of their fathers.
4. Most girls have never spoken with their mothers about dating, so they do it the same blindly :D

stop this conspiracy theory... dating, and finding a partner have always been kind of a big unknown... at least in our culture. In many tribes, there was a ritual to teach the young people how to do it. We don't have it. Parents should guide kids, but as they weren't guided they don't know how to do it.

[KrakenAttackin]

@IslaTheWitch. In the U. S. single mother headed households are a huge portion of where boys get raised (and girls).

Why is it so crazy to give a young man/boy advice about dating girls?

[IslaTheWitch]

it is not crazy, it's useless... the wrong perspective :D

we spoke with my son about many things, but in the end, whatever I told him had a small impact on his dating experience. A much bigger impact had our real-time conversations like how to handle disagreement in the relationship and stuff like that...

[KrakenAttackin]

@IslaTheWitch. Useless? Not useless. Even if they disregard the advice at first they will eventually realize the inherent wisdom. Just like talking with your kids about drugs and alcohol.

[IslaTheWitch]

@KrakenAttackin I'm a very specific person... on top of my cold calculation of what should be done or not, I have a degree in psychology... but most parents have no idea what about and how to talk to their own kids because their own parents never talked to them...

First, this must be fixed, and then you can require sharing dating advice

[KrakenAttackin]

@IslaTheWitch. Simply saying "no one talked with me about xxxx topic, so I won't talk with my kids about it", is vacant and escapist. Kids crave input, just as they crave boundaries (whether they know it or not).

[IslaTheWitch]

it's natural. No one did it to me, so I don't even know I can do it to my kids

[Lara_Croft]

Trust in the Lord your God with all your heart Proverbs 3 vs 5-6. Do not be unwise but understand what the will of the Lord is Ephesians 6 vs 17. Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing but a woman who fears the Lord she will be praised Proverbs 31 vs 31. My advice

[worldscolide]

I will tell my son one of my life rules

Mind what people do, not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Do not believe what a person says over their actions. For it is what a person does, and not just says, that will reveal to you the reality of their words/intent

[Anonymous]

The women who seem to always want or seek validation from men are red flags. Like the ones that constantly have to post their bikini pics on IG. As well as the ones who always seem to be a little too nice towards men to the point it's downright flirting. Those are the ones I would tell my son or little brother to watch out for.

[Unit1]

I'll just tell them the usual stuff from which the top 10% of men are exempt from.

That she's not yours and its just your turn and that marriage Won't change it.

Unless he is rich or extraordinary in some way ( think of the Tate brothers) he is just as replaceable as the girls.

or to stay celibate or enter into open relationships. That is how to not get cheated on.

[Anonymous]

my partner and i have very deep values about disloyal people and how important respect is. it would be more educative for him to learn the hard way but im pretty sure we'd raise him with good enough principles and judgement to discern the bad apples from the get-go.
if not, i can support him through the aftermath and he'll know what to avoid in the future.

[SolitarySolace]

Honestly, if my brother were to marry a woman who I knew would cheat on him, I'd just let it happen. That way he will take the red pill himself and I'll just agree with his reasoning for taking it

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

That's a difficult question because you can never tell if someone is a cheater or not as it's not that obvious to see.

I would say if a woman is out in the streets a lot then that's a good indication she will most likely be a cheater.

[Anonymous]

I guess I'll try my best to let him realize the picture from a bigger view by talking about it , showing him the girl's actions towards him , showing him how a healthy relationship is like by real examples

[Texas_Girrrrl30]

Be careful in the girl you choose make sure she’s someone that will choose you daily through whatever

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m not a woman, however any woman with high body count, several male friends, OnlyFans or glued to social media or that enjoys partying should be avoided.

These groups of women probably make up at least 80% of the cheaters there are

[JHAYES317]

You can’t prevent that so the best advice is to get a prenup and if you have kids get DNA tests to make sure they are his…

[Booklover_90]

Unfortunately, there’s no way to warn anyone about who’s a cheater. There’s no way to tell who will cheat in the first place anyway.

[Juxtapose]

If a woman is not going to sacrifice for you in any way and does not aggressively seek your company, next her.

[Anonymous]

I would most certainly sit down and have a serious talk about him and tell him the truth to keep his life from being ruined by a toxic person.

[Exterminatore]

I’m just here for the laughs.

[jahaims]

Common sense is all you need

[KrakenAttackin]

@jahaims. It seems many are failing the "common sense" test.

[jahaims]

It's squeezed out of the population through social conditioning so they can be easily controlled.

[KrakenAttackin]

@jahaims. True enough, all this trans gender crap is proof positive.

[sheenagwapa]

a flirt