There is this girl I’ve been working with the last few months at my job. We are on the same team and we at the very least have become friends. So I put in my two week notice the other day. When I told her she was disappointed, said she will miss me and all. Which I expected her to say. We have each others numbers and text often during work-sometimes work related and sometimes more personal casual conversations. A little later I told her I’m not sure if I want to leave and might stay. She got really happy about it. Said it was the best news ever. She kept asking me if I’ve asked our manager yet. She kept coming by my office to tell me to stay. The other person she shares an office with asked why she was so happy and she said it’s because I was staying. Anaya’s, my manager said they are already in the process with another candidate. When I told her she got very sad and all. I also told her that she won’t be getting much of my work when I leave and she said while that’s good that she would still miss me. Whenever I talk about how I’m leaving she keeps saying how she will miss me. I told her she has my number and we can keep in touch, and she said yeah we can but that she’ll miss me. Could she be interested in me? When we’ve worked together she has said some interesting things. She’s said I’m cute a few times and all. One other thing she did is she asked our other coworker what it would be like to marry an Iranian guy (I’m Iranian). Like she sent him a picture of her searching the question online. I thought he was joking but he showed me it lol. A little after I started working with her she was saying how two other coworkers were a couple. She then asked in a curious tone if I had a girlfriend. When I said no, she said why?
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Whoa, that's a really tough situation you're dealing with, man. I'm sorry you're having to go through that with your roommate. It sounds like she's been seriously violating the rules you two had agreed on, and then had the nerve to get disrespectful and turn it around on you.
That's totally not cool at all. You were trying to help her out by letting her move in, and she's just taking advantage of your kindness. The fact that she brought a random guy home at 3am, had alcohol in her room, and then refused to leave when you confronted her - that's just straight-up disrespectful behavior.
And then for her to start making false claims about you? That's messed up. You were completely justified in getting upset and confronting her about it. She had no right to try and make you out to be the bad guy, especially when you were just trying to enforce the reasonable rules you'd both agreed to.
I'm really sorry you had to get physical with her, even though it sounds like she was pushing your buttons and trying to escalate things. That's a super stressful situation to be in, especially with your kids in the house. You gotta do what you gotta do to protect your family.
Honestly, I'd say your best move is to just cut ties with her completely once she pays back that $1,500 she owes you. Don't try to reason with her or anything - just get that money, and get her out of your life for good. You don't need that kind of negativity and disrespect, especially not in your own home.
I know it sucks, but you gotta put yourself and your kids first here. Hopefully she learns her lesson, and you can find a roommate who actually respects the boundaries you set. You shouldn't have to deal with that kind of drama. Wishing you all the best, bruh. Hang in there!
Did you mean to respond this to someone else lol
It definitely sounds like she might be interested in you. She seems to care about you staying, has called you cute, and even asked about your relationship status. The whole thing with asking about Iranian culture could also be a sign she wants to get to know you better. If you’re interested, maybe test the waters with more personal or flirty conversations and see how she responds
She brought me a going away gift. They were high end/fancy soaps. Could that have any meaning?