Do women lack empathy if they don’t like you?

[MLGbreezy]

I mean this sole in the context of of dating or romance. But man it just seems like in this area woman lack a strange amount of empath at least to m.

Like I just don understand how someone could be pouring there heart out to you and you just are dismissive of that persons feelings for you that to me had and will always be crazy. That is not to say that you have to like this person back or do something or the other to please them or whatever just because they like you.

But the response I’ve seen woman give in those situations just come off incredibly dismissive even more so if she has money and options those ones are probably actually heartless unless it’s a celebrity or someone they are interested.

Maybe it’s different for guys cause we have less options but even if I wasn’t interested in a girl I alway felt bad seeing one tell me how much they really like me and if I was being a dick prior I did try to treat that person with more respect and maybe even I’m give them a chance depending. Or I’d just think of a way to let them down easy now obviously this isn’t all girls I have had some girls who were genuinely really respectful and kind when it came to rejecting me but I’ve had more who were rude or dismissive.

It just seems so unnecessary to act like act like that especially when you have so many options at your finger tips. But maybe that’s just me.

[blueonblack22]

I have written extensively about this.

There are evolutionary factors that play into the complete lack of empathy women display towards men who they determine don’t provide any tangible value to them. Even when they do seemingly show respect towards men it’s usually more for “social optics” (how other people view her and it’s impact on her reputation) vs. how the man actually really feels.

There was a time in history where being with the right man could make or break a woman’s entire livelihood. Women depended on men to provide and protect them and their children. If they don’t find the man valuable (attractive, money/wealth, social optics, strong/protective, etc) he quickly becomes expendable regardless if he’s a “threat” to her or not. It was also a much bigger risk back then for a woman to give the man the wrong idea.

I truly believe women have not evolved out this conceited behavior despite the fact it’s no longer necessary (and very unfair) in the modern world. They struggle to understand the idea of respecting a man out of general principle. They don’t know the difference between respect and like-ability. They think it’s the same thing and it’s not.

And this by far the number one reason so many men are very angry in “modern” society. Modern feminism keeps demanding that woman should be respected for just existing (regardless if the man finds value in the woman or not). But this is not being reciprocated.

Above is a generalization. There are a small minority of women out there who legitimately get this. But they are definitely in the minority.

[MLGbreezy]

I agree with allat everything Said here and I plan on making another post about society and how it treats men it’s become very clear to me recently that despite the nonsense woman spout men are very much secondary in the eyes of society woman are treated better woman a favored they get free pass for certain things just because of there gender and men a much more heavily scrutinized for everything in comparison especially in dating.

[blueonblack22]

You have to understand (and completely accept) that women are NOT going to change their behaviors unless there is something in it for them. This selfishness is hard coded in their psyche. Not all women of course but definitely the majority.

Too many guys falsely believe that women are actually listening to us when we air our grievances. Truth is most of them don’t care. They tune us out.

It doesn’t matter how justified we are about the unfairness. Men are still expendable. We are NOT special just for existing.

BUT many women are finding that they are self sabotaging themselves and slowly but surely realizing they alone are ultimately responsible for their own unhappiness. Can take a very long time but it’s dawning on some of them as they get older.

I believe this eventually will reverse course. But when a woman does something to self sabotage herself (e. g. cheats on a good man) NEVER give her a shoulder to cry on. Don’t insult her but instead say “well you made a bad decision to cheat. Your boyfriend/husband left you. Those are the consequences and you have to live with them”.

Men need to focus more on how women themselves are the real cause for their own unhappiness. Don’t waste your time complaining about your problems. Unless the woman wants you for her own reasons she could really care less how you feel.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Once women judge you as non-beneficial to them... they mark you off. It's cold... but it is what it is.

Obviously, us guys hold on to a bunch of shit... we're the romantics and hold onto ideas and thoughts that we should just drop like they do.

I'll put it like this and since I'm on my last call drink as well... these bitches don't care about you... as a person and shit. Get over that bullshit. They want to know what they can get... so it's best to pull them in with pure lust from hitting the gym... which works. If you lead with your wallet or try to do it with game and brains... good luck.

Or, be me... hit the weights for about a hour an a half per day at 4am... then do shit like slam beers and hit them in the head with empty beer cans. Tell them it's because you love them... it doesn't take much when you hit the weights. That's my "game." I'll call them a bitch instead of agreeing with their points. Why bother? They want the dick.

[MLGbreezy]

Considering your saying your drunk I’m guessing a lot of that last paragraph isn’t to be taken entirely seriously but it’s sad to say that acting like that has crossed my mind.

I’m surprised that leading with money isn’t one as well cause that seems to be the common way to get girls nowadays besides hitting the gym. Kinda crazy but girls really are incredibly shallow and unfortunately I’m an idealistic optimist so I guess woman are sorta my worst nightmare.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's like they say, no matter what you're going to end up taking the red pill. Either orally where you see it coming or suppository where the girls do it to you... take advantage of you... and try to destroy you.

Women are far from being the perfect little angels we were spoon-fed to think about women as kids.

Don't feel too bad though... even other women don't like women. With being an idealistic optimist, you're sort of a target for women that want to do bad shit to men. Like a mental punching bag. I was once an idealistic optimist and look at me now. I see a dead sexy woman and instead of popping a boner and wanting to serve her I just have tons of bad feelings run through my mind. Women have done this through time and through their actions. My negative opinion about women have been built up brick by brick by women.

Don't lead with your wallet, because you'll just attract more gold diggers and they really don't give a fuck about you. They're the women that you could provide a house with a pool for and they'll cheat on you with the pool boy. That's how much they respect you handing them material wealth. Honestly my best advice is to treat them like shit and take advantage of them instead. At least they'll respect you.

[KrakenAttackin]

So fucking true.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@KrakenAttackin I know right, it's so sad, but true.

[MisterWack]

Why would it just be women limited to this?

I would’ve asked: “Do people lack empathy when it is someone they dislike?” Yes, though differing amounts align with individuals.

[MLGbreezy]

Well are you dating men?

[MLGbreezy]

Because if so you welcome to give your experience but I date woman so i I’m speaking from that point of view would think that was pretty obvious

[MisterWack]

@MLGbreezy My bad then sorry 😅
Answer to the question at hand: Yes, though differing amounts align with individuals.
Also to answer your second question: I’m dating a woman currently lol

[MLGbreezy]

Aye all good no judgement I have been with girls who have let me down ways before if they weren’t in tested this isn’t just a blanket all woman are unempathetic type of deal I know not all girls are how I described by I can’t speak for how guys do it entirely just from what I’ve heard seen and experienced on my end which is why I said guys light be different

[MLGbreezy]

I think I over generalized which i should’ve worded things better to be fair

[MisterWack]

@MLGbreezy 1st part: Yeah I gotchu I gotchu man.
I should’ve read it better, all good. 👍
2nd part: We can all improve, I need to improve being a better reading lol

[Summeroflove]

Lacking empathy and not being attracted to someone are two entirely different things. Just because someone isn’t into you in the romantic sense doesn’t always equal rejection on a personal level.

I will say people with high amounts of empathy can seem cold at times but that’s because they also understand that peoples choices get them into the situations they are in and they refuse to make better choices. But that’s another rant.

When you are “pouring your heart out” to someone that’s not into you the kindest thing that they can do is kindly turn you down. It’s better then cowardly stringing someone along that way you’re not wasting your time. If someone’s being dismissive then don’t waste your time on her dude find someone who has mutual interest.

I have also found that (nobody should date for money) women who have their own money are usually better about things then women who want to leech off a man. Just saying…

[OneViewpoint]

Do women lack empathy if they don't like you? No! What a bizarre conclusion. Why are they required to like you? Are you required to like every girl who shows an interest in you?

Your infatuation in no way obligates the object of your affection to reciprocate your feelings. And frankly if you come on too strong, you may freak that person out. That's when you get the bad attitude / insensitive reaction.

Remember, these women are fumbling their way through this life just like guys. They don't have it all figured out. And contrary to women's opinion of themselves, a lot of them are not very mature... at any point in their lives. Just like guys.

[KrakenAttackin]

Women are cold as fuck. Whoever said women are empathetic was talking out of their ass. Women can destroy their families and any random man, with the stop of a hat.

Women are merciless.

[MLGbreezy]

You know it’s kinda sad to see what things have turned into. Man have lost all faith in woman and woman are single handedly destroying the faith themselves and then blaming men for it.

Like no said in my post I don’t think someone is obligated to like someone back just because they are pouring their heart out if you don’t like alone you don’t like them.

But feeling nothing at all for someone desperately trying to get your attention is shocking to me maybe it’s because us as guys don’t have that many options so we understand that feeling but someone refusing to even acknowledge your existence when all the wanna do is tell you how much you mean to them in my opinion is cruel.

[KrakenAttackin]

Take it further, women who have been in marriages have no problem divorcing, taking half+ money, the house, kids, car, and all the shit HE paid for; while having sex with randos in her marital bed. Women are ruthless.

[Jmmmfi4]

A fucking men

[Kayleigh2005]

Girls are the devil

[Crazzyyworld]

Basically women are con artists

[Crazzyyworld]

Virgin Mary con artists

[MLGbreezy]

Damn coming from a woman that is saying something

[msc545]

Women view emapthy as weakness.

[beefcakebradybatson]

As do men.