Lengthy response warning and not 100% sure it counts as catcalling or not:
Once while on vacation in Florida on my first day. 4 very attractive girls in bikinis called me over but were too far for me to hear them so I moved closer. One of them seemed unable to take her eyes off me and was blushing like crazy and very shy. The other 3 kept asking if I was vacationing alone, kept showering me with compliments and kept making comments about the shy girl's booty, eyes and smile and asking me if she was my type. They were making even more... direct... comments that are probably too graphic to say on this website. Normally I would be flattered by this but one of the 3 girls making the comments felt off. However I did find the other girl very attractive and asked the other 3 ladies if they would mind giving us some time alone.
I found out the 4th girl was not really shy but was mad that her friends were trying to force a date on her when she just wanted to enjoy the waves. I apologized to her and started to head back to my beach towel. However, she asked if she could join me and us get to know each other some. I was only there for 4 more days and therefore did not get to know her much, but we did become friends and she has even offered for me to stay at their place (all 4 girls are roommates) to save on hotel fare. She also said whenever I come to Florida on vacation she would love to show me around.
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I spent a lot of time in nightclubs when younger so I got drunk girls doing things that would get men arrested like smacking and pinching my butt and even sometimes grabbing my balls.
In my experience, the girls are usually drunk and hang out in groups. I've rarely seen a solo girl do this kind of stuff except for a few times, and in those few times, I think she might have actually been trying to show off to guys because those few times involved one tipsy girl with a whole bunch of tipsy guys and it felt like she was trying to show off to the guys by groping me.
It's a totally different vibe either way for me. I never minded it and that's not to dismiss the concerns of women who experience it because they seem to feel fear there. I don't feel fear when girls are doing it. Without the fear, there's little to be offended about from my perspective.
Yes but it is not a regular thing
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Yes of course…most often called out and nonverbally hunted like a pack of Cats 🐈 rather than a hooting 🦉
Probably, Not sure of when, if or how, I remember once I was driving slow on start to get to freeway and this 3 girls were walking in other direction they did something similar to cat call. Girl in elementary pinched me on my inner thigh. That would not be cat call though.
Most guys would love to get this kind of attention. Especially short fat ugly dudes like the guy in this pic.
Yes. Though it was usually a "prank." flirt and catcall and see what the stupid ugly loser does.
Had a girl slap and randomly squeeze my butt a few times at work - creepy stuff. Ironically, same girl got upset that some creepy dude catcalled her on her break one day, and a bunch of guys were going to call security on the guy. It wasn't the time to call her on all her creepy touching. Bosses pretty much laughed it off when I did say something about her another time.Once or twice yes. I was even groped in high school once, while I had a girlfriend, who was walking beside me. To be fair it was a classmate who was hypersexual. Though only ever towards me. Wasn't a quick one either, she gave it a good squeeze, had to physically restrain my raging girlfriend.
Yeah, I've had people say things to me before, although probably not like what the pictures say.
Once or twice, but not by women.
I'll never go to LA again. Disgusting.Yup. I've also over heard women talking about what they would do to me.. Women won't admit this, but they are just as bad as men when it comes to that stuff.
Usually when a girl is in a group, or in a car. Once or twice have I walked past a girl and call out im sexy, but usually if I'm walking, it'll be a girl driving by shouting out her window.
Yes I have when I was in my late teens and early 20s.
TBH I kind of liked it.Yes, by girls in high school, but they were really just teasing me. When a girl in high school cat calls you, she's making fun of you. She finds you undesirable and is trying to provoke a reaction from you to make you look bad.
LOL Yeah for sure, but in the past. Not now that I'm getting older... LOL
No I have the opposite problem of girls never do that to me. Would be great.
I have been, but not since my thirties (I am 44 years old).
Not catcalled but a couple of girls I interacted with for a couple of mins told me I was cute and I’ve heard women saying I attractive or similar things when walking by near them.
Nope. I’ve never even seen catcalling of either gender in the wild.
I've been catcalled, followed, approached and had my butt smacked in the street. Also had women in cars honking their hooters at me... I mean horn.
No.
This is catcalling men? Looks like total flirting to me.Yeah.. Mostly by girls way younger than me.. Which perfectly explains it lol
On time a food festival/ concert a girl slapped my ass a she walk by.
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