Is this a sign of hypocrisy?

[Anonymous]

Why is it considered self-hate if a Black girl doesn’t like Black men or isn’t attracted to them? Is it really self-hate, or why does she get called racist? How is it considered self-hate if she wears her natural coils/curls in public and never denies her Blackness? Also, why don’t people criticize Black women who dye their hair blonde or bleach their skin the same way?

[Anonymous]

It’s not necessarily self-hate. She could just not be into them for a variety of reasons. Also, as a white person, it’s not my place to determine if a black girl hates herself or not.

[RxR0954]

Because men are mad when they don’t get what they want. For example some men back in my country are mad i’m dating a woman who is also white. It’s one insecurity overlapping another.

[QuineJessica]

Agree 💯

[genericname85]

i think it's not necessarily racist. it can be entirely rational. i mean there's some pretty compelling rational arguments for racially choosing your mate. as soon as you let statistics enter your thoughts, that's what it will lead to. that "can" be racist and it will often be seen as racist but it isn't necessarily. so you should inquire if you're being racist yourself instead of listening what others tell you. like i can make great logical and non racist arguments against dating black women from a purely sociological backround. i'd personally still date a black girl but hey. everyone chooses for themself and that's fine.

[QuineJessica]

You have the right to choose any partner of any race or nationality. This is our right which society should respect and it does not make you racist in any way