Is it considered toxic femininity for a woman to say “When are you having kids?” or “I just don’t see how you can be happy without kids"?

[ManInChains]

Yes

No

[msmissydc]

The first one no. The second one at least speaks for her being toxic feminin. The act of asking is not. The fact she can't be happy without a child is.
'By definition toxic masculinity and feminity is the idea of being so focused being feminine/masculine, and stereotypical traits that come with it, that it is detrimental for everything else.'
Bassically needing to care for a child because there is no happyness without that.
Dont confuse it with being happy for having a child. Or fear of loosing it etc. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[LadyKitty]

Its just straight up toxic either way since there are people who can't have them nor want them. The idea that your happiness has to be tied to one thing is a toxic mindset.

[LazerBean]

No, since femininity has nothing to do with it.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Its just toxic.