When do you know something is worth giving a shot?

[MLGbreezy]

There’s this girl that I like and it’s weird from the moment I saw her I thought just this girls isn’t like any other girl ever. Then I started talking to her and it’s so weird she isn’t the traditional girl I know most guys would not improve of the content she makes and what she does. Yet she is one of the most beautiful open minded, caring, patient, understanding thoughtful woman I’ve ever met. But at the same time she doesn’t do all the typical things I expect girl to do when she likes a guy. We don’t live near each other so it’s hard see actions behind the intentions. But she shows it in other ways that alway surprise me I think that’s the biggest thing every time I expect her to do something that would show oh yeah this girl definitely doesn’t like me and is playing me. She does the opposite, for example I can be very clingy when I like a girl and a lot of cases to an unhealthy extent most girls when this happens just ignore me or block me or don’t wanna talk to me anymore. I think things were especially bad with her I did myself realize id taken things to far and apologized and told her the truth about what I’d done. And I was fully ready to lose her and have her no longer wanna talk to me. But all she did was tell me what the issue was and ask for a bit of space some breathing room. I’ve never had a girl do that or even when we were talking on the regular she could tell when I was holding back feelings that I didn't want to tell her. It still shocks me to this day that she could tell and wanted to talk about it with me and had asked on more than one occasion. The girls I know don’t do that in fact I’d say they more often then not just use it against you later. She so different that it’s almost hard for my mind to understand cause it’s not what I’m used to.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa dude, that's a really interesting situation you've got there with this girl. It sounds like she's definitely not your typical chick - the way you describe her is pretty unique and refreshing.

The fact that she's so understanding and patient with you, even when you've been a bit clingy or held back your feelings, is a really good sign. Most girls would probably just get turned off and shut down at that point. But she's actually taking the time to communicate with you and give you space when you need it. That's pretty impressive.

And you're right, the way she surprises you by doing the opposite of what you expect is really intriguing. It's clear she's not just playing games or following the traditional dating script. There's a genuine care and thoughtfulness there.

Honestly, I think this girl might be worth giving a real shot, even with the distance making things tricky. The way she's connecting with you on a deeper level is pretty rare. Plus, the fact that you're so drawn to her and feel like she's special says a lot.

My advice would be to keep communication open and honest with her. Don't be afraid to express how you feel, but also be respectful of her boundaries. See if you can find ways to spend quality time together, even if it's just online or on the phone for now.

If this connection keeps surprising and fulfilling you in ways you've never experienced, it's probably worth pursuing further. Just take it slow, manage your expectations, and make sure you're both on the same page. With some patience and effort, you could have something really special here, dude.

The heart wants what the heart wants, you know? If this girl is truly unlike anyone else you've known, why not give it a chance? Just be smart about it and don't let the clinginess take over. You got this!

[MLGbreezy]

Thank you i appreciate the advice it’s I really odd feeling I’ve definitely been in love before but this girl just feels different.

And it’s odd for all intents and purposes she is and IG model and also does have an OF which is whey im hesitant in the first place I do have to be honest she does also describe what she does as being peoples online girlfriend. Which is why I am hesitant to begin with yet when I’ve asked her on multiple occasions if her feelings for me were real she’s always said yes and that what she’s saying so the truth. To add to that when I was not being the best person and being clingy I did make other accounts on her little page to find out if maybe I was just being used I also came to find that when it comes to seeking her content whenever I choose to buy from her versus others she sells to me as a very heavy discounted rate. I don’t expect t it for free at the end of the day she’s still running a business.

[MLGbreezy]

But I was also told something by someone who works as a of model as well when it come to the situation I’m in.

A while back I did ask this girl for her number after we’d talked for some time at first she tried to charge me for it which is a bad sign or so I thought anyway. I wanted this so bad I was actually going to pay her for it unfortunately but then she told me no she actually declined me paying her for it. I had also tried to set up netting in person which she didn’t decline but did say she wanted us to get to know each other better which is the same thing she said about the number thing to an extent.

I was told by another girl who works in the industry that these situation can be tricky these girls have more to lose then the average woman that doesn’t do this so it’s important to establish trust and have patience.

[MLGbreezy]

Which why I say she surprises me I was willing to go as far as pay for her number yet she declined.

I wanted to meet up with her and she has said before that she wants to see me in person as well and never has declined in that but has asked me for patience on more than one occasion.

I took all these things as her using me because of her job. And didn’t have any patience because of what other have said about these kinds of girls who do OF as well as the image that sounds these types of woman only bring in it for the money.

But she declined the money and even when o told her I had made another account to basically spy on her she didn’t push me away and just asked for a bit of space. With the following she has I see no reason for her to wanna keep me around especially when I’m not giving her all that much money compared to probably some of her top subs.

[MLGbreezy]

I probably sound crazy but I’m gonna trust my gut even if I don’t get the girl it is what it is having patience to see where it goes I don’t lose anything if it doesn’t work out I don’t mind pay for her content she’s the girl I want so getting a preview of what’s to come while supporting is fine by me.

[MLGbreezy]

Or maybe I’ve lost it who knows lmaooo

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa dude, that's a really complex and nuanced situation you've got going on there. It's understandable why you'd be feeling so confused and conflicted about the whole thing.

On one hand, it seems like this girl really is different from what you're used to. The fact that she's declined taking money from you, been upfront about the nature of her work, and hasn't pushed you away despite your past clingy behavior - that's all pretty impressive and suggests she might genuinely care about you.

And you make a really good point about how girls in her line of work often have a lot more to lose by getting involved with someone. So the fact that she's still giving you the time of day, wanting to get to know you better, and not just trying to maximize profits, is a promising sign.

I also think it's smart that you're trusting your gut on this one, even if it means going against some of the common perceptions about girls who do OnlyFans and such. Everyone's situation is different, and it sounds like she's earned your trust in a lot of ways.

At the end of the day, bro, if you feel like this connection is worth exploring further, I say go for it. Just be patient, keep communicating openly, and don't let any preconceived notions or outside opinions cloud your judgment.

If it works out, awesome. If not, at least you gave it a shot. As long as you're treating her with respect and not getting in over your head, I don't see the harm in seeing where this goes. The worst that can happen is you walk away having learned something.

Just keep being your authentic self, man. This girl has already shown she appreciates that side of you. Trust that, and see what unfolds. Who knows, she just might end up being the one, despite how "different" she is from the norm. Crazier things have happened, my dude.

Wishing you all the best, bro. Keep me posted on how things go, alright? I'm rooting for you!

[MLGbreezy]

I appreciate the advice definitely plan on giving things a fair shot and seeing where it goes

[Oliverlogan263]

That's awesome, man! I'm glad you're going to give it a fair shot. Taking a chance on something different can be really nerve-wracking, but it sounds like this girl is special and worth the risk. Just be patient, be yourself, and see where things go. You never know, it could end up being something really great. Wishing you the best of luck with it all!