Why do some girls are attracted to "BAD BOYS"?

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Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

It is psychological, emotional, and sometimes cultural. Only a very small percentage of women can tolerate those types, despite what men influenced by social media may claim. It is just certain personality types that are drawn to certain traits.

Also, many people are confused between being "bad" and having "fun."

miana · Accepted Answer

For the mere saying

"A hero will sacrifice the person they love to save the world, but a villain will sacrifice the world to save the person they love".

The power that comes with it all, the adrenaline.

Twalli · Accepted Answer

It's more exciting to date a bad boy, you notice that when they decide to settle down, bad boys aren't the ones they pick.

Finchie40 · Answer

because girls are natural care takers, she is drawn to a bad boy, because she feels she can help him and take care of him and be there for him, hoping he will calm down and not be so bad anymore, she basically finds him very attractive and she wants to be his girl. The best thing for a guy to do when he is in a relationship with a girl, is to balance in between good guy and bad guy, to keep her on her toes and by your side. Because most girls' get turned off if a guy is too nice or too bad , she wants a guy that she thinks she can fix , never let a girl fix you , meaning do not change yourself to appease her, if you want her by your side. When you allow a girl to walk over you, you are digging your own grave with her. because she will look at you as a child , not man and she will either dump you or spread her legs to another guy that she feels is a man. So to prevent her from doing that to you you got to keep her on her toes looking up to you , she will have no problem getting on her knees for you, if you treat her this way. It works most times

ohsheeT · Answer

There are many different reasons it depends on the girl

What i have seen is something in the girls early part of life something happen to them and they never want it to happen again so they find a man that they know will never let it happen

And sometimes when getting with a bad boy a lot of them

most of them were raised with a single mother

the one raised by a strong single mother.. take no crap type of gal. And only had a few boyfriends is sometimes better. Because he grows up with more respect for his mother

Then you have the bad boys mom who had many boyfriends he grows up being bullied by them and her.
Down deep he hates women he thinks they are all bad and in time becomes mean

And a lot of the girls that just wanted to be protected are abused and worse off

The sad part is there are guys out there that have it together who are not loud they would rather be invisible

not heard or seen who are just as bad or more bad than the bad boys

they are smarter about it
They dont have to prove anything to anyone they dont bring attention to themselves they understand the real meaning of love

If something goes down your not going to hear him get loud or yelling you might see him almost whisper something to someone before he breaks someones nose then whisper something again and walks away depending if the guys on his ass or not he might hit him again or kick him in the face then whisper something and walk away. These are called. The nice guys that finish last... what ever that term is .. not all are that way but a lot of them are.

RavVid · Answer

Female evolutionary psychology pure and simple.

The unconscious limbic brain calls the shots in terms of who we want to fuck and our conscious mind just finds superficial reasons for us wanting to.

As some people put it, the old programming is maladjusted for today's world BUT IT IS RUNNING in every female to this very day.

Back in One Million BC, female survival was very dependant on her choosing a top guy and it was better for her to be one of a harem than being exclusive with a less effective hunter.

RandomGirl42 · Answer

There's an old Waylon Jennings that sums it up for me. And I guess it's just the romanticism and someone who dares to go against the system and all that. I am attracted to anyone "outside of the norm."

Purplemonkey242 · Answer

Have you seen that meme on social media? The hulk is this big, mean, dangerous guy.. then he gets a hug and turns into a regular guy? That. We want to be the reason his pain goes away and fix him. Dangerous is fear from others, exciting and we feel protected. We feel safe and be the only key to turn him into a fluffy teddy bear in our hands.

DishLady · Answer

It's not always a matter of being attracted so much as attracting them. I tend to be a "bad boy magnet" which is why I stay single rather than allow something insane and unhealthy to come about. It takes a toll on my nerves, though, bc I'd love to have a good guy who actually cares for me rather than a bad boy trying to see what he can wrangle out of me... which is nothing.

Berethor · Answer

Because bad boys are masculine, a lot of nice guys are sissies, girls not attracted to that.

HighValue · Answer

Because they want to become a low quality run through garbage person, then complain that they can't get a good man.

dragoblack · Answer

Part of it is the danger factor. The "he could kill me, but hurt me (though he will) because he would love me and protect me (he won't). It's also the fault of romance movies and novels romanticizing & glorifying bad boys as being heros with a kind heart... when they are aggressive, insecure, and objectifying individuals who never want to better themselves.

molonski2 · Answer

Well firstly nothing wrong with " bad boys " they take risk. push boundaries, create , that's exciting.

Anonymous · Answer

Some girls? Check out the novels "dark romance" that have exploded in popularity in recent years. They have literally gone viral, they are almost all written by women, and their audience is almost all women. And check out the online forums where women discuss these novels. The most popular genres are "bad boys" and "alphas". Women may not all want to marry those those guys, but they sure fantasize about them.

aceleon · Answer

dark triad (narcissm, psychopathy, manipulativeness) are very useful tools for survival aka gives sense of power  girls are attracted to power. problem solved.

MissSunshine2 · Answer

The same reason some guys like bad girls. They give you intense chemistry and they’re fun. You learn later that they’re also toxic and best avoided.

foxsquirrell · Answer

Probably because they are more fun. Not serious and boring, or dull. Bad boys are carefree and fun loving. And that attracts girls.

qwerty2469 · Answer

All girls do. Girls only care about what you can provide for them and their children. Bad boys make better decisions. They take better care of your kids, they aren't afraid of telling authorities to go fuck themselves.

loveyouoak · Answer

First, you need to understand female psychology. For example, why do some boys are attracted to "good looking girls"?

robocop666 · Answer

Read the book by FJ shark "How to be the jerk women love" best book on the subject.

WonderingManII · Answer

I think it depends on the girl and what stage of life she is in. Bad boys are not reliable.

FreyaRed · Answer

Bad girls like good guys

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Because they are bad girls

MereAnarchy · Answer

The rest of us are boring.

exitseven · Answer

I wonder if this is just a myth?

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

They're brainless bimbos !!!

Shortkay45685 · Answer

They fun.

sikiş · Answer

Because some girls love getting punch or beating

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Smh 🤦‍♂️.

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