Why are Turkish girls so bitter towards European and American girls?

[Anonymous]

I don't want to stereotype every Turkish girl into being "bitter" I'm sure there are many who aren't like this but I am yet to meet one who isn't rude and extremely bitter towards Europeans and Americans. If there are any Turkish girls who have some insight to this then please let me know! My boyfriend is Turkish I'm half British half Polish and he introduced me to his Turkish girl friends and his Turkish girl cousins and they was all really nasty to me they assumed I didn't know any Turkish and they was saying rude things about me right in front of me in their language and kept giving me nasty looks for no reason. I've been in Turkey for 3 months and the Turkish men haven't been like this it's only the Turkish girls? I also invited my American friend and they was laughing at her and making rude jokes and mocking American culture
Does anyone know why this could be? Like why they might of been acting that way?

[desidoll]

I think it doesn't happen only to American and European girls. Women generally envy other attractive women regardless of their nationality. I don't know much about Turkish girls because I know none of them but I remember one incident similar to this. My boyfriend brought me to this Arab restaurant together with another friend of mine to have dinner. There were these two Arab ladies (who dressed modernly) gave me dirty a look when I don't even know them. I tried to ignore till my boyfriend asked me if I know any of them because he felt they constantly look at me like I was WANTED lol. I told my boyfriend I don't know them at all. I think some people don't like other races date their men/women :/

[Onearth]

I’m so sorry that girls you’ve met was like that. I can tell that they were just jealous of you but don’t blame them before think why. We have this weird thing between Turkish boys and girls. Please let me explain it to you on private chat. I really want to make you understand that we are not like girls you’ve met.

[gigivillani]

Yea, jealousy isn't frowned upon in Turkey.

Meanwhile, in the Land of Self-Esteem...

[DandelionGirl]

I know that they don't like outsiders, men don't mind it but women on the other hand are like sharks. They don't like it when their men are being taken away from them. Hence the nasty looks. I grew up around these people in Russia. Blah rude ass mofos.

[Onearth]

I’m afraid that’s wrong you to tell we all like that. I’ve so many friends from so many different countries. Some of them like my sister even. I don’t understand how can you meet this many Turkish women and how they treat you bad. I think it’s about the people you have beeen with. I know that’ any’ of my friends would do that. We host bikers in our home for free to help them. Many guys but also girls we did it just to help them and meet with new people from different countries. They all said we are one of the most helpful and friendly country. I don’t get how one side can think that and how the other side can think like you think. I don’t know those women you met what did to you or how act but we are not like them! You can’t just tell we are rude ass mofos. because it’s not true. If you still think as same way just let me text you so I can try to tell you we are not like what you think we are.

[VictoriousSausage]

i honestly can't tell you. i've never been to turkey, but from a global perspective, people's attitudes are changed by a variety of things, and can't really be stereotyped, one thing i would say is that you're just meeting the wrong girls, there has to be one non-bitter Turkish girl in Turkey

[Prochto]

Yeah because all the time Turkish guys irritate Turkish guys saying "hey why you treat this way look at they and learn" ahahahah thats why they get jeolous but of course only some of them , and they are being called "kezban" in Turkish.

[Prochto]

--Turkish girls -correction.

[Asker]

What does kezban mean?

[Prochto]

It was an old girl name , in last 5 10 years it has become popular to define a girl who treats absurd especially about guys etc who treats non feminen.

[Asker]

Ohh I understand now XD thanks for explaining

[Prochto]

You're welcome , I'm always open to explain such things lol

[Ella26]

But turkish men called is KEKO or ABUZER or MAHMUT ABİ. Old name and new name its good everytime.

[shell775]

I agree with you on this
I'm also with a Turkish man and when he took me to Turkey and I met all his friends the guys was all really nice and polite but the Turkish girls was awful! They made me feel extremely unwelcome and uncomfortable and the same thing happened to me and they do that a lot when they meet foreigners they talk shit about them in their language hoping that the person doesn't understand them.

[mermaid_girl]

No we all are not like that.

[Anonymous]

I'm not a Turkish girl so I don't know but it might be that they don't like foreigners being with Turkish guys especially European girls because if you look at the stats of marriages in Turkey a lot of Turkish men are marrying Europeans like British, German, French, Polish etc..

[menina]

Maybe you just happened to meet rude girls. Or they were jealous of you or your looks.
And don't forget that they are also European.

[Asker]

Only a small part of Turkey is in Europe and they don't like to call themselves European they normally just say Asian but I think what you said might be the reason for it

[menina]

I didn't know that, I always thought they considered themselves European.

[Prochto]

Continental just a little part of Turkey is in Europe but , people and culture are related to Europe in a high level. To understand more , the first Turks were mixed of some european and some Asian people. Well to this time in anatolia almost Turkish people have become %90 european people genetically. So we call ourselves Europeans whose ancestors who are half european half Asian have settled here..

[Prochto]

@menina

[menina]

@Prochto That's interesting. Thank you for explaining it to me.
And just like I told before, I think Turkish people are European.

[Prochto]

Yes you are right , and it is easy to understand , open a Turkish channel :)

[Prochto]

@menina , by the way you are welcome , I'm always open to explain such things and more :)

[menina]

@Prochto Yes, it is. And I'm always interested in learning those things.
It's good to know :)

[Prochto]

@menina , exactly! Especially when people've started to believe-trust everything they heard including about history-nation etc.. This era is gonna be registered as the first age of stupid I think

[menina]

@Prochto You're right. Sometimes people believe in things that are not true.

[Anonymous]

I too have experienced this with Turkish girls, I go to Turkey every year and I always get dirty looks from the girls there as if I had just killed someone in their family or something, I've never understood it but when I spoke to Turkish guys about it they said they're very jealous and normally act that way towards girls who they think are pretty

[conquer]

İt is so sad to say this but They are green with envy, obviously jealous of you. but I am curious have you ever tried to be close to them. l mean they may change if you treat like them. weeell take it easy they are kezban :-) (classic turkish girl) but try to say Turkish greeting "merhaba, selam" but l am hopeless. they are ugly to you? maybe reason of being nasty is this.

But All of Turkish girls are not like this by the way

[abundantlyrich]

Its just plain old fashion jealousy of female nature regardless of nationality... But your in their land, they are just more honest than those who hide it. I guess to deal with it, its just better to stay away from their toxicity.

[666threesixes666]

you're strange people in a strange land. they're threatened by your novelty. you must be pretty. =)

[mermaid_girl]

I'm really sorry that you experienced this situation. But we all are not like that. I love foreigner girls to be friends as one of turkish girl.

[Xfitchick]

We have a big turkish community in Antwerp. Never experienced that here.

[Anonymous]

Because the turks occupy a land, cities and a holy city that does not belong to them but belongs to Christianity.

[Anonymous]

Most sex/race combos seem jealous when someone from a different race dates their same race counterparts.

Especially if this happens frequently.

[Anonymous]

Because they know they're not popular with European guys. And they're less good looking than European girls

[mermaid_girl]

As a Turkiah girl I don't agree with you.

[Anonymous]

*Puts stereotype in title*
*says "but I don't wanna stereotype" immediately after*

[bcromartie]

Because the other two don't die to terrorist attacks every other week.

[Anonymous]

Yes yes european girls we are barbar don't come to our country we like our country and we are hapy

[ElissaDido]

They are jealous you stole "their man" 😛

[TheSonOf-Zeus]

Turkish girls are generally loving and jealous

[Anonymous]

Jealousy or just hatred for America.

[Anonymous]

They are not generally

[Hawaiikai]

Cuz they ugly