well, I used to feel regretful about not talking to my biggest high school crush.
i liked him so much. he seemed like a serious guy but I know that deep inside, he was this really sweet and awesome guy. he seemed so nice and full of pride in his accomplishments. he was almost perfect. (I feel rediculous as I type this. D:) but as you can see, I liked him alot.
its been two years since we graduated but I feel like I am barely getting over him.
i never saw him again after high school. he left to the military. I have had recurring dreams about him since I was in high school.
every time I had a new crush, I would still dream about this guy. I was so annoyed with this. it was hard to move on.
but sometimes I wish I wouldve told him how I felt. I had the feeling he kind of liked me too. but I wasn't so sure. it couldve been just me being hopeful. so I just took it as he wasn't interested. he had a girlfriend at the time anyway. so there wasn't much I could do. but I knew at the time that if I didn't tell him how I felt then, I was always going to regret it because I would never see him again. but I still didn't.
but since its been so long since I've last seen him, I feel rediculous for continuing to think about him since he's probably somewhere in Iraq? (idk. correct me if I'm wrong about this war stuff.)and he probably didn't feel the same way anyway. I don't know. I guess I still secretly wish I can see him once more. but whatever. I try not to think about him. I know I'll never see him again. (but sadly a part of me still hopes for it.)
sorry for the long post. but it reminded me of past feelings...
when I was 13 , he was my classmate. He was overweight but lovely. He cared for me specially that much but I didn't accept him. Soon he dropped out school. Several days ago, I saw him passing the shopping Mall, handsome and attractive. I regret for my dull and immature mind. haha... Anyway, time heals. . . I just hope everyone could meet his special one when they were young. then they could grow up together, know each other very well before marriage.
When I was 15, my deskmate told one of my girlfriends that he liked me so much and I attracted him so much. And he was so shy to tell me. Damn it, several months later, he became the boyfriend of the one he told, my girlfriend. And I was never told by anybody about his feelings before I noticed mine.
When I was 18, I liked the boy sitting beside me so much, (he was always quiet and showing a big sweet smile) and I told him immediately I set my mind to be his girlfriend. But too late, he got his special one already. damn it. I just lost to time. When I was immature and pure, I missed ones liked me. When I was ready to love, everybody was not there anymore.
Life is too short to miss. we got no time to waste in dealing with the suspicious thoughts. Grasp the one you want to hold in your arms. Never let him/her slipe away. Life is a journey on a one-way street.
I think someone regrets someone they truly care about and they had true feelings for. People say "oh I don't live with any regrets" and those are usually the people that don't really care, especially when its someone you let go.
And the whole "if its meant to be" thing is not on my side these days. I met a girl and we hit it off amazingly, so much fun together and so compatible. I started seeing her right after her 3 year relationship to a guy that was nice to her but also wasn't nice to her. I had never approached a girl before, she was the first random girl I approached (mind you I saw her at work a few times). So her just getting out of a relationship, me approach this girl and us hitting it off like no other...does that not mean it was meant to be? apparently not because a few months ago she got scared at the sight of something serious and needs time to herself as she hasn't been single in years.
I regret liking someone to begin with. I never wanted to let her go, even when she told me to, but I had to and still I regret it. even if it was what she wanted. talk about being attracted to someone :(
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