Ladies, if you had a son/little brother, what advice would you give to him to keep from marrying a girl who will cheat?

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Meaning, what personality traits in a girl do you associate with a cheater.

dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

My neighbor has one of five dif men arrive 16 min after her partner leaves for his night shift. They prob park at the end of the street and laugh as he drives by. Nobody cares because he is just as big an a🕳️. The perfect couple.

This woman aside (she knows all the neighbors have cameras, yet she screws them in her suv on her driveway for hours, and later into the house) Cheaters are masters at hiding their flings.

You have to hope to survive the damage they do to you, if you find out, if you are not a cheater, and try not to get defensive in your next relationship. Bringing baggage isn't helpful for a healthy shot at rhe next one.

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

i think the biggest indications that a girl can cheat are: she has any history of cheating especially if it wasn't that far away from now, she was a massive hoe, she has certain sus kinks like cuckholding/group sex/etc, she doesn't think cheating is that bad, she expresses any interest in being in an open relationship or a poly thing, she gets drunk all the time espcially in certain settings like clubs, she does drugs and especially if often there's guys around when she takes them, if she has too many male friends (unless she's a tomboy), she's bisexual and doesn't think flirting with girls is cheating

Beckybooboo · Answer

I had three older brothers and I wouldn’t hold back if I thought they deserved better. I would tell them that they should be a priority in their girlfriends life and not just a toy. A couple of my brothers had girls that would constantly break plans, prioritize other people in their lives, without even considering my brothers feelings, lie to them, all sorts of horrible things. I would tell them, if she doesn’t consider you important now, what makes you think she will a year or two years from now? Some of their girlfriends would constantly tease them, which is okay, but they were to the point where they seemed to actually want to humiliate him! I would let a son know the same things. Of course, I would let him know it’s a two way street, that he’ll have to make sacrifices for a relationship to grow and work. Ultimately, it’s their life and they have to learn as they go. I’m very fortunate, as are my brothers, that they have good women in their lives! Two are married, one for five years and one for seven, and one has been with his girlfriend for three years. I would like to think I had something to do with what they looked for in a good partner. 😊

IslaTheWitch · Answer

None. I would rather raise him to be a man who can observe people and draw conclusions. I would build his self-esteem and self-acceptance to the point that he knows who he is and doesn't need acceptance from other people. I would teach him how to predict the consequences of his own decisions.

But I wouldn't meddle in his life...

It is exactly how I raised my son. And how he lives his own life. Of course he sometimes just need to talk, to listen to other perspective, but all decisions are his and I don't give advices. It's his life and his consequences I have no right to make an impact on his decisions.

Lara_Croft · Answer

Trust in the Lord your God with all your heart Proverbs 3 vs 5-6. Do not be unwise but understand what the will of the Lord is Ephesians 6 vs 17. Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing but a woman who fears the Lord she will be praised Proverbs 31 vs 31. My advice

worldscolide · Answer

I will tell my son one of my life rules

Mind what people do, not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Do not believe what a person says over their actions. For it is what a person does, and not just says, that will reveal to you the reality of their words/intent

Anonymous · Answer

The women who seem to always want or seek validation from men are red flags. Like the ones that constantly have to post their bikini pics on IG. As well as the ones who always seem to be a little too nice towards men to the point it's downright flirting. Those are the ones I would tell my son or little brother to watch out for.

Unit1 · Answer

I'll just tell them the usual stuff from which the top 10% of men are exempt from.

That she's not yours and its just your turn and that marriage Won't change it.

Unless he is rich or extraordinary in some way ( think of the Tate brothers) he is just as replaceable as the girls.

or to stay celibate or enter into open relationships. That is how to not get cheated on.

Anonymous · Answer

my partner and i have very deep values about disloyal people and how important respect is. it would be more educative for him to learn the hard way but im pretty sure we'd raise him with good enough principles and judgement to discern the bad apples from the get-go.
if not, i can support him through the aftermath and he'll know what to avoid in the future.

Juxtapose · Answer

If a woman is not going to sacrifice for you in any way and does not aggressively seek your company, next her.

Anonymous · Answer

Mother do not derserve CRAP. I HATE THE SAY HONNOR YOUR MOTHER! BS. We do not owe mothers nothing. I don't know why society makes us love mom's. We dont owe them nothing . Mom's expects us to build a church and make them God's. You don't owe nothing to your mom. Forget about her existence cut her off believe me you will live a more happy life.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Honestly, if my brother were to marry a woman who I knew would cheat on him, I'd just let it happen. That way he will take the red pill himself and I'll just agree with his reasoning for taking it

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

That's a difficult question because you can never tell if someone is a cheater or not as it's not that obvious to see.

I would say if a woman is out in the streets a lot then that's a good indication she will most likely be a cheater.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess I'll try my best to let him realize the picture from a bigger view by talking about it , showing him the girl's actions towards him , showing him how a healthy relationship is like by real examples

Texas_Girrrrl30 · Answer

Be careful in the girl you choose make sure she’s someone that will choose you daily through whatever

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I’m not a woman, however any woman with high body count, several male friends, OnlyFans or glued to social media or that enjoys partying should be avoided.

These groups of women probably make up at least 80% of the cheaters there are

Booklover_90 · Answer

Unfortunately, there’s no way to warn anyone about who’s a cheater. There’s no way to tell who will cheat in the first place anyway.

JHAYES317 · Answer

You can’t prevent that so the best advice is to get a prenup and if you have kids get DNA tests to make sure they are his…

Anonymous · Answer

I would most certainly sit down and have a serious talk about him and tell him the truth to keep his life from being ruined by a toxic person.

Pinkandgirly · Answer

You are a fucking idiot! You ARE NOT A WOMAN! 😅😅😅😅 you are so clueless about us.

Exterminatore · Answer

I’m just here for the laughs.

jahaims · Answer

Common sense is all you need

sheenagwapa · Answer

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