What qualities do men typically prioritize when choosing a lifelong partner? Why are some guys drawn to rude, self centered, snobby girls?

[coxoabean]

I have seen many guys date really rude, self centered girls who treat people like trash and talk about how pretty they are. To me it gets annoying and I wonder how these guys put up with that. Why would they choose vanity over a girl who isn't going to be self centered? Because if she's like that with other people eventually she will be like that towards him. For guys who have dated girls like this, what were your thoughts when you saw her behave in such ways? Why do you put up with that, if there are really pretty girls that don't act like that?

[ohsheeT]

I agree with you there's no way in this world that I would put up with that

I've met some of the most beautiful girls but the moment they open their mouth the only thing that comes out is pure ugly and there is just no way in this world ever I would date a girl like that

For me true beauty starts from the inside out

And if you're not a good person if you're not happy on the inside then I don't want anything to do with it

[coxoabean]

Yeah, I just don't understand why some guys would dare marry a girl like that because then they're stuck 😫 it's sad

[meepmeeperton]

Personally I’d look for a girl that’s not obese, not ran through, and generally nice to me. I found all those things with my girlfriend so seems like it was reasonable enough criteria.

Some guys date snobs if they’re attractive because they’re too busy thinking with their dicks to consider the long-term consequences.

[Billlewis]

Because many, if not most guys much prefer mean, arrogant woman over a kind, sweet one.

[coxoabean]

But why?

[Billlewis]

Call it reverse psychology, whatever. I'm honestly not sure myself.

[coxoabean]

Oh ok

[Billlewis]

And the same rule applies to women, as well, just not quite to the same degree.

[SixFootSexy]

I don't put up with girls who are vapid, self-centered b*tches. It's just not fun to be around, no matter how attractive their outside might be.

A girl has to be kind, nurturing, loyal, virtuous, etc for me to be interested.

[Jackson2005]

I know plenty of guys dating girls like that. I don’t know how or why they put up with it honestly. I guess just desperate.

[coxoabean]

Yeah desperate may be a reason it seems. Or maybe it gives them some form of validation? I really don't know

[Jackson2005]

That’s also possible. It could also just really be a very toxic and abusive relationship behind closed doors and they’re scared to leave that’s also possible, but yeah I don't know either.

[MicahRaine]

Honestly I feel like guys are usually tricked into dating a girl that ends up being like that.

Qualities I actually want in a wife

[Bklynbadboy12]

Guys aren't attracted to those type of girls. There not rude to the guy they're just rude to other women they see as competition. I drawn to intelligent women that have a great personality and an amazing sense of humor

[Dongie]

That's because they're thinking with their dickhead. If you know anything about the phallus you know it hasn't any brains just emotion.

[Anonymous]

We are capable of an amazing amount of superficiality and often disgust. ourselbes. more than anyone else.

[NathanDavis]

smart, interesting and funny...

[moneymagnet24]

Lifelong? Lol.