Guys, have you ever been catcalled by girls? Girls, have you ever catcalled a guy?

[Anonymous]

I know it's usually vice versa, but still, some girls do that.

Yes, I'm a guy, I have been catcalled by a girl, and I liked it

Yes, I'm a guy, I have been catcalled by a girl, but I didn't like it

Yes, I'm a girl, and I have catcalled a guy

No, i'm a guy, I have never been catcalled by a girl, but I would like it

No, i'm a guy, I have never been catcalled by a girl, and I probably wouldn't like it

No, i'm a girl, and I have never catcalled a guy

I don't know, can't remember

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[WhiteSteve]

A few times, I guess😅 The most blatant one was in my 20s, and I was walking out of the local pizza slice place in the town I went to college in. I was just minding my own business, and there was a Jeep Wrangler full of girls parked on the curb, about to pull off. I just kind of made incidental eye contact with a couple of them, just in passing, no hard looks or anything.

Anyway, they start to drive away, and as they’re leaving, one of them yelled out “HOTTIIIIIIIIEEEEEEEE!!!”, and I was just kind of looking around confused, like “wait…ME?”😅 But there was no one else there, so…🤷‍♂️

I’ve been chasing that high ever since😂😂😂

I’d say most of the other stuff qualifies more as “getting hollered at” than actual “cat-calling.” When I visited Austin I was out at the Sixth Street bars and some girls came up to me on the street and were like “our friend thinks you’re fine…do you have Snapchat.” One of them gave me shit for having an arrowhead charm on my necklace, so I was kinda like “alllllRIGHT🙄😒”, and they probably went back and told her I was a dick, lmao. But I appreciated that someone picked me out of the thousands of people in that area to take a run at😝

Or another girl sitting in a car called me over to her when I was walking into a supermarket for my job. She was like “Excuuuusssseeeee meeeee…”, and when I went over to her she said “heyyyy, I just wanted to say hi, and tell you you’re very handsome.” Didn’t have my current hall pass deal going in my relationship yet, so I had to politely decline…. but I was a whiteboy in THE HEART OF THE HOOD, lmao, so I was kinda feelin’ myself after that😅 Getting that love wherever I go😝

But “TRUE” cat-calls, only a few times, mostly in my college days/20s. It’s totally non-threatening to me as a man, so I’m happy to receive it every time, haha

[Finchie40]

Yes I have been catcalled here and there , and it cracks me up and makes me smile , girls’ usually do it when they are with a group of friends’ just being silly and having fun, but if I find any of them attractive , I will wave them over to come talk to me lol Very rare that they do , but it sometimes works lol I ended up hooking up with a few of them that decided to come talk to me. So I take it as a compliment when girls’ catcall me. But I know most girls’ don’t like being catcalled from men unless she finds him attractive as well, so it kind of works both ways I guess. It just depends on the person’s personality and what their true intentions are whether they are being serious or just being silly showing off in front of their friends’

[coolbreeze]

Yes I did and I liked the attention of it

[D_Bone_Steak]

I get cat called by women all the time... I don't like it.

It's always some big back fat chick the does it. I lift weights, pretty shredded and buff. You could put me on magazine covers and it would sell... even to the men, I'll just add my workout plan for them.

IRL though what does it get me?

It gets me fat chick hollering at me about how much they want my dick when I'm walking with my kids. Those women are fucking sick yo. I'm sure men are that bad as well but for me it feels fucking ridiculous. My kid is 13 rn... has to watch that shit... fat bitches constantly hitting on his Dad and all the sexy chicks... they never say shit. They do in different settings but I'm talking in public when I'm just walking into a store-type shit from my car.

Fat chicks are ghetto.

[molonski2]

Oh yes , on numerous occasions , but you need to remember vastly different times back then ( on both sides ) , I was 16-17 into a mid 20s , I had these what I call " teeny bopper fan club " , but it happened everywhere , people got my number ( land line ) no idea how , and these calls would come in , they'd scream when I walked past a particular school..

The problem was , they were all too young , you know what its like at 17 , so it was embarrassing , and it didn't help with the girls I liked , my girlfriend got hate mail and some things vandalised..

So it was catcalling that became stalking , which back then you could not even report , when I was catching a crowded train , my arse would get pinched , basically all the time to where I just didn't even look around.

Now , of course , it hasn't occurred for many many years.. hahahaha , which is fine also.

[Asker]

Interesting story, lol, you were so lucky :D

[molonski2]

No really Bro , coz they were all not of legal age , so it really stuffed me up with the girls I wanted who were put off by all these girls ( coz I looked stupid young , and with all this blonde hair ) , it did work later on though , 19 - Early 20s.. then it all started slowing down , after football.

[SleepingHazard]

I am a real lady, and I have been catcalled by men who could've been my dad and by annoying teens.
I also do the catcalling myself. On anonymous going daredevils like you.
Come here doggy. 🐶😗

[Asker]

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[SleepingHazard]

Oh my god! Look at the little man.

[Asker]

You like him? :)

[SleepingHazard]

Yes! Great choice. At least one of the two of you is fun to play with!

[Asker]

Thanks :D

[RingOfFire]

@sleepinghazard

🤣🤣🤣

[Otismerc]

I don't remember if I have ever been catcalled it hasn't happened in the last decade I would guarantee that. Would you catcall quaisimodo? No then chances are neither would other women, would you date him or even look at him as attractive? No and thus no reason to catcall him so no reason for me to even think I would get catcalled or even be called sexy never heard it never will.

[Asker]

I know what you mean :(

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, it's happened to me more than a few times.. From women yelling from cars too.. And a few in my face as well.. Mostly "sexy" comments..

[Joshydavid25]

I loved it of course.. Always made my day..

[Asker]

You're so lucky...

[Joshydavid25]

Haha I guess.. At the end of the day though... I'm still single... 😭😭..

[Staximus]

Yeah, back when I was younger. I used to have a big rowdy group of friends who would always be over at my house drinking. I was getting ready for a job interview one day and was putting on a shirt and tie, and a few of the girls started cat calling me

[RavVid]

A bunch of girls yelled out 'your cock's showing' as they sped past in their car. I suppose that is equivalent of 'show us your tits'.

I felt quite flattered. Only time girls have cat called me.

[NicholasRedone]

However if they weren't hot 20s aged women then or unattractive 20s women - yeah... frowns

[Summeroflove]

I think it depends on how they do it and who it’s by. Trust me… Attractive guys get hit on. A lot of times thigh problems arise with women you already know who tend to start getting the wrong idea.

[dustybiker2]

Yes. I have done it a lot. But it's always someone I know, and in good fun, as a loud compliment to embarrass them. They know me so enjoy it. Or I wouldn't do it.

[alice55]

Never did but I did asked guy I found attractive for pictures but it was during a anime convention and they were cosplaying

[KostasKouvalis]

I do this too with girls. I feel less embarrassed/awkward about it, knowing you do it too.

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Well I don't do it often as I rarely go to convention it's expensive but I did ask for some picture I felt so embarrassed but his cosplay was really good so
I think it's normal to do this in convention so many people do it too

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, I've done it with some regular ones too in certain circumstances, but mainly I do it at festivals, where they're dressed up, because it makes it less awkward. But often my mom has to ask for a picture, because I'm too embarrassed. That's really cute that you do this too. ^^

I've caught girls sneaking pictures of me before.

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis I only do this in convention when they're cosplaying personally

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, I remember many years ago you told me you were going to one of those and dressing up. Cute ^^

[NicholasRedone]

@alice55 when you say pictures you mean nothing that's not PG lol surely? Or do you mean you got to know him and you asked him for photos of himself - baring all? Lol 🤣😆 I'm so confused by the lack of detail as to "are these ordinary selfies or " ...

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Yes, I wore a white yakata with blue / turquoise flower and a bit of yellow.

[alice55]

@NicholasRedone Oh well he was in a cosplay of a anime character and he was half naked (like torso bare but wore a pants) and I asked if I could take a pictures of him and he said yes so I took a pictures of him half dressed xD

In France it's totally normal to do this kind of stuff during convention, men and women they ask to take pictures of cosplayer and they say yes 99% of the time. There's sexy and more tame cosplay. Usually I just ask the guy I find hot for pictures and they say yes so I get my pictures but they're never naked XD

[KostasKouvalis]

Damn, he was shirtless? I'm jealous

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Yes he was XD
Technically he had a haori But he didn't put it on he put it around his waist so he was shirtless XD
He had a good face and was muscular also his cosplay was good really looked like the character

[KostasKouvalis]

Okay, now you're making me more jealous on purpose XD Then again, I once took a picture with a girl in a bikini, so... XD

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis XD
To be fair I'm pretty difficult there's not a lot of men I actually find hot it's rare I do so XD

In America? Beause if is it I'm surprised she let you take the pictures without throwing a fuse XD

[KostasKouvalis]

No, in the Caribbean. It was on a boat tour. She was from Estonia and was older than me. We started talking and she even gave me her e-mail address, so I asked if I could get a picture with her. The craziest thing is, her boyfriend took it XD

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, I never said anything 'cuz I didn't wanna sound rude, but you kind of are. XD My letter/messages explain it more ^^

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis So it was for that, she was Eastern European people there don't mind pictures.
Was this her boyfriend or her pimp XD
That's so crazy and funny.
I never asked people on beach for pictures only ever during convention personally

[KostasKouvalis]

Boyfriend.
When I was in Aruba, I was laying shirtless on a recliner, and this girl across from me was taking pictures of me. She was trying to make it look like she was taking a selfie, but it was so obvious, especially since she kept oggling me. But if a MAN did that and got noticed, he would have the police called on him

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis That I'm difficult in terms of looks? yes and no to be honest because there's men I find attractive while majority find them ugly so I think I just have weird taste.

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, that you're really picky and have really high standards XD
I know XD

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis well she could call the police but she can’t prove anything if the Guy delete the pictures and police don’t care about those things they have other stuff to do espeically in France with how messy is it because of drugs violence

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis well the turkish guys i found attractive most people on here found him unattractive so i think i may just have weird taste

Like do you find him attractive? I think he look hot but I think most people won’t find him attractive :



I think really I just have weird taste rather than being difficult xD

[KostasKouvalis]

Not here. American police responded to the dumbest things and sue over the dumbest things. I saw a "Judge Judy" episode where a guy sued a barber for cutting his hair too short. And one guy sued a beer company for false advertising because he drank beer and girls didn't appear in his room. They both won!
And recently police have been arresting mothers because their kids were walking home alone.
And apparently you can get in trouble for taking pictures of women's feet.

There was a girl in Japan who caught a guy taking pictures of her over the bathroom stall. She just made the guy delete it and didn't even call the cops. In America, he would be put on the sex offenders list.
And if you have an i phone, nothing really deletes

[KostasKouvalis]

No. Lol
He looks East Asian. And what's with all the earrings?

If you found ME attractive, I wouldn't be offended though. ^^

But I have weird taste too apparently, so... XD

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis American police really have time to lose cause honestly just a pictures is not a big deal.
In France it's know America like to sur for no reasons, it's actually considered crazy and funny here, last time they showed a child suing his parents cause his parents refused to give him candy but the child was obese and he won, in France we were so confused but also laughing at the crazy situation XD

Judge in America are so special and weird, it's crazy, the beer things I actually heard it they talked about it in France in France and said advertisement had to be careful in America if not they would get sued for the tiniest things XD

Well for this I can understand especially if the kids are small and live in a bad area.

weird

She's brave I wouldn't even dare to ask the guy to delete the pictures I would have just ignored it personally, I would be too afraid the guy would get defensive to me and say I'm lying as I have no proves.

For a pictures? How is that a sex offense? Also this sex list don't exist in France it's illegal.
It does if you delete it two or three time no? Cause if it don't get deleted then maybe I could save my old pictures cause I lost literally 4 years of pictures my iPhone when I change of phone.

So that's what I'm saying I think I have weird taste rather than being difficult XD

He's Japanese so yes East Asian and he look very similar to the guy I told you about who was shirtless during the convention, he look similar to the guy in the pictures.
It's because he's doing a cosplay, he cosplay a character from Chainsaw Man called Hirofumi Yoshida it's why he have so many hearing in the pictures.

XD

Guess we are similar for this. but I think you do have some weird taste but also very conventionally one sometime

[KostasKouvalis]

You can still get sued for it, though I've never really heard of it happening, especially since people film everything now. And only a few states like mine have 2 party consent for photo/video/audio, but it only applies to places where privacy is expected.

If that happened anywhere else, I would think it was satire, but since it happened here, I believe it😂
We watched "Supersize Me" in school and a French lady in it said, "The Americans love to sue about everything"😂

It wasn't a bad area though

Yeah

Because it was of a sexual nature. He took a picture of her on the toilet

Sometimes it does, sometimes not. Usually it stays in a trash folder for a month. But sometimes they disappear instantly.

4 years, they're gone.
That sucks

What about the no wrinkles stuff? Literally everyone ages and gets wrinkles. Other things are reasonable.

Really? I thought he was White. I'm not so jealous anymore 😂

So he's Japanese but lives in Turkey?

Ooooh. I'm curious which of my tastes you think are weird ^^

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis This is pretty crazy

Yes people films everyone and everything hard to sue ervyone for this XD
Same when I see crazy things I don't believe it but once I see it's in America I believe it XD
We have this emission in France I watched it as a child was so funny
SHe's not wrong XD

That's so weird who think it's a good idea to take pics of someone feet while they're in the toilet XD
Yes that's so frustrating 4 years lost it's a lot, I had so many pictures

Well wrinkles don't look good but I guess I will change this rules once I get wrinkles but so far I'm lucky and I have none so the rules won't change right now XD
I don't think it's a harsh rules though I'm in my twenty I'm young it's normal I don't want to date someone who have wrinkles.

No, he was Asian and we were about the same height he was not tall but still looked hot anyway XD

The guy I showed you on the pictures is Japanese and I'm pretty sure he live in Japan too, For <turkey I just made a reference to the Turkish soccer player who I found attractive but most people didn't find attractive on here.

Well the Indian girls because in France they're seen as the least attractive in France the one who are seen as the least attractive (for both men and women) are Asian, Indian and Romanian. Asian women are so popular in America but in France they get so much shit throw at them I saw multiple video on French TikTok where they got insulted because French people found her ugly, it was violent

[KostasKouvalis]

That guy died recently, but he got busted because it got revealed that he was drinking while filming that. Some guy posted that he said in class his liver damage was 'cuz he was drinking and the teacher scolded him.

No. The Japanese guy was just taking a pic of the woman over the stall. They actually had to pass a law to ban upskirt photos.

You didn't have them saved on a computer?

Or if you have a strong emotional connection with "someone" and they love you ;)

I know what you mean though about rules changing. I don't think I'm as picky as before.

Oh man

Ah! You're making me jealous again ^^

Some girl blocked me once because she had a huge crush of Marilyn Manson and I told he looks creepy without make up

Damn😂
Thanks😂 Indian girls aren't too well liked aesthetically, so I'm not surprised. They have a lot of features I find attractive. One girl I used to talk to on here saw some Indian girls' feet, with all the jewelry and said, "I understand now why you like Indian girls"😂

Asian and Romanian girls I agree, though there are exceptions.

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Wow
I know inJapan they love taking upskirt picture which is why there's build in shorts in skirt in Japan. They also made the sound for pictures mandotory.
Why would he take a picture of a woman in a toilet though that's so awkward XD
Sadly no

I'm not either before I was only into White blonde guy now I'm also into Asian, latino, etc.. I'm not picky about race anymore
XD

He look creepy even with make up

Jewelry on feet look pretty it's hard to find in France though

yes

[KostasKouvalis]

I think he was drunk, but they do this kind of stuff even when they aren't drunk. They're such perverts.

That sucks

😃

You don't like body hair, right?

YES! I love it so much! Yeah, I've seen a few French girls with it, mainly anklets, but toe rings seem not as common.

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Well it's a pretty well know fact in their country, even in their anime there's pervert, is it rather funny in anime though, in real life there's creep everywhere, there's plenty in France too so all country equal on those stuff

I don't no but this one is easy just need shaving and it's done

it's not common but I have seen some, anklet are pretty popular in France though yes

[KostasKouvalis]

I haven't really seen it, but I know it exists. You know a lot about Anime

Really? Shaving is good enough for you?
I started shaving mine ^^

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis I love anime, I watched so many of them, I also watched a lot of anime when I wasn't on here, I watched demon slayer and Blue lock.

I also started using AI to make story to make story about the character I like from the anime I watch

Well yes, I also have hair everybody do but so long as we shave then we get hairless skin so it's good

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis That's great ^^

[KostasKouvalis]

Oh, is that what you were writing?

^^ That's great to hear

I don't shave legs and arms, 'cuz it's like impossible, but I started shaving chest, stomach and bush, and I actually think I look better without it honestly and it feels better too.

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Yes, that's what I was writing, I write my favorite kind of story wit character I like from anime or movie or tv show I watch

^^
It definitely feel better yes, smoother and look cleaner

[KostasKouvalis]

Cute

Most girls I've met preferred hairy though, but I heard European girls prefer hairless.
Although, when I posted both on here, majority of people said I looked better hairless.
It's just tideous and time consuming.
How often do you shave yours? Do you have a lot?

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Thanks ^^

Weird but everyone is different
yes I think in Europe hairless or very fews hair is preferred
In France they were an emission where men and women went to get a new fashion looks plus hairstyle and when the men were hairy they always told him to get shaved.
It's not so long when you're used to it and using shaving cream is the easiest ways to do it

Every two weeks, I don't have a lot and it don't grow fast either so I can do every two weeks or even every three weeks it's good.

[KostasKouvalis]

I guess they think hairy is more manly. But a lot of the girls who claim they like hairy, don't want pubes.
That's weird, because shaving didn't used to be common. My aunt said Polish girls don't shave their armpits😂
I've seen French actresses in pictures and movies, and non of them were shaved.

I use an electric razor. I cut myself a couple times.

I think that's what's most girls do. I don't care honestly, unless it's in certain places. I've seen my share of hairy women😂

My mom always thought I have too much.
This is embarrassing, but one of the reasons I started doing it is because you said you like hairless. But it started getting uncomfortable too. And I was kind of curious how I would look and feel, and I ended up liking it, honestly. Now when I see it, I think it's kind of gross XD

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Possible, being manly is seen as very important in America but not seen as important in Europe
That's so weird XD
here in France you wouldn't caught a woman with hair never
Really? I never saw that I'm curious

I always use cream it's the most convenient
XD
I've never seen hairy women in real life
It's good hairless is better XD

[KostasKouvalis]

I think you can, but maybe it's not very common. But I think most women shave/wax/laser now, except in Latin America and East/SE Asia and maybe some others. Most girls I talked to said they removed it.

've seen plenty, especially Latinas.
That's probably better, and I think it's easier for women.

It's really common in Latinas, but I've seen some hairy White girls here too.

My parents, especially my mom always raised me to think it's natural and shouldn't be removed. So I used to prefer natural, but now I don't really care because majority of girls shave. But sometimes one can look better.

I wanted to stay hairy, but eventually curiosity and some other stuff got the better on me, and I think it's better now too. ^^

[NicholasRedone]

👀 I've been stare-beared by many women over the years, a handful of times in particular, I either liked the attention or I felt annoyed/bemused by the attention.

Stare bears 🐻 🫣 👁️ 👁️ ♀️

[conanbdetective]

Never been catcalled but they've come up to me to strike up a conversation. It's a weird feeling being subject to someone's attention in that way as it doesn't happen often.

[PeachyPie93]

No I have never catcalled a guy.. I check them out for sure but never say anything to them.

[lilBigPotato]

Nope and also not from guys not much of a thing here

[OneViewpoint]

Never had it happen but I'd probably laugh my ass off.

[NathanDavis]

yeah, some do that too... and more, like grabbing your ass you go

[KostasKouvalis]

Not really, but I've had girls give me spicy compliments before, and I've had girls blow me kisses, oggle me and even sneak pictures of me

[Tomisworthless]

@KostasKouvalis they did that too.. Only to shame me on their socials lol ahh 2017

[KostasKouvalis]

@Tomisworthless I don't think these girls were trying to shame me, but that would definitely suck

[Tomisworthless]

No not you bud, my experience is inverted

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I have been catcalled.

I have never catcalled a guy.

I would never catcall a stranger.

[Nikki1989]

No, I learned a long time ago to not even look at men if it can be avoided.

[Anonymous]

I used to live in Torrance and worked in Santa Monica and I often rode my bike to work. I got cat called many, many times while riding my bike. I didn't mind.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Catcalled no lol but told them I found them attractive yeah

[shortster]

Once in middle school, I don't know if I was more shocked that they did it or if it was that they did it in the library.

[Mangospacho]

Yes, and it is still one of my proudest moments in life.

[JesseP1nk]

Yes i have. I dont mind. Im just like whatever

[MRJamsDDD]

Yes. At the airport and house parties

”mmm”

”hellllllooo”

They always seem to know if you just got laid or are about to

[Rimaisme]

Catcalled by guys Yes

Vicer Versa No

[beefcakebradybatson]

I've been catcalled a few times.

[Asker]

What did they say?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Remarks about my boyish good looks.

[Asker]

Well, you were lucky.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I've never had either.

[chrissykerdock]

wear a miniskirt and you will be catcalled

[Asker]

I'm not Scottish :P

[DrPepper12]

I liked the attention. a lot

[Anonymous]

I've done it a few times.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, jokingly by friends.

[jahaims]

Yeah

[Asker]

What did they say?

[DishLady]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Actually yes. But only in jest by my sister.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

yea by scammers though

[Anonymous]

No but I wish I was