Any other girls with this problem?

[Anonymous]

I’m very antisocial. Only talk when I’m spoken to. If I have a question I will ask but most of the time I don’t so I’m always to myself. I guess guys laugh at me for being quiet because I’m not attractive enough for them to like me just for me. They think I need to talk to attract someone serious. My thing is leave me alone. Let me be ugly in peace. It’s not like they don’t use those beautiful women with personality. Please let me be. Anyone with problem?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always thought that people that bully have some kind of serious issue because I don’t understand why people choose to be mean. Continue being yourself and I also believe people are not antisocial, I just feel like we’re more reserved for people that are respectful because we like peace. You are selective of the people around which makes you very smart.

You are probably very beautiful so don’t put yourself down. And you are also right about those kinds of men using the women they find “beautiful” in their terms, but that also means they don’t value deeper connections with people, which means they will lack that in a relationship and will probably find someone as equally shallow as them. Other times women are the victim to these shallow thinking men. It’s always the insecure men too. You will never find a beautiful woman or mature man that feels secure in themselves criticizing other women or men. Never. You probably have something they don’t, or else they wouldn’t feel the need to say anything.

[Anonymous]

I'm kind of like that as a guy, but I don't have the same mindset. I used to be consider myself unattractive to mid, but I was able to swing the pendulum. I consider myself to be a combination of intimading and introverted, which causes me to be very unapproachable.

[Asker]

Oh I don’t think I’m ugly. I’m fine with my looks. It’s people bothering me saying I’m not cute enough for them to walk up to me and start a conversation so they make fun of me. I guess they want to know me but feel like if they make the first step they’re lowering their standards cause apparently I’m not that cute. So leave me alone. And they think laughing at me will make me react. It never did and that’s why their feelings towards me grow into hatred. And it still don’t bother me. Just wanted to know if I’m the only one with this problem

[Opinion Owner]

That just sounds like guys being extremely rude. I only really speak when spoken to. I have had women ask me why I didn't talk to any of them after it was know I was leaving. I never did, because I didn't want to be rude or cause any drama. I'm completely fine doing my own thing.

[Opinion Owner]

Unfortunately, my introversion and intimation prevent me from achieving things I would like to.

[Anonymous]

First off. Never cut yourself off assuming what a guy thinks. Most people like to talk about themselves. Ask a guy their opinion on something to break ice. If they are cordial they will reply in a way leaving the conversation open to reply. If disinterested they will be rude. Then you have an idea what a guy is thinking.