I know a girl finds me attractive and handsome and yet she ghosted me?

[magicturtle]

I know from my friends this girl likes me , but she still ghosted me... She is older than me maybe thats why she ghosted me? she is affected by the age gap? We have known each other for a while now, so she knows who I am and all about me.

She told my friends I am handsome so I am trying to think why she would possibly ghost me after getting her number knowing she finds me attractive..

Opinions?

[_Maya_]

Age gap? You are 22 so what is the gap worth talking about? Next thing is that she is not into you if she ghosted you. People that ghost you are not into you. They don't do that so you totally misread the situation. You have the confidence but also not the intuition to know she isn't. How do you know she finds you attractive and handsome. If I find a guy handsome, attractive, and has a good personality then I'm not going to ghost him which leads me to believe you're mistaken about this girl. There isn't a lot of context to this post so it is hard to tell but I'm just going to say what is painfully obvious and that is that she wasn't into you like you want to believe.

[Summeroflove]

Because she’s either playing games, too much of a coward to just say she lost interest, is leaving you on the back burner incase someone else doenst work out, maybe a mixture of those things, but I can’t read her mind. It also depends on your definition of ghosting if it’s not responding for five minutes versus leaving you on read for days.

At the end of the day just let her go if she likes you after all the jokes on her when you move in and find someone who just genuinely makes you happy. If someone isn’t going to talk to you. Just leave them be.

[Nikki1989]

She obviously doesn't like you that much after all.