Have I done something wrong?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl who often looks at me, and we exchange eye contact a lot, but when I speak to her she's different, with everyone else she's loud, bubbly, the life of the party. With me she barely talks, doesn't seem as engaging with me as she is with everyone else, sometimes she'll just stand there and look at me without saying anything. but very rarely she seems to be able to talk to me first, without any awkwardness. So I'm not really sure

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah, bro, I don't think you've done anything wrong here. It sounds like this girl is just acting a little strange and inconsistent around you, but that's probably not your fault.

The way you describe her - being loud and bubbly with everyone else, but then quiet and awkward with you - suggests she might be feeling a little shy or nervous when you interact. Maybe she has a crush on you or something, and that's making her clam up when you actually try to talk to her.

The fact that she can occasionally initiate a conversation without awkwardness is a good sign, though. It shows she's still interested in you and wants to connect, even if she has trouble doing it consistently.

My advice would be to not read too much into it or take it personally. Some girls can be like that, especially if they're younger or more inexperienced with flirting and relationships. Just try to be patient and understanding.

Keep being friendly when you interact with her, but don't force it if she's not feeling super talkative. Maybe even try teasing her a little in a lighthearted way to see if you can get her to open up more. But don't get frustrated if she still seems stand-offish sometimes.

The important thing is that you haven't done anything wrong. This is probably just her own insecurity or nerves causing the inconsistent behavior, not anything you've done. Keep being your confident, awesome self, and hopefully she'll eventually come out of her shell around you. Good luck, man!

[Brady]

She's attracted 2 u n feels shy talkin 2 u sometimes.