This past week, the first guy (who I really, really like) and I ran into one another and realized that the reason nothing happened between us before was that neither of us was willing to put ourselves out there and we were both afraid the other didn't like us. One of the first questions he asked me, however, was whether the friend and I ever slept together. This question was asked over text message, and I didn't feel like explaining everything to someone who (at the time) I still wasn't sure had feelings for me, particularly over text. So I said no. Now, we're planning to get together next Tuesday. We're not a couple or anything, but I really feel awful for not telling him the truth. The guilt is bothering me a lot (not to mention, I don't want him to find out from someone else) but I also don't want to ruin our first date or bring up something too heavy right away. I don't know what to do. Any advise on what to tell him and how/when to broach the subject would be much appreciated. Thanks!
Should I tell him I slept with his friend before we were together?
This past week, the first guy (who I really, really like) and I ran into one another and realized that the reason nothing happened between us before was that neither of us was willing to put ourselves out there and we were both afraid the other didn't like us. One of the first questions he asked me, however, was whether the friend and I ever slept together. This question was asked over text message, and I didn't feel like explaining everything to someone who (at the time) I still wasn't sure had feelings for me, particularly over text. So I said no. Now, we're planning to get together next Tuesday. We're not a couple or anything, but I really feel awful for not telling him the truth. The guilt is bothering me a lot (not to mention, I don't want him to find out from someone else) but I also don't want to ruin our first date or bring up something too heavy right away. I don't know what to do. Any advise on what to tell him and how/when to broach the subject would be much appreciated. Thanks!
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