Similar thing happened to me. I recently sterted a masters at a new school and met this girl whom i kinda liked, so i got close to her friends and got invited to things. I got the oportunity to talk to her and realized we have a lot in common. We talk via e-mails (oldschool but fine, i enjoy it anyways) she started most conversations at first so i got a little more confident. She even would tell me to come with her friends to pubs and stuff like that. But whenever i see her at the university, which is not that often, she always just says hi and then sort of hides at her office, even if some of her friends stay and chat with me. At first i was confused, mixed signals always confuse me. What i've noticed though is that she gives me a very warm smile and she kind of looks nervous before hiding in her office. I think she likes me but dunno how to act. I suppose its better to domt go near her at school and jurt approach her outside of it. I don't mind, as I personally don't like to mix personal with work life.
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She might just be really super shy. Some girls just don't know how to act when it comes to romantic feelings. She's probably also scared and unsure of what to say or do. If you really like her and want something to happen beyond the flirting, try to do things a little differently to make her more comfortable. Ask her questions about stuff she likes, buy her something cute and thoughtful from the store (doesn't have to be expensive) and most importantly, tell her how much you really like her. She might not really know how much you like her which could keep her from being completely open with you. She might just need a little watering and sunlight so she can open up a little. Let me know how it works out!
All you need to know is that healthy relationships don't involve unnecessary drama and this girl is nothing, but. I feel for her because she doesn't even know what she wants. Her pattern of behavior is someone who doesn't trust so even if she likes you, she doesn't know how to be with you without the drama. When you consider the fact that her ex was a drug abuser then it all makes sense, don't you think? I'm not sure what you're into, but if you pursue her, know that it will be a roller coaster ride that will end in someone crying their eyes out.
I don't think you did anything wrong! more like I feel she is devoloping feelings for you and is afraid you won't return them, ask her on a date or to go and get coffee sometime. talk to her! My second theory is that maybe something tramatic happend between you two? maybe something you didn't quite pick up on, but I would definitely just go up to her and say you were sorry for anything you might have done wrong and maybe you want to make it up to her and then ask her on a date!
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I will do that if I have a crush on a guy whom I think likes me but I can't be with him.But everyone is different.
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