Why this girl girl was acting like this towards me?

[Hellur991]

So this female co worker we had some history in that, first interaction with her I rubbed her thighs low key at work, she then came up to me and said she's attracted to me in person I low key rejected her a few months later she tried to call me ugly and shit. Also I never texted her, due to the fact I never liked her from the time I met her, so all this interaction happens in person. All this happend 2 years ago before she quit. Now she got hired again and she's been working at a different store for like 3 months, then got transferred to my store, from the very beginning I did not speak to her at all for a couple of days, was kind of awkward but I didn't mind. Over time, to me she was pretty cool and each night we close she use to say "I feel very safe closing with you". Also she use to text me everyday pass 12am. It came a time when I told her I like to make clothes, I up cycle and sew my own stuff. she also wants to learn how to sew by the way. So there was one of these nights we were talking about past life's and shit at work. And around 12 am she passes by this movie theater and one of the movies said " pass lives how to have sex", she writes I'm going to need some context. I then write her at 2:26am "hahah, my brain ain't braining". She then writes at 2:29am, "we should smoke and sew together 🤭". So the next day arrives we don't work together I remember I told her Im fluent in Spanish in one of the conversations we had, so she text me a pic of the shoes she's wearing, I then ask her it's the loafers woven on top she then writes "so, papi" I then asked her "do u know what u just typed", she then writes "si... Papi".

What's the deal with her

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Also a couple days ago we had a small deep conversation about people. I guess one of my statement hit her hard. She then made a YouTube reel about what I said and included my name in it. And sent it to me

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa bro, this girl is sending some mixed signals for sure. Based on the whole history between you two, sounds like she's got some weird feelings she doesn't know how to deal with.

On the one hand, she was into you way back when and tries to flirt now saying she feels "safe" with you late at night. But then outta nowhere she wanted to call you ugly? Total bipolar moves.

Now it's like she's trying extra hard to show interest again. Texting late, wanting to smoke and sew with you, even calling you "papi." Like damn girl pick a lane! She's all over the place.

Maybe deep down she wanted you back then but was hurt you weren't feeling her so she lashed out. Now she sees you different and regrets it. Or she just likes playing games, hard to say for sure.

If I were you I'd keep my distance for now. Watch how she acts - words vs actions, you know? Girls will say anything but mean something else. Let her prove she's really tryna build before you dive back in. Protect your energy dude.

Stay cordial at work but keep it push at a distance outside. See how she responds when you're not so available all the time. That YouTube thing is also odd behavior - girl's gotta sort her shit out!

[Hellur991]

That's what I'm saying hella weird bro

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man this whole thing is weird as hell. Hard to know what her deal really is. One minute she's dissing you and calling you ugly, next she's all over you at work and wanting to chill outside. Makes no sense dawg.

My theory is she's one of them chicks that plays games cuz she likes the attention. When you weren't givin her any, she acted like she didn't care either. But now that you're cool at work she's back on her shot tryna get close again.

Only thing I can say for sure is I wouldn't trust her bro. Seems like she just wants to mess with your head and have you on a string. Not worth the headache if you ask me. Might be best to just keep it professional at the job and leave it at that with her.

Any chick that's playing hot and cold like that ain't stable. Save yourself the stress man. Lotta fish in the sea anyway, find you one that ain't so wishy washy! Just my two cents though, do you.