Don't guys have the need to feel safe?

[Rubyx]

I sometimes have the feeling that men don't feel unsafe at all. That is my only explanation why you don't do some kind of behavior to let me feel safe around you or with you. That is no offense but for example I have to tell my boyfriend when he should hug me or let me be in his arms. by the way do you like my hair?

[Anonymous]

Of course a lot of me feel unsafe. But the key is to not let people know you feel or be perceived that way even if you are unsafe or scared. That’s the pressure that is put on men, not only by other men but by women as well. As to why we don’t act in a way to show you your safe or hold you to let you know you’re safe is because we’re not women. Ladies you’re expecting a man to act, to think as you do. We’re not the same. Get that through your heads. As to someone who answered men aren’t constantly vigilant, the hell we aren’t. We have to be very vigilant. Just because we don’t go out there into the world quivering or announcing that we’re scared or feel unsafe doesn’t mean we don’t have to worry. We just don’t show it like you. Yes there are some me who aren’t scared at all, but there are men who are. Being scared isn’t always a bad thing. It’s human nature. I’d say from my experience that women are the ones who aren’t as vigilant. You know how many times I’ve walked up on women w their faces buried in the phone. Someone could easily kidnap them. A lot of men sit w their back to the wall, toward the entrance of a business, always knowing the exit. That’s being vigilant. If you want him to show you that than talk to him. For one gender who claims they communicate better than the other they sure don’t know how to use big girl words to express things. They want the man to read their mind.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Feeling safe is a woman's mentality, men have the constant acceptance that if danger ever arrives to their doorstep, it is not only their job to extinguish the manace but that their family also relies on their defensive strategy, men think way more about how they can make other people safe than they ever think of wanting to be safe, fear is consumed differently for both genders.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Men are not constantly vigilant of others in the same way women are unless they are harshly traumatized. As far as they’re concerned, they’re 100% safe pretty much every day.

[Kaneki05]

Feel that's just a him issue, I'd hug you all the time unless you told me not to.
And yes your hair is stunning.

[Anonymous]

Yes. But most men know they're unlikely to get that from most women today. Unfortunately 20% of men use women. Generally that's the 20% that most women find most desirable (go figure🤷‍♂️😆). 63% of men after enough bad experiences and knowing they won't won't get these needs met opt out of dating altogether. That leaves your gender with about 17% of men you can form a healthy attachment to.

[Larry30]

Men are designed to be aggressive and take risks. But a man needs safety with his woman or he'll never open up to you with his heart.

[In_Trance]

Of course they do