With my experiences with girls’ through the years most females tend to do this more than guys do , Do you agree
Majorly agree with this! It's why I pay attention to her friends BIG TIME! I have friends that just want to do drugs, get drunk, and fuck girls... but I find it's way easier to for me to say to that friend when they're trying to drag me out for "adventures" to simply say, "Naw bro, I've got other things to do.
Females on the other hand, seem to want to fit in so much, that they'll cave in. If the friend is in a sour relationship, and she's on the prowl for a new man to monkey branch to... guess what she'll drag her friend that's doing perfectly fine into! Next thing I'll know, my girl will be asking if she can go to a club or a bar with her friend. I have to provide her an excuse to get out of it as if it's some obligation she has to do for the friend.
If her friend is taken and not looking for men, basically complacent... It will be things like getting their nails done. Random stray males don't suddenly appear to join them, there is no public intoxication and most of all... there isn't some chick trying to convince my chick that her situation is just like hers... basically justifying shit like talking to guys and letting them hollar at her.
I've seen it happen with friend's wives. Secret bar hangouts eventually lead to all the things her friends are doing... except she's shitting on a husband that's working all day for her and their kid. He's at home basically babysitting after work, so that she can start the process of destroying the relationship as it is with friends that have destroyed their own relationships.
With that said all the bad things don't happen all at once... which justifies the second time, the 3rd, et cetera. If the first time was eliminated, there won't be excuses to keep going into those environments. There would not be a progression of small lies getting bigger and bigger into huge lies. The influence of the friend, would not get a chance to grow.
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That or because she is inherently toxic herself. That is the downside of most western women they listen to terrible advice from other single women and they are incapable of actually working with a man as a partner in a relationship. It is why a growing population of men are going overseas to find wives. It is getting more and more difficult to tell which women are worth it and which are going to destroy a man's life. I am sure my stalker will see this and lose her mind so I'll preemptively say you are proving my point now be quiet the adults are speaking. The best source of advice for young women when it comes to relationships is from women that are also in relationships and happily so. Sometimes single women (provided they have had past relationships and didn't allow that relationship to ruin their life) can be a good source of advice but typically it is happily married women. Same goes for young men to be honest. Ask a happily married man for advice. When it comes to dealing with the opposite sex as the opposite sex about the opposite sex. I am of course referring to those magazine articles we see at stores "100 ways to please your man" it is single digit ways to please a man because we are very simple. We don't ask for a lot and we expect even less. So if you want to deal with men ask men what men like. If you want to deal with women ask women what women like. Works everytime. As such should anyone wish to ask questions of myself or my wife (we share the account) feel free to reach out.
Now... take it away stalker show us more of your true colors.
Sometimes other women, even a woman's friends are so jealous that she has a guy at all and a good guy at that.
So, they say things about him to talk her out of her relationship with him. She should ignore what her friends say and keep the guy.
But I guess to save face with her friends, she breaks it off with him.
Women will share things about him with her friends like about something, even one thing she doesn't care that much for that he said or did and her friends are all over that!
They'll say things like
You don't need that in your life
You can do better
You deserve better
Girl, you gotta get rid of that guy
Remember this is all said out of jealousy.
They cannot wait for her to say one thing she doesn't like about him, could be he eats really fast and eats with his mouth open.
Then there is their opening to pounce on the guy and talk her out of being with him.
It's crazy, I know.
The stranger things about it is, that once she let's go of the good guy, her friends that she confided in will go after him for themselves.
This happened to me before. Once I told who I thought was my best friend
that we broke up, she started going into his work - she said she was doing a little P. I. (private investigating).
Then I introduced her to this guy that I was seeing and he was a real estate appraiser and she was a real estate agent. I could tell right away she was wanting to hook up with him. They both exchanged business cards and she kept calling him. She was married too. We would go out and go back to his place and there would be a message on his answering machine that I could hear what she was saying. I don't think he wanted me to hear that but I did.
No, lol.
We’re grown women who make our own decisions. Advice is just that. Advice. We’re accountable for our own actions. Most of the time we’re just venting, ignore advice (especially if not asked), or just do the opposite.
Usually it’s her, not her friends… Unless you’re dating someone who has no mind of her own and just lets people boss her around.
& A lot of times girls give advice based on the friends side of the story. I’ve learned that a friend of mine lies. A LOT. It makes her boyfriend sound bad, but she gets upset if people talk bad about him, yet that’s what she continues to do. I don’t give her any advice or input, I just listen. Her other friends talk mad shit based on the lies she told.
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Women tend to give bad relationship advice the majority of the time, and it often seems intentional. They don't want others to be happy. They want them to take the same actions they did that ended badly. For example, girls night out (where many cheat) they will tell their friends that their SO is controlling if he doesn't want her to go. A common BS excuse women often tell their friends is that the man is either controlling or insecure. And most of those same women cheat. Same goes for them posting provocative/revealing pictures online for attention and flirting with others. They often deny it, especially many on this site, but when relationships end, it is often because they cheat which began with those same activities.
The bad advice some men give to other men is that it is okay to have casual sex. That makes it difficult for them to pair bond in the future just like it does for women and ruins future relationship success.
This is a fact. If her girlfriends are single or at least not happy in their own relationships then they will try to poison her against a guy who likes her, so that they won't be alone in their own singleness or unhappiness. Women are often a prime example of 'misery loves company.'
Lots of women miss out on good guys because of shitty advice from their girlfriends, yes.
Ladies, this is just a word to wise. Don't consult your single girlfriends for advice about men; they simply don't know. They most likely don't know how to have good relationships, or they would be in relationships themselves.
At the end of the day, it’s HER decision not her friends. So it’s unfair to put the blame on her friends. She’s a grown ass adult who can make grown up decisions.
I've never seen such a situation. But I witnessed how guys encourage their friend to be more "decisive" when talking with his girlfriend and relationship didn't survive...
so it depends on people not on gender... some people are stupid AF and tempt their fate and then whine if it didn't work
i would say yes, cause women more than men look for competent partners. and telling apart competence and arrogance is quite difficult especially if you're less proficient than the person you're trying to evaluate. and women typically are the less proficient than their mates simply cause women don't typically go for me who are less proficient than them.
It's true. But that's what she was use to getting all her life. So she's stuck on that mindset cycle. I mean if your a good guy stay with her as friends and constantly correct her on her wrongs, her eyes will eventually open up. On what's actually right
Not sure. It may be true though. But what I see happen a lot more with both males and females is they get stuck with someone toxic because they don't take their friends advice.
Yep. Thats why i’ll listen to what they have to say but still do my own thing. I met someone great last week and my fam and friends are already on my ass 😩
I believe it. Her friends don’t want her to be different from them and will do anything they can to hold her back, including encouraging her to fuck other guys because they could never get the guy she’s already with.
Nothing keeps a woman single like her unhappy single friend.
That has been my observation and experience. Most dudes have at least one buddy who can’t be trusted though. So it may be closer than you think. Ell oh ell!
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we've experienced very different lives... you and me, lol
Nah I never take advice from my friends about boyfriends I take my own advice and if they are right in the end I’d apologise
This happened with me, my ex who was in relationship with me for 2 years, became the victoms of her friend's bad advice and the result was breakage, later she realised but the time has gone, some other filled this gap
My now wife almost dumped me when we were kids because my best friend (that was female) told her I was no good. She told her this because she was in love with me and she didn't know how to deal
No. If you're with such a callous woman, then it's your fault, not hers.
I do not know. I have never had an experience like that.
They sure do, I could've banged so many women by now lol even her friends of friends of friends ♀️♀️♀️ in my hypothetical answer, not the Asker's's ☺️
In cases where this is true he is better off, since she would always allow herself to be unduly influenced by outsiders.
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