People I graduated with are constantly saying "Why is she dating him? I know he's nice, but she could do so much better..." My friend even assumed I was embarrassed of him. My friends even try to get me to ditch him whenever we're at the bar.
I feel incredibly stupid for complaining about this, because I love his personality. He'd drop the world for me. He quit smoking weed and partying for me. He got a job because I wanted him to, even though he could have just lived off of his parents' money. He started going to the gym. He brings me coffee. He was there for me while I still wasn't completely over my ex. He was there for me when my grandpa died... He's perfect in every way except for his looks.
He's 240lbs, and 5'9. I'm about 107, and 5'4. I'm not attracted to white guys, especially blond ones with blue eyes. But I'm fully aware that I can't expect his looks to change.
Basically, has anyone else been in this situation? What should I do? Am I crazy?
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